I have made many mistakes in my life. Weather its from friends(talking about them) to family (fighting with them). I just don't wanna loose any friendships over it. 13/f - Becca
Dont worry, we ALL make mistakes and lose friends at some time in our life! I have, too (alll the time.) The way you prevent this from happening is figuring out WHY you are losing friends and relationships? Do you keep making the same mistake over again? If so, try to figure out this mistake or ask a friend you lost..and hopefully once you figure it out, you can fix it so it doesnt happen again! Good luck!
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hi my problem is me and my bf have been going out for moths and and i want sex but i think he odusnt
Well, you have to respect your boyfriends feelings. Im sure YOU are not the reason he doesnt want to have sex..he just might not be ready for it yet. So, you cant pressure him to do anything he doesnt want to do. Because, if he was pressuring you to have sex and you didnt want to, it would be extremely difficult for you to deal with. You have to be patient. If you wait, it'll be more special. I promise you! :]
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my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice?
I think its fine if you WANT to be helped. She might just be trying to be a good friend sincerely! So, Id take up the offer. Give her the benefit of the doubt and dont get offended by it. If she acts cruel while shes pointing out your imperfections, then shes not a very nice person. If that happens, dont let her manipulate you.
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i am goin into the ninth grade and i still hav like no chest. its sooo embarassing. Is there like any chance that ill grow more befor school starts? its weird because iv already had my period, but i hav no chest.
Its okay. We all bloom at different times. Even if you have had your period, that doesnt mean your breasts grow. But, it will be soon if youve had it. Youre breasts grow until youre like 18-20 usually so you still have time! Youre probably on the thin side which is why you dont have a chest. Also, the size is usually genetic. If youre mom has small breasts, chances are you will too.
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so is it true that when people have low self esteem that they tell other people that they are ugly just to make themselves feel better?
♥if thats true . theres one girl whos always telling me how ugly i am . well i dont want to sound conceited because im not but i know im pretty . and yeah . but she doesnt think shes pretty and she has told me that before but she acts like shes all that and has to call other ppl names and i guess it makes herself feel good?
♥much love
Yep. Unfortunately, you have to get used to it because there will be LOTS of people in your life who try to bring you down to make themselves feel better. Obviously, this girl is extremely insecure and feels like if she tells people they are ugly, she suddenly becomes prettier. But, beauty on the inside is what really counts. And obviously, she doesnt have that. Dont worry about people like that. Just ignore her because Im sure youre gorgeous. :]
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i have strechmarks on my boobs . and alotta guys know about it . they think its wierd until i explain it to them that they grow to fast!♥are guys just immature
Aw, Im sorry. But really, every girl gets them! I would think that guys would LIKE the stretch marks! It means theyre getting bigger. Ha. And yes, boys are SO immature. They expect girls to be perfect aliens who dont have any imperfections or flaws such as stretch marks, etc. Little do they know..But all they see is media like celebrities and models.
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as you guys all know.
the school year's starting soon.
and i want to be a whole new me ! :)
i want to get highlights.
& have a new found style.
i want to decorate my locker.
& i want your help. :)
any ideas:
on styles, locker decorations,
nice highlight colors for dark brown hair?
[i'm thinking a bit blonde or red].
helP. :D
Hm. Well Im sure youre gorgeous but the picture link did not work.
For highlights, I dont think red will look great. Its just my honest opinion. If its dark brown, dont go for blonde either. I think caramel colored highlights would look pretty. :] Because dark and light will clash.
To decorate your locker, find cool things at places like target. You can find a case to put your makeup in, a magnetic mirror, a pad of paper to write little notes to yourself, lots of extra pens and pencils, I always have an extra shirt - haha I know its stupid but you never know. You might need it if your other shirt gets a spill or whatnot. Those are pretty much all the locker essentials.
For make-up, go natural. Too much makeup for school makes you look fake. Go for a neutral color eye shadow, clear gloss, foundation, blush and mascara. No blue or green eyeshadows or red lips! Keep it natural colors. :]
How to put on foundation:
1. Begin with clean hands and a clean face.
2. Apply moisturizer appropriate to your skin type. Let it set a few minutes, particularly if your skin is oily.
3. Camouflage under-eye circles and blemishes with concealer. (Image 1)
4. Select a foundation that is appropriate to your skin type and the coverage you wish to achieve. The color should match your skin, disappearing when blended well. (Image 2)
5. Shake the bottle well to mix the formula. Or, simply open a stick or compact version.
6. Place a small amount of foundation on the back of one hand. Dip your makeup sponge or your middle finger into it.
7. Apply to the center of your face: cheeks, forehead, chin.
8. Blend out to your hair and jawline until the foundation vanishes. Pay special attention to blending around the nose, mouth and jawline. (Image 3)
9. Set the foundation with loose powder immediately following application.
Eyeshadow:
1. Prime the eyelids by dusting them with a small amount of loose powder.
2. Select a light base shadow. Using a shadow brush, sweep it across your entire lid, from brow to lash line.
3. Use a medium-toned shade to cover your lower lids.
4. Contour the crease of your eyelid with a dark shade, using a smaller eye shadow brush. This color can also work as an eyeliner (see the next section for instructions).
