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ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!! (link)
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if u like him then go 4 it. i dont think theres anything wrong with that. hope i helped ~stef~
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okay im 13/f and i want to ask my mom to buy me a thong but i am afraid shell think im like a street walker/hooker/slut whatever but i want one. i dont know of anyways that i could get one myself other than sneak it like go in a diff aisle thingy and buy it with my own money but i dunno. any ideas? (link)
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just go to the mall with ur friends one day and buy one with ur own money, then if ur mom says anythin to u, u can say well i bought it with my own money and jus act like its no big deal. hope i helped ~stef~
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my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me about everyday and i feel the same but i think hes tryin to make me break up with him...always tellin me about other girls and them kissin him and its juss soo rude! what do i do? (link)
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tell him that other girls need to stop kissin him. but then just break up with him and tell him how rude hes bein! tell him tht if he wanted to break up with u he should have jus said so. hope i helped ~stef~
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ok well i started liking a guy and he found out and he likes me too but i told him now that i just wanna be friends wut should i do tommrow? i think hes really pissed! please help! ill rate :( (link)
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well he'll get over it. ur gonna come across alot of these type of problems and the way i look at it is that its not ur fault he likes u. so jus tell him to not be mad and ask if u can still be friends. i hope i helped ~stef~
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Hello, please help. My username is Jenni, and I've been rated at least 5 times in the last thirty days. I went to the "make me a moderator" page, and it said yes to everything but that one about how many times I'd been rated. It said I was rated THREE times! I really want to be a moderator, but this is kind of ruining it. Someone know what's wrong? (link)
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um... i think u have to be on this site a month for u to be able to be a moderator so maybe thats it, hope i helped ~stef~ *sorry jus overlooked tht part
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I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
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Erin (link)
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i would say its not ok. would u like it if u found out ur bf had other girls kissing him on the cheek? i wouldnt. i think its not right and u need to put an end to it b4 something else happens, he obviously likes u so u need to talk to him and tell him u have a bf and tht it doesnt feel right to have him kissing u. hope i helped ~stef~
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guys are confusing but hottt. I like this guy in my calss and my friends want to know who it is, but everytime i tell someone who i like it gets to them, but i think they matured now cause last time i told them who i like was when we were 10 or something like that. do you think i should tell them who i like? and o well if it gets to them. or should i keep it a safe secret? (link)
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i would tell someone, if u like them dont u want them to find out so if they like u then they may ask u out. tell ur friends and if ur lucky he will hear about it. when he finds out ask him out if he hasnt asked u already. hope i helped ~stef~
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I have this boys number and i am afraid to call him.
what should i do? call him?
if i do call him, what do i say? (link)
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call him and be like hey whats up? start a convo. tht both u and him are both interested in. flirt with him a lil. hope i helped ~stef~
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Hey Yall wow i have a problem im caught in between to guys that are absuoly awesome i love and adore! i wish i could only be with both of them and i cant live without either both! there both perfect one i wish i could be with every seconod of mi life and the other is in mi midn heck i feel that way about both of them theiir absoulty great i dont kno whut to do soo please im askin yall if you can help then plz help b.c i cant live without either i LOVE THEM1 (link)
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well maybe one u can jus be friends with. do not cheat its not very nice, it hurts, ALOT. ur gonna have to make up ur mind which 1 u like better as a bf and 1 as a friend. hope i helped ~stef~
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who is gonna win? kerry or bush? tell me ur opinions (link)
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bush... i hope
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i have a friend name lori and she likes the same the guy (alex) that i like but she doesn't know that i like him too but i know she has a little clue that i do like him. anyways he is always flirting with me and lori. lori gets me really upset and annoyed cuz she makes it seem like she and alex are going out but they aren't. lori asked me if she and alex would make a good couple and if i thought alex liked her and i said yes of course cuz it seems that way he calls her and everything. i really want to stop thinking about alex and stop talking to lori and alex which is sooo hard. i really don't know what to do if i should just forget about him and move on or just wait till him and lori go out and break up and then go out with me. i really don't know what to but i do want to stop talking to him just a lil bit that way he doesn't think i like him. so plz help!! sry if soo long! ~natalie~ (link)
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um... u can still be their friends i think but jus stop liking alex or try to get him to go out with YOU. hope i helped ~stef~
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i like this kid but idk if he likes me we flirt sumtimes but he seems like he flirts w. alot of people and i dont kno wut 2 do ne suggestions? (link)
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well if hes single he has the right to flirt w/ anyone he wants if u wanna go out wit him ask him and if u do jus make sure hes not flirting with other gurls while u go out. hope i helped
~stef~
