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My feet smell sometimes. What should I do? (link)
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I have the perfect product for you; it will keep your feet happy, healthy, smooth and silky, and always smelling fresh. It's called, "Bare Foot, Foot Scrub" the brand name is "Freemans" and it's been mentioned in Seventeen Magazine and it works great. They have many different kinds, like Peppermint and Plum, and Lemon and Sage, and a bunch of others -- they're perfect.
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I would like to know, which is better at cramps, midol or pamprin? If you have an answer, that would really help a lot. (link)
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Midol is always the best to use for cramps and all menstrual aches -- it is very good, I definitely recommend it.
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So im a 22 year old guy and my girlfriend and I have been having sex for about a year now. She is on the pill and we also use condoms. However, yesterday afternoon things got heated and we failed to use a condom. she also missed a pill early on in the week. It has been two weeks since her period. I did not cum inside her I stoped the whole thing before that happened. Is there anyway she will get pregnant. (link)
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Unfortunately, there is always a chance for her to get pregnant, even with birth control and a condom used (though it is VERY safe, which is great, and it would have to be the littlest chance possible). However, considering she missed a pill (IF she didn't use plan B immediately -- ask her, and if she did, you have a better chance she isn't pregnant), which will throw her whole cycle off and she'll have to go a whole month on it to be totally safe again.
Also, since you didn't use a condom, you chances aren't looking too well, however, do not panic just yet. More than likely, she probably will not get pregnant, but to answer your question -- yes, there is a possiblity she could get pregnant. Have her wait for a week and then take a pregnancy test, and check (if she takes one now, it may be invalid).
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About 4 months ago i cheeted on my boyfriend. He know's all about it and were still together but i still dont no why i kissed the other guy and im still so confused.
Please help (link)
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Well, based on the bit of information you have given us, I would suggest taking a step back and remembering the day that this kiss took place and what we said or what happened before the moment you two kissed, as it led up to it.
Also, I recommend thinking about your relationship and if there may have been anything during that time, that may have made you upset enough or vulnerable enough to kiss another guy.
These two things could help you analyze things better, and hopefully not be as confused. :)
Best of luck!
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He's being really weird around my girlfriend, and she doesn't know it, but he flirts with her all the time. I am afraid if I say something about it, my girl will get mad at me. What should I say without making my problem worse?
I am 16/m (link)
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Rather than talking to your girlfriend about it, considering she doesn't realize he's flirting with her so much, then I would suggest talking to your friend about this problem, as I can definitely understand where you're coming from.
Talk to him (calmly) and let him know that you feel he's being overly flirty with your girlfriend and it is bothering you, and ask him to not do it and take things from there.
Best of luck, my friend.
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what is the easiest way to french braid your own hair? Step by Step instructions with pictures would be amazing!!! also is it different to french braid two down the side as opposed to one down the middle? (link)
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This should help you out, my friend. =)
http://www.ehow.com/video_17115_french-braid-hair.html
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Is there a good free website that teaches online language lessons? I would like to finish french and pick up arabic... any ideas? thanks (link)
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http://www.frenchassistant.com/
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Can anyone tell me the main parts in the book Honey, Baby, Sweetheart ? please help =) (link)
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Here you go, my friend. =)
http://books.simonandschuster.com/Honey-Baby-Sweetheart/Deb-Caletti/9781416957836
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What's the name of the song on last night's 90210 (season 1, episode 20) that was playing when Silver was at the Peach Pit? I think it's a new song and I don't know the name of it or who sings it. Thanks! (link)
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This may help you, my friend.
http://www.stlyrics.com/b/beverlyhills90210songsfromthepeachpit.htm
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I've been reading ads about getting paid to do internet surveys. Is this for real? It feels so badly like a scam, can somebody explain to me what these paid internet surveys are? Where should I go if I want to be safe?
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Honestly, I do not know much about this information in depth. However, I do know that most of these sites are scams, but there are quite a few that are real -- you get paid very little for those ads and probably aren't even worth it, in my opinion.
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ok so my best friend seems and i are extremely close.she knows well everything about me and the same goes for me and about her.well it seems as though every time i tell her i like again she seems to be crushing on the same guy lets say a day or two later.she even sometimes tells me the same day i told her.it started about last night at first it didnt bother me much.we are some kids and boys dont phase me.but then she started doing it to my other friends.even our one friend who rarely admits her feelings or such.thats when it started really making me mad.then i got over it.well now i like this guy new guy we will call him pretzel boy(he works at a pretzel shop haha) he is 17 and im gonna turn 15 in a few months so only a few months.well now she likes him and my other two friends who dont really do that.one of them being the girl who dont show her feelings.well she did a complete 360 and is totally the oppisite.now they are commenting/messaging this boys myspace saying how sexy they think he is and flirting with him.well it really gets me mad.i really just want to know what i can do maybe to help my problem.
thank you :) (link)
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I think you need to talk to her and let her know that she needs to understand how bad this is making you feel, and that friends should come first, especially best friends like the two of you. If she doesn't want to to listen to you or do anything about it, I would tell her that you two can't be friends anymore, considering she needs to change.
