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How does she feel??
Right heres a run-down. Recently i (16) ended a long distance relationship that had been going on for almost a year, to be with someone closer. But it all went horribly wrong( the closer relationship) and i was single again.I felt terrible not because it had ended but becasue of what i'd given up for it. I loved the person who was living long distance away and was ashamed at myself for what i had done. So i asked the girl from the long distance relationship to give me one more chance and thank the gods she did. My question however. Is i still feel guilty for what i did to this girl..Even though its in the past and seh has given me the second chance. I know what i did was wrong and i know that I hurt her. Because i love her it hurts me so badly inside. I dont know how my present gf feels though i just want to know. And i don't know what to do.. Any help will be appreciated!!
anthony
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I think that you need to tell her again and talk to her about why you did it in the first place, but most of all ( and i don't mean to be horrible ) you have to stop being so insecure about yourself because this girl obviously loves you alot or she wouldn't have given you a second chance so you need to rely on the fact that SHE DOES LOVE YOU
Hope this helps =)
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just talk it out with the girls and they'll help you out.
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She probably feels happy that you are back with her Anthony. You did what you thought was a good thing for you at the time. A lot of long distance romances just don't make it. Yours just might. Since shes giving you another chance she must care for you a lot.
You probably will feel guilty for awhile, but it will pass. Just shower her with attention and show her you care and I think you will do okay. Don't keep apologizing for what happened because she probably would just like to forget it happened. You may not forget, but don't let it take over your life either. It was a mistake, its over, get on with being happy! :)
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Well what I would do is just keep telling her you love her, and show her too.. like write her little letters and stuff and maybe send her flowers or teddy bears or jewlery or something.. and whenever you visit her, or she visits you just hug her and hold her hand and stuff, just don't mention it, because then you'll bring back bad memories and that'll probably make her feel upset, and you don't want to do that. So don't bring it up, unless she does, and if she does just be like," I know. I can't beleive I ever dumped you. I'm just so happy that you gave me anotehr chance. I love you." ( not exactly those words.. but.. ya know what I mean ) and I mean, if she's not bringing it up, maybe she just put it behind her..cause the past it the past. But just don't show her you're happy she gave you another chance, make her feel like it too =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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Aww.. I think thats so cute! Your present girlfriend should understand that you really love your girlfriend.. now and that you guys have been together for almost a year and that you both just really love each other. Apologize to your ex and tell her that if you hurt her you didnt mean to but you just couldnt let go of your girlfriend! She will understand and she will respect that. Im sure your girlfriend forgives you and everything but just try doing nice things for her even tho you are long distance. You just have to make sure she knows that you really love her and you would never do such a stupid thing like that again! ♥//
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