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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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Im going to visit my family in california and im going to disneyland. Do they have water rides or roller coasters there?

Yes they do. ♥//

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Is it possible to not be able to kiss someone because their nose is "too big"? I haven't kissed anyone yet but I've heard stories of girls that's noses were "in the way" when they were trying to make out with their boyfriends. So0rry if this sounds stupid it's just, my boyfriend made a comment about mine && now I'm kind of self-counsious (sp??) about it.

No because when you are kissing your heads are't straight .. you just tilt your head side ways even tho you do turn your head and stuff the nose isnt in the way! ♥

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13/m I masturbate sometimes but sometimes i feel bad about it. Is it a sin? Is this normal?

Well .. in the Bible its a sin and stuff but dont feel bad about it! Its normal and completly healthy for you! ♥//

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hey, i wanted to get a job at walmart after i turn 15 in december.. does anyone know what age they start hiring at?

thanks a bunch

Here at Missouri you have to be 16.. so you probablly have to be 16 there too. And I know that you need parental permission. ♥//

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sorry for the weird question but how far do you put a tampon in ? =/ this is weird lol! x0x

Push it in far as it can go and when you see the string stop then its in all the way! ♥//

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im 13 years old and im a girl. i just want 2 know if there is any jobs that i could get at my age. and please dont say babysitting because i dont really want 2. please and thanks!

You cant get an acual job until you are 16 so for now you're stuck with little things such as.. you could clean around the house and help out and ask your mom to pay you! If you have some neighbors with dogs you could walk them and stuff. Babysitting is a good job tho. I mean you get payed good and its easy! Just stick to those things until you are old enough! ♥//

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My boyfriend is really fast. and like is always horney. we are in 8th grade and he tried to finger me =\ and then he braged about how he tried to his friend. next time should i let him? should i talk to him about thet bragging thing? PLEASE HELP ME !!

If you feel comftrable with it then you can let him. Honestlly I wouldnt. He would keep bragging and bragging and one day it will get to the wrong person and you never know what people might say. You should defenetlly talk to him and tell him he needs to stop bragging! ♥//

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eh, i think my boyfriend likes someone else. what should i do?

You need to find out if he really does first. Even tho if you ask him he will deny it probablly so the best way is .. is to ask his really close friend and let him find out. ♥//

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would i be considered bisexual or a lesbian cuz i like guys its just that i am also attracted to large round breasts.
help mmmmmeeeee!!!!!!!1

thanks.

Yea a little but who does like big boobs! I mean come on! ♥//

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i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months on wednesday...i told him we were taking a break and then when the time is right we would get back together. then yesterday, this guy asked me out and now we're together (we liked each other even when i was in the relationship but i wasnt going to cheat on my ex) but were keeping it low because it was definatly rushing into things. we were basically "together" for a while anyway it just wasnt offical. but anyway, today my friend is having a party at his house aand he asked my if it was ok if he invited my ex and i said sure, obviously not thinking. So both my ex and my current bf are going to be there. my bf is gonna wanna cuddle or something to watch fireworks and my ex doesnt know were together yet because were tryin to lay low. how do i prevent a big mess from become a HUGE one? please- anything will help!!

Dont worry about it tho. I mean your ex will find out sooner or later so let him find out tonight. Since you guys are'nt together you shouldnt feel quilty or anything. Nothing bad will happen because your ex should just understand that since you arent dating anymore that you can go and date other guys. If he gets mad or something then hes just being jelous! But have fun at the party! ♥//

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Hi, I really want to get a Yorkie, maybe a teacup yorkie, or a mini yourkie. Does anybody know about how much they cost, not including the pet supplys. and if anyone has one are they good pets? And does anyone have any names for dogs? Thank you!!

Thats the dog I want to get and I probablly might!! It just depends from where you are getting the dog from. They are about $500-1,000! They are kind of pricy but its all worth it. They do make really good pets and plus they are super adorable! They just really like to play a lot and they like attention. I would help you with the names but Im not sure for a girl or a boy! ♥//

You can go to this website! http://www.divapup.com/puppies_yorkshire_terriers.htm

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how do you break up with someone but be nice about it? what should you say?

