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im afraid
im 14/f
yes.im afraid of breaking up with my bf. i mean, i have all this support from my friends but im more concerned about his feelings.i have perfect reasons for wanting to break up with him, but at the same time i dont. and when i do i dont kno if i shold call him or message him, or what.im scared hes gonna get sad and ill be the bad guy. what should i do
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i advise you to break up with him. i had this problem. you never know he might be thinking the same thing you are. just talk to him over the phone or in person. no matter how nervous you are. good luck ma.
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Well hun, breaking up isn't always easy ecpecally if he's sesitive. Normally guys won't be happy about break up unless they did it or unless they were gonna do it soon anyways. try not 2 worry about his feelings to much... if being with him is not wat YOU want then break up with him. Do it in person its not always easy but its the best way do it nicly and not mean. Don't wait any longer or you might feel bad or even more than you already do. Just be nice do it in person and well that's really all i can say. He probably will be sad but he will move on.
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I thin kyou should sit down with him face to face, in a private place and tell him how you feel. Assure him that you dont want to hurt his feelings, but it just isn't working out.
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Hey
I've been in the same situation.
I wanted to dump my girlfriend, and I had good reasons as well. I didn't want to though in fear of hurting her feelings. I, like you, had support from friends.
If you have good reasons to break up with him, then I say you need to go for it, because staying in the relationship is wrong.
Also.. if you don't ever want to be in a situation, such as a relationship, then you don't have to be.. and you can end it if you want.
If breaking up is what you truly want, then you need to trust your heart, and worry about someone else's feelings later, no matter how selfish that may sound.
The best of luck to you!
--Jack
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Call him.
If you have valid reasons for breaking up with him, then just do it.
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