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fingering..
okay...so im 15 about to be 16...an ex boyfriend has already eaten me out..and it felt sooo good..but i have been with my recent boyfriend for 4 months now and we are starting to get serious...he started to finger me the other day...he was only using like 2 fingers, and it hurt. so he tried only one and it still kinda hurt. is that normal? should i do something to help it?
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yep yep yep itz very normal. i dont know if you think pain is good, lol, but just tell him to be more gentle with you. maybe he'll understand. good luck!
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he might have been doing it too hard- or in the wrong places too soon. You might need to be REALLY REALLY REALLY hot and bothered before it won't hurt. Or maybe if you do not truly WANT to go that far with him at this point- your body could be reacting with pain. If you're feeling cautious or anything that's probably the cause of this natural reaction.
Try making out longer or have him rub you/tease you really gently through ur underwear before you get to 3rd. Just make sure you're horny as hell and it shouldn't hurt.
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That's completely normal. Tell him to go slower at first and once you're comfortable, take it from there. Just make sure to let him know when it hurts so he can slow down a bit, or try something else.
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thats perfectly normal. ur just tight and the more he fingers you the less it will hurt because he is opening it up and loosing you. dont worry you'll be fine.
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