5. Blend shadow by stroking the lid gently with an eye shadow brush. Don't use your finger'you could wipe off the shadow entirely.
6. Use a cosmetic puff and a little pressed powder to tone down heavy shadow. Shake any excess powder off the puff, then press it gently on your lid.
1. Consider the types of mascara and select one appropriate for your lashes and the occasion. You have a choice of lengthening, thickening, long-wearing, conditioning and waterproof formulas, among others. For day, you might decide to add length, while a night on the town may require a long-wearing or thickening formula.
2. Select a color. If you have blond or red lashes, opt for brown mascara. Darker-lashed women can consider brown for a casual look, and black or brown-black for more pronounced or dramatic lashes.
3. Curl your lashes with an eyelash curler, if desired, and apply all other eye makeup prior to your mascara.
4. Remove the wand from the tube in one pull. Pumping the mascara will push air into the tube, potentially drying out the formula and introducing bacteria into it.
5. Begin with the underside of your upper lashes, moving the brush slowly upward toward the tips of your lashes. Always hold the wand parallel to your eyelid. Roll the brush slowly on the upward stroke to promote separation of the lashes.
6. Allow the first coat of mascara to dry before applying the second coat in the same manner.
7. Use an eyelash comb to separate the wet lashes. Also blot the lashes with tissue paper if necessary to remove excess mascara.
8. Use less mascara for the lower lashes. Begin where the lashes meet the rim of the lower eyelid, and gently stroke downward.
9. Remove any stray mascara around the eye with a cotton swab dipped in a small amount of eye makeup remover.
Tips:
Contact lens wearers should stick to waterproof mascara formulas, as they break down more slowly, minimizing the chance of any flakes getting into the eyes.
Always remove eye makeup thoroughly before going to bed. This will keep lashes healthier and prevent any mascara from getting into your eyes during the night.
Apply mascara after eye shadow and eyeliner.
Blush:
1. Select a color of blush that resembles the natural glow of your cheeks after you exercise. Consider having a lighter color for day, and a darker tone for a more dramatic evening look. Keep your blush in the same color family as your lipstick.
2. Consider the type of blush best suited to your skin type. Cream blush works very well for drier skin, as it can help to keep skin hydrated. Powder blush is better suited to oily skin.
3. Complete the application of foundation, powder and all eye makeup before applying blush.
4. Use a full, round brush for the application of your powder blush, as it will make for a softer and more professional look than the brush that comes with the blush. This should not be the same brush you use to apply your loose powder.
5. Place a small amount of blush on the brush and gently tap off any excess. Or, place a small amount of cream on your middle finger. (Image 1)
6. Look in the mirror and smile. (Image 2)
7. Place powder blush on the apple of your cheek and gently brush up your cheekbone toward your hairline. Dot cream blush beginning at the apple, and gently blend up the cheekbone toward the hairline. (Image 3)
8. Focus your blush at the outside of your face near your hairline if you have a fuller face. For high cheekbones, concentrate blush in the center of your face to accentuate your bones.
9. Blend a little blush down your cheek for a little more natural, less dramatic look.
Lip gloss is self explainatory!
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i am a 34c and i am 13 years old. 5 feet tall . and way around 107 . personally i tihnk that it to big and all the guys stare at them . i mean i know that i am pretty . i`m not conceited but i`m honest . i want guys to look at my face more . and i do wear revealing shirts . yeah lol but i`m starting to cover up more and realizing that more guys like me for my face lol . any ideas on how to get them to notice my face more instead of my breasts? thanks a bunch
I know how you feel. But unfortunately, boys at 13 are basically only thinking about one thing constantly. Sex. So, of COURSE they want to look at your chest. Its just because of their age/hormones. They have puberty to blame for that. Youre right about not wearing revealing clothes. If you really want to slim your chest, wear black? But honestly, I have NO chest and a lot of girls would do anything to have a chest and be skinny. We always want what we cant have. So, just take it as a compliment. Or you could always say something like, "Im up here." Haha. But thats a little cheesy. :]
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how do i change the sounds of notifications on aim, when people are away, or return from aay, etc?
Bring up an IM screen. (Click on someones screen name as if you were going to talk to them.) Then go to file. Then IM preferences. Then another screen will pop up with lots of options. Then press sounds in the second column. And there will be a drop down list at the bottom. Then you click the sound you want.
