ok im 5'8 and im to tall already and family always used to say that i was the tall skinny one..but now i am like 130 lbs...i am fat...i mean if i pinch the skin on my stomach i get liek a lot of fat...its really embarssing...bcuz i never want to wear a bathin suit bcuz it shows my stomach...and i live on a lake..so its hard not to...bcuz i aloso luv swimmin very much! i play volleyball but i feel that i need to do somthing else to lose sum wieght...what can i do? {14-f}
~feelin fat :(
YOU'RE NOT FAT! Seriously your 5'8 and you're that much i'm sure your under weight if anything! Everyone has the Skin they can grab.. I can grab mine and i'm 15 and i'm 5'5 118 lbs. So no worries! But if you want to tone your body up like you stomach you can do crunches to tighten your stomach up a bit.
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i have this friend who always makes these really unessessary comments about things i say, and it gets on my nerves real bad, i wanna talk to her, but every time i talk to her about anything we get into a fight, so what do i do?
You can just forget her and ignore her. because people that are annoying like that are just stupid ya know. Try talking to her again and tell her not to speak until your done. Good luck!
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i really like this guy but hes gay and hes soooo nice and cute and he likes me but hes neva had a relasionship with a guy idk y he says hes gay???? what should i do
You dont have to have a relationship with the same sex to know that your gay or whatever. But you should talk to him maybe you can get him to go straight!!! :) good luck
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does n e on have n e GOOD qoute sites? PLEASE help me!! thanx a bunch PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS MODERATOR PLEASE =(
actually I get my quotes from songs, so you can try that. Just look up a random person, and if your more of a metal type or hard dark music you can go to Darklyrics.com they have awesome lyrics there and they arnt like all "lets kill ourself" type thing lol.
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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (:
toothpaste takes away the redness but you gotta put it on long enough. Then just put make up on it. No one will be like OMG SHES GOT PIMPLES! cuz i'm sure they got them too! good luck
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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?
alright thats a tough one. Just tell her be like Hey ya know I love the fact that you have a nice body but it bothers me that guys are always talking about the clothing you wear (they might not but you can say that) Just let her know that it bothers you, maybe she can comfort you and tell you how she feels... Just be as nice as possible even though she might blow up on you!
good luck!
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I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face?
Just tell her to back down a little bit, tell her your happy she wants to be friends with him but the fact that she was obsessed with him kind of makes you nervous. Just stay calm about it. You should trust your boyfriend and maybe you can talk to him about how you feel. He should comfort you!
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Ok... theres a guy i dated and ... i broke up with him lik 2ce ~ only cause the first time was because i was scared to put my heart in sum1s hands again... but we got thru that and got back together... and the 2nd time was because everyone got in the way and i was really confused about everything and so i jus ended it cause i didnt kno what was going on... i finnaly realized i shouldnt let people get n the way... and that i really trusted this guy... and i kinda want him back... we both admitted we still love each other... but he dont want to get back with me yet... he said why would he wanna jump into it cause hes scared id break up with him again... and i dont kno how to prove that i wouldnt... i dont really know where me and him stand... we still talk all the time... last night we talked about some of our good times and he was lik i dont lik to think about it cause then it makes me want it ... and im lik well whats wrong with wanting something... and hes all idk... so im so confused should i wait for him?... should i just give up and say its over... cause me and him had something ive never had before... he was different from all the other guys... he gave me this feeling... idk... this advice girl needs some advice... wanna lend a helpin thought?...
Dont give up! Seriously stay by his side show him that no matter what you'll be there now and you've gotten your priorities (dunno how to spell that lol sorry) straight and you want to be with him. You've got major feelings for this guy dont let go. And to figure where you stand ask him! I'm sure hes just scared to give you his heart again. Just these things take time, dont rush it! Good luck
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alright well I got online and was checking my inbox when I saw this message clicked it and it was from someone calling me a certain name after looking at my picture n they probably dont even know me they said in my pic I looked like a h*e and if I didnt know who they were Im stupid I mean I hate when ppl sit home have nothing to do but bug and piss ppl off for no reason and I dont realli think I look like one(BaBii_xO_aBbii) it just hurts to hear ppl think that and realli does anyone think that I do look like one? Because I knw everyone has to put up with stuff but like noone likes to be called a rude name?!? right?
no you dont look like one! not at all. It might have been one of the people that dont like you around where you live.. i've had people do that to me before and leave rude comments and stuff! So dont worry your beautiful!
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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!
I think its nice to have a boyfriend. i mean you get guys that you absultly dont want hitting on you, and most the time they back down when you've got a boyfriend... Some boyfriends can get annoying if they are always seeking attention and wont let you hang out with your friends. Also they can protect ya if you need it :) and keep you warm when you are cold, and just make you feel totally good about yourself! And sometimes you can get more than a boyfriend... you can also have a bestfriend! which is always nice!
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I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!?
Maybe slow down on the picture taking. Or just dont show them the pictures. I'm sure your friend arnt jealous i'm sure they are just annoyed.
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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??
There is nothing wrong with that! As long as they dont pressure you into something they are ready for and your not!
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Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me?
you can possible just hang out just as friends for a while until her parents start to like you and realize that your not a bad guy. Thats what my boyfriend and I did. :) Pretty much... my rents are kind of gay like that too. We are 2 years differance also. But yeah just meet them, settel with being friends right now. Hope it works out
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i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?
this might sound skanky but this is the only way i can think that you can prove it... you can possibly show them a little bit of clevege, or flash them lol. good luck
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I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways?
Crunches will help major! Also you can go to a gym and see what a trainer says that you can do to help your bum cuz i have no idea. Good luck in getting what you want
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hey well my prob is...well i think im starting to like my bestfriend's ex. like she's told me that she wouldnt care who he went out with but she still would want to know whats going on with him and all. she doesnt know i like him or anything i want her to know but i dont know how id tell her. and like I have a boyfrend and i dont wanna break up with him. her ex seems to be flirting back with me and all he has a g/f but shes kinda cheating on him and he doesnt know. i wouldnt know if he would wanna go out with me, i have a boyfriend that i love till death and i dont know how to get rid of the feeling that i like my bestfriend's ex. so yeah what do i do
In relationships you always have like once and a while feelings for other people. If you like your boyfriend a lot just stay with him, sooner or later you should get over the other guy. And just tell your friend straight up be like hey dont be mad at me but I kinda have feelings for your ex. Just be honest. Good luck
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ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks!
If your not happy about the way he looks then i think its time to break up with him. If you feel uncomfortable just tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore cuz of the distants or something.
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mii boiifriend is turning 13 and i met him on 4th of july and his birthdaii is on july 26th... ((but)) i have no ideal what to get him.. i dont really kno what he wants cuz everytime i as he says he wants me for his birthdaii... ((*aww*)) soo does aniione have anii really good ideals... i'LL rate you!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
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Maybe ask him if theres any movies he wants or a cd, and if he doesnt tell you go with candy! Good luck
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my best friend has a crush on this guy but the problem is he has a girlfriend! he is only telling my best friend that he loves her and shit because she will do "stuff" with him that his gf wont do! i dont want my best friend to be a slut and especially with a guy that already gave his heart away!
I think you should tell his girlfriend what hes doing. Seriously thats not right to do that to someone. I know how it feels to be played. Tell your bestfriend to not be like that until he doesnt have a girlfriend. Its rude.
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Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
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Confuzzed
hmmm... I think you should tell him! because you dont want a good thing to pass you by! Just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? Good luck
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