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I have this friend who is incredibly paranoid, particularly about me likeing his girlfriend or his girlfriend liking me. I;ve assured him this is not the case, and so has his girlfriend, and it causes him deep psychological trauma to see us in the same room even talking now. And I was talking to his girlfriend, and he walks into the room, and I make a joke about only wanting a pen, and he takes it as an insult, and now won't talk to me. He refuses to be my friend anymore, and threatened my teeth!...I have no idea what to do....please help me!!
thnx...
This happens to a lot of people. He needs to realize that you don't like each other.. if you did you she would dump him and you guys would go out. Tell him he needs to relax and say if it'll make him feel better you won't hang out with her for like a week and let them spend quality time together to prove that she really likes HIM and only HIM. If it's really bad though you might want to see if he'll go see a therapist. If he won't even talk to you try to iM him online if you both have sn's or call or write him a letter. You could also have his girlfriend talk to him since he'd be most likely to listen to her if its their relationship he's most worried about. To prove to him that you don't care for her like that you might actually have to not hang out with her or talk to her for a week or two so he'll finally get the picture that you really don't like her. Hope I helped!
well i like this boy in my class. He`s really cool and smart and funny nd everything , i want to ask him out but i feel that he wont like me or that he`ll say no and it will make it worse for me knowing that he`ll never go out with me. can you give me some adivce?! thanks alot
The worst he can say is no. It's not the end of the world if a guy turns you down. It's gonna happen eventually anyway. Just ask him out! Otherwise you won't know how he feels about you and you'll be bugging yourself from now on why you didn't tell him how you feel. Guys like it when a girl tells him she likes him. Hope I helped!
rach3l
For class, we have to do a profile/interveiw on someone that we know. We have to have at least 20 questions and i dont know what questions to use. I will rate 5's for effort
Some questions could be what's your fav. color, food, band, do you like the cafeteria food? What is your backround (like are you Polish, Irish, Itlian, etc.) How many brothers and sisters do you have? Do you have any pets? Have they ever been out of the state or country? If so where did they go and if htey went to more than one place what was their favorite place and why? Umm.. if they had 1 billion dollars what would they do with it? Etc.. Sorry if it didn't help
rachel
ok my best friend has this secret admirer but i know who it is its a girl but she really wants to know who it is but if i tell her it might hurt the other gurl thats "bysexual" and i'd feel really bad so what should i do helpppp!!!!!!!!!!
You might as well tell her or she'll find out anyway and get mad at you for not telling her. Just say that you don't want her to say anything to the girl who likes her or hurt her in any way. If she's your best friend she'll listen. Hope I helped!
i'm 13/f and i weight 115!! i want to lose 15 lbs. and FAST, i already skip meals and sometimes i even make myself vomit... i know it's not healthy but i see myself as the fattest person on the face of this earth. i gained like 15 pounds over the summer and i have no idea how! i have a boyfriend that i havn't seen since the begining of the year and when i see him again i don't want to be all fat. but thats beside the point... does anyone know how to stop food cravings.. besides diet pills cuse i have no idea how i'd get those, and my friends said they don't work. help please
115 POUNDS?!? trust me thats skinny! I know somebody who's around your age and is 140ish and she's still skinny! Stay the way you are don't try to change for anybody else if he thinks you're fat then he only wants to go out with you for your looks not your personality, and that's what really matters. Stop throwing up. It eats away at the enamel (sp?) on your teeth, which actually makes you less attractive. On top of that it ruins your stomach. If you keep this up you would be most likely to die unless you stop. I'm sorry it's long i just feel really strongly about this subject. Nobody should be trying to lose weight at 115 pounds. I'm 115 - 120 lbs. and and guys tell me that I have the "perfect body" I'm around 5'7 or 5'8.... but trust me you don't want to be trying to lose weight over some guy who will probably end up not caring later in life. Just stay the way you are.
Anyway your original ?...
You can't stop food cravings. if you REALLY want to lose weight stay away from the sugar.
By the way you should read the Chicken soup for the teenage soul books... you'll see what some teens go through trying to be super skinny.
Sorry it's long!
Stay yourself dont change for anybody =c)
Okay, there is this really hot guy in my science class. I know that he knows I like him, but I dont think he likes me. How can I find out without having
one of my friends ask for me?
