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Relationship
There is this kid that i am with and i like him but my parents dont let me date so ive been hiding it. im 15 and im a sophmore and i feel like they just dont understand how it is these days to date...what do i do and how could i ever tell them so that theyd understand?
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i agree with babykiwi. parents may be frustrating and controlling but its only because they wanna control you down the right path lol. what i would suggest is to talk to either parent and let them know you understand thier concerned for your well being but theres tis guy you know and that you want to bring him over to the house...your parents can get to know him and so on. jus make sure he acts decently and can get on thier good side lol. good luck love =)
Belkis
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parents just dont want to see you get hurt. young relationships often end up with people having thier hearts broken. they will understand becuase the where once that age. they know what your going through and they know what mgiht can happen. try sitting them down and telling them how you feel about this guy im sure they will let you see him. but dont do anything that will make them regret letting you have this guy as a boyfriend.
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Believe me, they understand. They were once 15, and know what it's like to want to date but not be allowed to, but they also know that usually there is a good reason for not being allowed to.
You are 15- they want you to enjoy being a kid while you still are, because you won't be for long. They love and care about you, and only want what is best for you. Dating at young ages is not often really what is best, especially when it comes down to "everyone else is doing it."
Someone said you shouldn't hide it, because they'll find out and all trust will go out the window. How right they are! You don't want to lose your parents' trust by hiding a boyfriend. They will be less apt to allow you to do anything at all, let alone date, out of lack of trust.
Lying and hiding it also shows immaturity, exactly what you DON'T want to show. Be mature and tell them what is going on.
Sit them down and tell them there is a boy you roll with at school, and you wish you could go on an official date with him. Said date could be him coming to your home and taking dinner and spending the evening with you AND your family. That would give your parents a chance to get to know him.
If they say no, don't beg, whine, and complain. That also shows immaturity. Ask them why, and try to understand their reasons. If you want them to understand you, you have to give them the same respect by wanting to understand them.
ygs-29/f
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The first thing to do, is to break it to them slowly. Tell them that you want to talk to them about something which has been troubling you. Now, explain to them that you've been have these feelings for this guy and you really want to date him.
Now naturally, they will say 'no' or 'out of the question', but don't give up there. Be bold enough to ask them what they felt when they young and they met each other. Also, make tell them that you need to grow up and learn about what a relationship is about.
You're in love and nothing should stop you. Make them see that you're very serious about this relationship and you want it to work between you.
hope this helps,
triquetra
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i wouldn't continue hiding it.
Chances are,eventually they would find out and trust you less than ever and think your too immature to date if you have to go sneaking around.
I would sit them down and try to explain to them in terms that they can understand,simply that its different now a days and that you understand there concern but you think your mature enough to start dating and you have already developed feelings for a boy and are asking for the privlage of being able to date him.
--any more questions?Feel free to ask if you think my advice helped in any way
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