Okay... well just please dont use the " I sitll want to stay friends" break up line. It usually never happens! Let the person know exacly why you are breaking up with them and since its summer you just dont want to end up doing anything stupid that would hurt them. Say I just think that we should date other people but we could still be friends if you want. Just keep talking to them and stuff! ♥//

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Right heres a run-down. Recently i (16) ended a long distance relationship that had been going on for almost a year, to be with someone closer. But it all went horribly wrong( the closer relationship) and i was single again.I felt terrible not because it had ended but becasue of what i'd given up for it. I loved the person who was living long distance away and was ashamed at myself for what i had done. So i asked the girl from the long distance relationship to give me one more chance and thank the gods she did. My question however. Is i still feel guilty for what i did to this girl..Even though its in the past and seh has given me the second chance. I know what i did was wrong and i know that I hurt her. Because i love her it hurts me so badly inside. I dont know how my present gf feels though i just want to know. And i don't know what to do.. Any help will be appreciated!!
anthony

Aww.. I think thats so cute! Your present girlfriend should understand that you really love your girlfriend.. now and that you guys have been together for almost a year and that you both just really love each other. Apologize to your ex and tell her that if you hurt her you didnt mean to but you just couldnt let go of your girlfriend! She will understand and she will respect that. Im sure your girlfriend forgives you and everything but just try doing nice things for her even tho you are long distance. You just have to make sure she knows that you really love her and you would never do such a stupid thing like that again! ♥//

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ok wel im trying to lose 40 pounds and most of it over the summer. i do 500 crunches in the morning and at night and i eat good and i swim alot. what should i do.?
ill rate high if its good.

You are on a good start so continue doing that! Go to this website. http://www.toneteen.com/ it has everything. All the exersises and the foods you can eat! ♥//

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I have a boyfriend and hes nice but when we go to the movies like with him me and my friends he doesnt talk to them or at least say hi all he does in concentrate on me and my friends absolutely hate him for that. whenever i mention his name my friends will be like eww i hate him so much or they will tell every 1 that hes gay! Yah i think it is mean to not talk to my friends cause they are my best friends but hes not there for my friends hes there for me! But i dnt noe how to make my friends understand and to make them like him. Thanks

Your friends have no reason to be calling him all that stuff and being ignorant towards him. He might be shy around them and feel uncomftrable or maybe he just doesnt like them because of all the stuff they say about him. I wouldnt like that eather. Tell your friends one one more time. He isnt always supposed to talk to them and if he says hi then thats just fine! Also talk to your boyfriend and tell him to try to get along with your friends a little more. ♥//

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my sisters dont talk at all they got in a fight and its been a month and their still not talking! My family is thinking of cancelling our cruise just because of them. I think thats not fair at all and i was looking forward for the cruise with all of them. Now its my job to get them to talk so we can all be back together and go on that cruise! But how? My older sister wont give of what im saying she is tuff and will not listen to me! So what should i do? I have already talked to my parents and their just doing nothing... so its up to me... and i need help so if u guys would please help me! Thanks

Maybe you shouldnt be nice to them anymore. I'd make them get along no matter how hard it might be. Just tell them.. look stop being a f*cken baby and stop getting mad! We all want to go on the cruise and since both of you are acting so childish we cant! Get your act together and get over it! < Say something like that! It works.. seriously. They need to act mature and that cruise will probbally be fun for your whole family so just try your harderst to make them get along. Good luck! ♥//

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im going to dump this guy today. i cant get him on the phone tho. he isnt online, so i dont know what to do. tonight i have a date with another guy but i dont like cheating so i wanted to dump the other guy first. please help!

Hm.. if he wont asnwer his phone just leave him a message or something. See if he is home if he is just go over there if you can or have a friend tell him while you are on the date if you dont reach him. But have fun on the date!! ♥//

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EEk I have alot of blackheads and the facewash im currently using isnt working! DO u know anything that works beter? Like gets rid of the blackheads? Please! THanks

Try using a different face wash. I use Clean n Clear blackhead scrub wash. It works. You have to wash your face reguarly tho. Like twice a day and keep your face healthy. Dont over due on the makeup! ♥//

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Can one get sick from eating old graham crackers? They're probably about 3 months old, and I guess the package was left open. haha They're not dusty, but they're soft and chewy, very bizzare...

Dont eat them.. they probablly have germs and bacteria all over them. Just dont eat them! =) ♥//

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whats a prude? is it a bad thing?

Prude is when you wouldnt do anything with a guy or girl. Meaning.. kiss,anything sexual pretty much. It could also mean you wont hug a person or anything. Its kinda of being extremly shy. And yes it is a bad thing at times! ♥//

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