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ok i hav had a bf for almsot 2 months now but ive been friend wid benefits with him for lyke a yr....well hes really causes alot of problems....he started smokin weed bout a month ago n then he told me he quit lyke 3 weeks ago n we wer surpose to go see a movie last frieday n he backed out last minute bc he had no money bc he blew it all on weed...so he lied to me bout quiting and he can never go newhere with me n emore bc he always spends his money on drugs. dont get me wrong when he isnt lyke this he is s0o gr8....but hes stopped calling n stuff n always has excuses and always backsout of our plans or will b lyke o ill callu bak n let u kno if i can go n then hell never call back....well heres the deal my brother plays soccer and theres this guy on his team named rafael....and omg he is so cute...so i told my bro to tell him wassup sexy LOL at practice....n he DID and ever since...rafael n me always stare at eachother n make eye contact with eachother at the games....wer both 2 shy 2 talk to eachother...but last game he told my brother to hook me n him up!!! he sed he wants to get to knno me n stuff...so today b4 my bro left 4 his soccer practice i was like tell rafael i wanna hok up with him 2...and so he did and rafael called my bro n then my bro gave him mai cell number n he just caled me!! it was my furst time talking to him!! hes soooo sweet! he was like ur brother tells me stuff (like that i like him n stuf) n i was like o ya lyke wat he was like go ask him n i was like i will later n then rafael was like just 2 let u kno i think the same about u.....i wa slike omg and i started blushing...hes so sweet and he actually calls when he says he will unlike my boyfriend...rafael is gonna call m tomorrow! well....idk wat to do....should i dump my boyfriend who i really lyke (but lately hes been a real ass) and take a chance n get with rafael? or wat do i do? bc it wouldnt b fair 2 rafael to be gettin with him if i hav a man,.... (link)
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u need to dump the other guy bc rafael is so sweet and tell this other guy tht he cant have u bc if he wont giv up his drugs 4 u or at least call u ever then hes not good enough 4 u so i say go 4 it wif rafael but definitly dump the guy wit his weed first! hope i helped ~stef~
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I absolutely love Christmas! I absolutely think its the bets time of year, and i begin celebrating it around the begining of november. Christmas goes by soo fast, why wait to decorate and listen to Christmas music and begin the christmas cheer? I feel like i'm the only one who feels like this..is there anybody else?? (link)
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i love it 2! i already made my list like a few things on it are...
~ i pod
~ the ciara cd
~ my old bf back
LOL ur not alone, anyone who doesnt love christmas is a lil weird if ya ask me.
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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?
Please Help Me.
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um u cant tell ur brother bc things wont be right between u and him anymore. dont tell anyone at all, everyone will think ur crazy and shit. try to get over him bc u CANT like him like tht. hope i helped ~stef~
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I went out with this guy for 5 months and then me and him broke up, but I still love him, but now I'm going out with this other guy. Well, me and him broke up too because I told him how I felt about the guy that i dated for 5 months. Now I dont know what to do because now that I'm not dating either, they both want to date me again and I don't know what to do because they are making me choose. What should I do? Please give me some good advice! (link)
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if they both want u then pick which 1 u want. yea u may hurt one guys feelings but explain to him u jus wanna be his friend and nothing more. thts wht i would do. hope i helped ~stef~
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Okay i am really good friends with my boyfriend and we've been going out since about 4 months ago. (we were friends first) Lately it hasnt been is fun dating him as it was at first, he used to wait for me outside my classes and talked to me SOOOO much more. I really think we need to break up, but i still want to be friends. How do i go about doing this? -kelly (link)
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jus talk to him and tell him how u feel. i know its hard but everything will work out! hope i helped ~stef~
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I'm doing Varsity Cheerleading, and I was just wondering if anyone has any good ideas for hair styles besides the regular pony tail, or bun..for games, and for competitions..I'd like to do something really different for the games this year to draw more attention to myself..Maybe some cute new makeup ideas would be good too..thanks alot cuties* (link)
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maybe some cute sparkles around ur eyes like tht match the color of ur uniform and for hair... sorry no ideas but if i get any ill tell u. hope i helped ~stef~
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beginnin of last year me and this girl became very close. we are alot alike and we even look alike so when we hang out people ask if we are sisters or whatever. but recently shes been actin weird. im a grade higher than she is and a freshmen. whenever we are with my guy friends she changes and makes up lies to impress them. also we were together last weekend and the guy im currently interested in called. me n him talked for a while then she wanted to talk to him so i gladly agreed not knowin how it would turn out. she became extremly flirty and all "i love you i love you aww hahaha" and she knows i like him she even told him she drinks which she doesnt and that she is expiranced with guys... which she is not. this isnt the first time this has happened. first time it wasnt only the guy i liked. it was my current boyfriend please tell me what to do about this. thankssss =) (link)
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well this girl is obviously not a great friend shes not 6 so u cant say she didnt know wht she did was wrong. tell her to stop, shes old enough to understand wht shes doin aint nice to u; her friend. p.s. when shes over i wouldnt let her use the phone! hope i helped ~stef~
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see i have this friend and my friend stick up for my worst enmey instead of me!! and i am super angry!!! what should i do??? (link)
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shes not really ur friend if she did tht, the same thing happened to me, my BEST friend in 4 th grade jus didnt stu=ick up 4 me at all so were still friends but i jus cant trust her as much. so work things out but watch ur back. hope i helped ~stef~
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