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Hey there,
I like this kid. Hes on my swim team, only 2 years older than me, my friends older brother, and his best friend has already hooked up with me. We're good friends. We get along all right and we flirt a bit. he gives me rides to practice and we go out to eat afterwards all the time with friends and his sister. I want to make some sort of move but I dont know what. What kind of move would you want a girl who you're interested in to pull on you?
hiiiiiiii molly :] whos the boy? mike dineen?
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ok i guess im kinda slow
but everyones like talking about "moshing" or "mosh pits" and i have no idea what they are
can someone explain?
Moshing is at a rock concert where everyone goes into a huge circle and just rocks out basically. Ha. Some people get crowd surfed and its basically just a bunch of sweaty people jumping up and down. :] Fun.
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ok. well i was wondering if it's true that you miss chances to grow if you wear a bra at night. like a bra with an underwire and such as you would wear during the daytime. answers are very much appreciated, and thanks ahead of time!
Nope. Thats not true. Your boobs will still grow. But, its really uncomfortable to wear a bra while you sleep.
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Okay this is kind of hard to explain but you know when you search Google for certain specific things and after you are done with the search, the context in which you searched remains in the Google box's history. For example, let's say I searched one day for the terms "latest DVD releases." Then the next day I start to search for something different, but begins with the letter "L" like maybe "Little Mermaid" or something like that and as soon as I type the letter "L" the phrase "latest DVD realeases" pops up as well as some other things I searched for weeks ago and you can even scroll through and see what all you have searched for, aka the "history." Well is there any way I can delete the history for the Google box? It's annoying to see all those things pop up before I search. I don't think it has anything to do with the web page history that all computers have because I just totally cleared it out but the Google hostory things still exists. How can I deleted that or does is just go away by itself? Sorry if I didn't explain that very well.
1. Go to the "Tools" menu.
2. Select "Internet Options" and the "Content" tab.
3. Within the "Personal information" area, select "AutoComplete."
4. Click on "Clear Forms." You can also un-check the "Forms" box in this window to keep this information from being stored in the future.
5. Click "OK" to exit.
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What does masterbating means ? I don`t think I spelt it right.
The definition of masturbation:
Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation). It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism, which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse. Masturbation and sexual intercourse are the two most common sexual practices, but they are not mutually exclusive (for example, many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic). Some people are able to achieve orgasm only through masturbation and not sexual intercourse. In the animal kingdom, masturbation has been observed in many mammalian species, both in the wild and in captivity.
Its normal. 90 % of males do it and 70 % of females do it. I hope that helps.
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My face complexion is always changing because either, i have a tan & then I don't, etc. And I get and lose tans easily and it makes things hard when it comes to face makeup and chosing the right color. What should I do?
I wear sheer cover up. It doesnt really have a certain color. Basically, you can use it when youre tan or not tan. It just covers any area that you want covered. Also, buying a bronzing powder might help. Because, you can use it when youre tan or not!
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What are some good techno songs?
http://www.ctgmusic.com/charts.php?type=genre&genre=techno&charts=View
TONS of techno songs. :]
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i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me.
I am REALLY sorry this happened to you..Its terrible. I think the reason why this is haunting you is because you need closure. You need to talk about how you feel because obviously there was no one there to talk to about it - your Mom didnt believe you. I would strongly suggest talking to a trusted family member about it. But, I think you would be better off talking to a professional..a therapist. It would really help for your FUTURE to be able to learn how to deal with this. You will learn how to be with men and not be afraid of them because trust me, not all men are like that.
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Hi. My theatre company is putting on a production of "My Fair Lady" and the auditions are really soon. I want to try out for Henry Higgins or Col. Pickering, but I need to learn an english accent. Can anyone help?
The best way is to buy a tape of an english person speaking, watch TV and look for it. Or look up british websites. Try imitating it. Listen carefully to the way they say theyre vowels..A, E, I, O, U. Because once you get the vowels down, its a lot easier. :] Also, PRACTICE! The more you speak it, the more naturally it will come.
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Does anyone know how to get rid of acne scars? or can anyone recommend something to help get rid of them?
You'd need to go to a dermatologist. There is no over the counter medicine that will work. Most treatments you can get such as chemical peels cost 1500.00 so you might want to consider HOW bad they are. Hope this helps.
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I'm 15 years old, 5'8, 135 pounds and I'm interesting in doing modeling, not as a career, just as a way to make money, but I'm not exactly sure how you get started. I know I need to find an agent, but how? (I don't know anyone who models.) What are the general costs of starting? How much money would I be making?
http://www.themodelingbook.com/
This site will tell you exactly how to start modeling. All your questions are answered on that site!
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