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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles. I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!
I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.
I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.
I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.
I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!
♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥
advice
0k im 13/f. i have bl0nde leg hair s0 i have put shaving 0ff f0r awhile. n0w i feel like i sh0uld start, s0 i need a little help. h0w d0 i shave¿ im afraid im g0nna cut myself! please give me a g00d 0utline 0f what i need t0 d0. als0, is it the same meth0d for the armpits 0r n0¿ thank y0u f0r n e help! i will rate :)
Ok, start off with a fresh new clean razor. Then, apply warm water to your legs and make your legs wet..Next, apply shaving gel, soap, or conditioner to your legs. Next, wet the razor and start off at the bottom of your legs(be careful not to go over your ankles or you'll cut them!!)..and go upward lightly..not too hard. Then, when you reach your knees, be VERY careful!! Basically, just shave everywhere on your legs that have hair but be VERY careful on ALL areas!! And dont push hard!! Just push hard enuff to get the hair off!! .. Also, work very slowly and gently.
Now, for your armpits, just make sure their wet and apply soap, conditioner, or shaving gel, and work from the bottom up, and be very very extra careful on your armpits so you dont get a cut.
need any more help?? feel free to write me.
hope i helped:) lemme kno how it worked.
*aSh*
How do you change AIM passwords
Go to My Aim(on your buddy list), Edit Options, and down to Change Password!! It will bring up a page for you to change it at... if you are having trouble write me
hope i helped:)
*aSh*
when u loose ur viginity i hear blood comes out? well is it really that much ? or is it somthing u can just ignore?
Every girl's body reacts different. On one girl, alot of blood may come out..while on the other girl, no blood may come out.
Usually, a little bit of blood if any comes out..but if blood does come out, dont freak out cuz its PERFECTLY normal!!
write me in my inbox if you need more help or im me xmiszashx on AIM.
rate me PLZ!!
*aSh*
ok what does this mean: x3 ??? bc i kno that
Ok, take a minute to look at it cuz i had the SAME exact problem b4 lol.
Ok ready? look at it:
x3
ok now look at it sideways..it looks like a heart with only half the x rite?
BUT, the heart GOES ON!! like, when you draw a heart with a pencil, the lines at the end mite not connect and they mite go on...
its more of a fancy heart with the lines at the end of the heart going further than just connecting it perfectly.
hope it helped!! lemme kno if it did and rate me pLz!!
*aSh*
What could I get for an aim sn? I'm not really fussy what kind. Just a girly sn!!
xX(your name)xX
xtEaRzxalLxgOnEx
x3swEetiPiEx3
cUtEneSz24x7
xlOviNgmE4mEx
sExibaBix
sHiMmEriNgxMaMi
piEcEzxoFxmE
lOveLyxcRazY
cRaZzyxbEaUtifUl
aNgeLxpRincEsz
lemme kno if you used any of these pLz!
hope i helped..if you need any more advice, feel free tah write me in my inbox ~ash
look...i haven't had the best of life and i just want to know how am i supposed to get my life back on track i was but now im starting to fuck off a bit agian and im gonna be going t school pretty soon and i want to at least make it through high skool and ill be happy but as far as i know thats not even going to happen...ive done so much shit it like a habit but i stoppe dbut now i think im gonna or i think i am already starting to do it agian... its like some one else is taking over me... i need help and i cant tell my parents becuz of some reasons... it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all but yet i don't wanna stop but i do.... its just comfusing...ill just go now ... someone please help me...
I understand how you don't want to give out any more information, so based on the information provided, my advice is that you really need to stop doing whatever it is your doing, because chances are, if you cant tell your parents about it, then its something you shouldnt be doing in the first place. Your life is much more important than what your doing im sure. So, please get back on track no matter how hard it is, because it will be best for you in the end. Also, if it's a drug problem, you can easily get help without your parents knowing. I could help you with your problem and give you more advice if you write to my email at sexy13itch2@hotmail.com or IM me on AIM xmiszashx
I check my email daily and am on the computer plenty of times a day, so you'll have chances to get in touch with me!!
Please lemme know how it works out!!
*aSh*
ok, i am so sure that my mom is convinced that i am having sex with guy. but i am not, adn she is conviced i am kissing all over him, but im not! and she gets annoyed and things and i know for sure that she thinks i am sleeping with him. but it took me like 2 years to get him to poen up enough to hold my hand and things like that, so uh, yeah, even if i did wanna have sex with him, it would take a long time before i could. but how can i convince my mom that we are not sleeping together?
I would get her to read this right now. Show her this question so that she knows for sure you are not. Also, maybe you should have your guy tell her and you two should sit down and explain all this to her, that it took forever to even have him hold your hand!! Parents worry, so that's normal, but i think you should either get her to read this right now(the question you wrote) or have you and your guy sit down and chat with her about it, and i recomment both!!
lemme know how it works out, and if you need any more help, feel free to ask, and send it to my inbox!!
*aSh*
hey, I just lost my virginity like, 12 hours ago, and I was wondering if it was normal to be swollen down there Because i was really sore so i stuck one of my fingers in there and it was really swollen. Is that normal?
Yes, it's perfectly normal to be swollen down there for up to about a week or so. After I lost my virginity, it was VERY sensitive and VERY swollen down there for up to 2 weeks! Your body's not used to having something like a penis inside of you, so it streches the walls of your vagina so the penis could fit in. Your tissue inside of your vagina is very sensitive and it was ripped by the penis going in. This is all normal. If you are still in pain after about 2 in a half weeks, tell a doctor. Otherwise, your fine girl and congrats!
