Question Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 11:03 pm
i like this guy named Matt. He is a year older than me and lives down the road. I really like him but he is one of my best friends ex's. I talk to him on the bus but i don't know how to tell if he likes me. I'm scared to tell anyone that i like him cause i'm scared of how they well react. Should i go for it and tell him how i feel or what? AND How will this effect my best friend?
signed,
Ashley
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Uniq_The_Geek answered Sunday January 27 2008, 11:50 am: o man, this isnt good hehe. well huni, first off the whole 'dating my friends ex' idea isnt good. might start problems between your friend and you, and it just might make you look bad, i suggest you dont go for it. but hey, who am i to judge you?> therefooooooore hehe tell him how you feel. the worst thing that can happen is him being a jerk and bragging about him rejecting you. hopefully he's not one of those guys. if he is known to be 1, dont say anyth, keep ur friendship safe with your friend, and move on. hope i helped and good luck
orphans answered Sunday January 27 2008, 9:23 am: If you like Matt, then you should tell him how you feel, he would probably like that depending on the situation...and since you guys are already best friends, than why not? But if you think that telling Matt how you feel will jeopardize your friendship with him, hold off until it feels right.
As for your best friend, you should talk to her about it [but don't let her change your mind because he is not her property] she will most likely be confused and a little hurt, but in time she will get over it. Trust me.
Good luckk [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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