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[16/f] Okay, so I got my period about two weeks late this month, which is weird because I've pretty much been regular for a good two years now. Anyways, I just got it this morning, and tomorrow I am leaving for vacation on a 6 hour plane flight. Will the higher altitude and/or turbulence affect my period in anyway? Thanks in advance! (link)
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No, it shouldn't affect it at all, my friend. You'll be just fine.
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If the chances of becoming pregnant are around 25% likely each month, would it be 75% likely after 3 months?
Is that how it works? (link)
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Here is an article that I just looked up for you. Well, a piece of an article.
"Ovulation is prime time for pregnancy
Every female has a menstrual cycle. During this cycle, a woman's egg matures and is released into the fallopian tubes -- a process called ovulation. This is the time that she is most likely to become pregnant. A woman's egg is viable (or alive) for up to 24 hours in her body. Every woman is different, but a menstrual cycle occurs approximately every 28 days, ovulation occurs around day 14, and menstruation is at the end."
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I used to like this song, but I can't think of who sings it or the name of it. I remember one part that went...
"olly olly oxen free"
if you know the channel fuse they used to play it on there. I think it'd be considered rock, or something like that. It's been buggin me for a while and i've tried searching for it, but no luck so far. If you know the song please let me know. Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance :) (link)
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I believe it is called Papercut Skins.
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What would be a good hair lotion to moisterize my hair everyday. There is this olive oil one at a drug store but i do not know if it would be good for my relaxed hair. It is really damaged and i need one with out mineral oil because they said it is bad for hair. also can use use leave in conditioner and hair lotion together? and how often shoud a person use protein treatments?
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Actually, if you have a leave in conditioner, you can use it only and it should keep your hair looking great. Herbal Essences Leave-in Conditioner, from their Straight hair cair line, I believe. It works wonderfully on my hair, would definitely recommend it to you.
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Is this wierd:
About a month ago when I was menstruating, I was about to go into the shower one morning, and i just stood in my bathroom naked in front of the mirror, took some blood from "down there" with my finger, and painted myself with it. I made four dots on each of my breasts, a small heart on my upper chest, a circle around my bellybutton, and a line going down the back of my spine (bottom part.) I dont know why I did it, I just did. What is your opinion? (link)
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Well, in my opinion, it wouldn't be something that I would do. It seems a bit strange to me, not something I would ever do again, if I would happen to do it once, but this is just me, my friend. Only my sole opinion for myself.
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i whant to mastrobate but i dont know if i should or should not so what should i do (link)
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The option is totally and completely yours, my friend. Either choice is not a wrong one. You should do what you feel like. In my opinion, I do not see anything wrong with this and it is the safest type of sexual activity there is, so my answer to your question is if you really want to, then go ahead, if you don't really want to or feel uncomfortable with it, then do not do it.
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This is prob. going to sound really nasty but,
when me and my boyfriend have sex on the floor
and im laying flat down on the floor when i get up after sex my pussy makes like a farting noise and it was SO embarrassing. And I mean there is like nothing I can do to stop itt.
Any advice? (link)
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This is called a "vaginal fart" and is totally normal, it's unfortunate at times, but completely okay.
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I read somewhere that late night talk show host Craig Ferguson once was a guest on Conan O'Brien's show, years ago. It said that in this episode Craig Ferguson made Conan O'Brien laugh so hard he could barely talk. I'm trying to find and watch this specific episode but I can't find it anywhere. Does anyone know a site that could help me find it? I tried youtube and the cbs and nbc websites already. (link)
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Here is a list that should help you.
http://www.reelseo.com/list-video-sharing-websites/
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My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and it was amazing! The only not so good part of it is I got pregnant. I used three different kinds of tests and they all said I was pregnant. I am not sure what to do. I am so afraid to tell my mom because I am only 14 and she wants the best for me. Please! I really don't know what to do and I'm scared. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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My friend, even though you chose to have sex at such a young age, I still sympathize with you deeply as I know you must be very scared at this point. I think that you should really tell you mom, especially if you're going to have the baby (and if so, then you would have to go about either adoption or if you wanted to keep it).
Of course, you have the option of getting an abortion, which I wouldn't say is the best decision, however, I can understand if that's what you choose to do. I do believe that either way you mom should know, understandably she will be upset, however, she will support you and help you with the decisions you need to make.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope that things work out for you.
Talk to you mom -- she will understand and help you.
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