Lemme know how it works out!
whats a good site to make icons? not the gay doll ones, but the ones that you can download pictures you have and make that into an icon
www.dollidol.com
im pretty sure you can do that there. If not, instant message me on AIM at xmiszashx or email me at sexy13itch2@hotmail.com and ill be glad to find tons of websites for you!!
so ever since my boyfriend dumped me ((about 4 days ago)) ive been having thots and dreams that sum1 is out to kill me.
i keep thinking that sum1 is guna come in my bedroom and shoot me or sumthin. i know this isnt normal, and im so confused why this is happening!
im scaring myself but i can help it! *i rate*
I looked this up online for you and came up with this:
_______________________________________________
Danger:
Threatening change. Afraid to lose something with the change.
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Death: End of a cycle. Something is finally over.
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Bedroom: Changes in own affairs. Concealment of family secrets.
I found these on http://www.petrix.com/dreams/
Lemme know the update on how your doing!!Hope i helped!!
ok. My sister has behavioural problems which make her argue and shout all the time, we are supposed to be seeing a family counciller soon because it's a REALREAL problem but my parents keep forgetting about me and giving my sister loads of attention because they say she's 'got problems' they keep explaining it to me and saying they understand how i feel but they just DON'T what do i do?
I had the almost the same problem before. My advice to you is even though it's really hard at the moment, deal with it. Your parents want anything else than to hurt you right now. They are just feeling that your sister needs more attention because most likely your sister was acting out and being bad because she felt like she wasn't getting enough love. So, now your parents are trying to give her love so she won't act out and feel alone anymore. They are not giving you as much attention because they look at you as "the good one", the one that they can rely on to be good. And, if you start acting out and being bad because you don't think they care anymore about you, then that's probably how your sister was feeling too, which made her act out. I know it's really hard but please hang in there, because your sister will get better and be happier, and then everything will be okay. I promise you that. You just have to help with the situation, and try to understand. Lemme know how it works out. If you want to talk more about this, you can instant messange me on AIM: xmiszashx or you can email me at sexy13itch2@hotmail.com
Good luck!!!
okm so this really hot guy from school. everyone likes him. started askin to come over alot for like a month during the summer, and he was like mmy best friend. then like the last nite since he's come over we mad eout, and after that i barely talked to him, on the internet a few times.. and now that schools started up again, like never. was ilike bad? or was he just waiting to make out with me or what? cuz when i think about it sometimes i wish we were still friends..
My advice is that i think this guy really started to like you, and after he made out with you, he maybe felt really weird after that considering how the two of you were such good friends ahead of time. You should try and talk to him in person, at school or somewhere else in person, and ask him what the deal is. Make sure you don't make him feel uncomfortable about it and let him know that you at least want to keep him as a friend if nothing else.
OK, I'm just a little lost here. This girl that I was POSITIVE liked me just went on a date with another guy. I know for a fact that they kissed which pretty much means nothing is going to happen between me and her anytime soon (ie. it was a real date). Now my whole system for determining if a girl likes me is down the drain. I mean I've been dating for about 3 years and I thought I had it down, this one just blew me away. How can I tell?
Well, for starters, coming from a girl, maybe the girl you liked and you thought liked you back was only going out with that other guy to make you jealous and to give you the hint to make a move on her before she slips out of your hands! And, you can tell if a girl likes you because she'll laugh at all your jokes, funny or not, and she'll flirt with you in her cute little way, and she'll always want to be around you. And, she may even act a little weird when she's around you because she doesn't know how to act. But, if you like a girl, jump for it! Or, you might lose your chance. Good luck! Lemme know how it works out!
hey
im a 14yr old gal who has a crush on a guy like 10 months younger than me. i kno 4 a fact that he USED 2 like me - but i didnt feel the same way wen he did. he neva told me he felt that way but all his frends told me he did.
he has heapz of gf's n none of them eva last
but recently he's goin out wit a gurl in the grade below me n its pretty serious..
she n i h8 each otha but pretend we dont, i kno from her frends that she bitches about me all the time 2 them even thou we've neva met.
im reali stuck cos i care alot bout him but i cant tell him that, what makes it worse is that i know if i did end up going out with him, nina (his gf) would full dis me cos im going out with a younger guy..
should i tell him how i feel or just 4get about him?
is it wrong 2 go out wit sum1 in a lower grade?
love ali oxo
Well, 10 months is no big deal at all! Not one bit, and age is nothing but a number! And, by the way Nina hates you, it's most likely because she is just angry at the fact that you like him, or has an idea that you do, and underneath, is really worried that her guy will actually leave her for you, so by her talking crap, it's only because she knows that you are a good person and she's afraid of her guy catching onto that and wanting you again! And, as for this guy, the fact that he has heaps of girlfriends doesn't exactly thrill me, but if you really do like him, then I would wait around for him. I wouldn't try and break him and his g/f up because you wouldn't like someone to do that to you. You should wait for him and his g/f to go downhill and then try and tell him that you like him. If you can't wait that long, then my advice is to go to NINA first, just so she doesn't get hurt in case she really loves this guy and you wouldn't want to break some girls heart bc after all, girls have a secret bond: never take a girl's man from them! So, I think you should talk to her first about it, even though it will totally suck, but it's the only way to have everyone happy in the end!