so ever since my boyfriend dumped me ((about 4 days ago)) ive been having thots and dreams that sum1 is out to kill me.
i keep thinking that sum1 is guna come in my bedroom and shoot me or sumthin. i know this isnt normal, and im so confused why this is happening!
im scaring myself but i can help it! *i rate*
BabiiGirl71104 answered Friday August 20 2004, 10:21 pm: Dreams..they are nothing to worried about..in your dreams..whatever u dream...im 99.9% positive that its not gonna come true..just dont let dreams bother you.
xOxO - Ty*Ty [ BabiiGirl71104's advice column | Ask BabiiGirl71104 A Question ]
beatlovedown answered Friday August 20 2004, 8:24 pm: Sweetie, stop doing this to yourself. Dreams reflect on what we're feeling. You're just feeling scared and alone and vulnerable. Try to move on, go hang out with more people. Try to meet a new guy. Somebody new. It'll bring good things. Stop thinking that somebody is going to kill you because chances are...NOBODY WILL! But if you continue doing this to yourself you're gonna miss out on a lot of great things just because you're "scared that somebody might kill you". Hunny just relax and go out and have fun. Dreams will change as soon as you will. =)
xocutiepiesxo answered Friday August 20 2004, 4:47 pm: aw hun! try getting into counseling! yea..that must be pretti scary! ugh! i can't even imagine! well sweetie..just remember that they are only DREAMS..and that won't happen to you! just try talkin to someone about your dreams! and once you talk to several different trustful people about them..they start to seem funny..it sounds weird..but it works..lol! well good luck and i'm here anytime you need to talk! =)
<3*Chelsea xoxo
Mercy_x_Me answered Friday August 20 2004, 9:59 am: hmm.. thats odd but understandable. Maybe your just under stress in your life and because of that your thinking all these terrible things are coming after you, maybe a lil paranoid? But hm.. i know it sounds wierd but leave your door open and put on the hall light. Or try watching a lot of tv ((nothing scary!!) before you go to bed. Tv will take your mind off of everything, and leaving the light on might make you feel more secure. Good luck xoxo [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Friday August 20 2004, 8:43 am: I looked this up online for you and came up with this:
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Danger:
Threatening change. Afraid to lose something with the change.
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Death: End of a cycle. Something is finally over.
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Bedroom: Changes in own affairs. Concealment of family secrets.
hailebop answered Friday August 20 2004, 7:09 am: Dreams are very strange things. They can sometimes be random, and sometimes reflect your subconcious thoughts. I wouldn't take your dreams literally, even if they are reoccuring ones. You could investigate the symbols in your dreams - for example, being 'hunted' in that somebody is trying to chase you to hurt you signifies stres and worry in your waking life that you are trying to escape from, dreaming of your own death can indicated the anticipation of an end of a period on your life, whereas your bedroom is symbolic of your own personal, private space. Google 'dream analysis' and you'll find lots of interesting and relevant sites. <br><br>
That these thoughts plague you during the day is slightly more worrying - are you just thinking about your dreams, or are you actually worried this man will hurt you? If it's just your dreams worrying you in your waking hours, I wouldn't worry about it, but if you actually fear violence from this boy, talk to somebody about your concerns. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
wish_piskie answered Friday August 20 2004, 6:30 am: Dont worry its just paranoia but if its scarying you and you want to stop having the dreams then speak to your ex and dont tell him your having the dreams but just tell him that you hope theres no hard feelings from him or sleep with rosemary under your pillow (i know it sounds strange but it really works) :D Hope it works whatever you do
XxX rohan [ wish_piskie's advice column | Ask wish_piskie A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Friday August 20 2004, 6:30 am: I wouldn't worry too much about it... You're just having bad dreams maybe because you were hurt from the relationship ending, I'm not sure, just try not to worry about it though [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
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