Write him a not and ask him if he likes you. Just tell him you really like him and want to know if he feels the same way and tell him to write back. That way you won't have to face him if you get really nervous you just have to hand him the note. Hope I helped!
rache3l
If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!
No it won't. They only show that stuff in like movies but it never really happens. Just be careful because your tongue can get cut really easily and you wouldn't want to be bleeding in the other persons mouth =c).
heyy, my friend told me i should go out with this guy who happened to be her ex, but theyve both dated other people and moved on... so now hes my b/f and we like each other a lot,and when we hung out at the mall the other night with my friend she started liking him again and now shes making me feel all bad cuz shes like "oh i'll never stop liking colt, and i will always love him" and "he was mine but now you have him" what should i do?? and how should i handle my friend?? love, lauren!!
ps.. colt is my b/fs name
She's the one who told you to go out with him. If you guys like each other tell her that she even said to go out with him and you feel badly but you really like him. She had her chance and lost it. Just be sure to say it in a way where she won't get very mad... a lot of friendships are ruined over guys. Hope I helped!
rach3l
Well im 15 years old and im playing on the high school volleyball team!. im a fairly strong player but i wanna become better! do you know of any exercises i can do to improve my verticle leap and my spike! PLEASEEEEE help me!:)..email what ever u can to me please... rhondatremblett@hotmail.com
thanks so much xo
To improve your vertical leap do wall jumps. Just jump next to a wall and if if theres like tiles then try to reach one of the tile lines.. or just pick a spot on the wall and try to jump and get it... I'd suggest you do at least 40 a day. I'm doing that for volleyball right now and it's really helping me! As for spiking have somebody toss a ball in the air to you and then jump and spike it on the ground. Also if you do 25 or more pushups a day your arms will get stronger and you can spike harder. =c) Hope I helped!
hello, i weigh 200 lbs and i wanna get to 120 by the end on june
i was wondering if it was possible to loose 80 lbs. in 6 months? and if s how? and how much exersise would i have to do a day?
i am a girl
That would be really hard. Instead try setting a goal to, let's say, losing 10 pounds in a month. That way you won't feel let down if you don't reach your goal. It depends how badly you want to lose weight to decide how much you want to exercise. I'd say run at least 3 times a week, do crunches, pushups, jump roping, and if you have a playstation 2 and have the game ddr that really helps too =c). Stay away from the fatty foods like chocolate or anything with a lot of sugar. Hope I helped!
rach3l
hi. erf.. i cut myself and i wanted to know if there is any thing to make u stop/get ur mind off of it?? i heard that snapping rubberbands help.. but it isn't working.. help
If you feel the urge to cut get a knife and start cutting into a block of wood. Make sure you're wearing sleeves or something and if you can put a rubber band around them so they won't go up. Just cut at the block of wood until you feel better and soon the urge should start to go away =c) Hope I helped!
rach3L
I'm 21 and dating a guy right now. He reminds me of an axboyfriend of mine that died. He was my first and my first love too. This new guy reminds me of my ex so much. He acts the same, has the same mannerisms, dresses the same--as in neither of them ever wore blue jeans---and I'm falling so hard for this guy. I'm afraid of losing him again. I think it's a sign that I was supposed to meet and hook up with him. We're taking things real slow..and that's because we like each other so much...what's your imput?
It's fine what you're doing. There's always a chance of losing somebody, but it's a chance you have to take if you love him or think you do. Tell him how you feel and say you don't want to lose him. He'll understand. Keep taking things slow and don't do stuff until you're sure you're ready for it. Not many guys do that for girls. Hope I helped =c)
Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]
He's pressuring you to do things you don't want to do. If he wants you to smoke weed and all that other stuff it'll ruin your life. Sure, you might not think so now but just wait until you get addicted and your grades stop dropping and you lose all your friends. Even if you really like him, if you do these things it'll seriously ruin your life. You can tell him you dont want to do that stuff but if him and his friends keep pressuring you into doing those things then he's not worth your time.
is the Sims Hot Date a two CD game??
I'm not sure if this is what you mean.. but you need the original Sims to play it and if you want to Hot Date you just put the disc in and install it... it might have another disc that you put in to continue the installation but you only use the first one to play Sorry if it wasn't what you were asking =c/
I used to cut myself. Don't worry I don't do it anymore but I was wondering if any one knew how to cover up or get rid or the scars. Because one day while I was in school this kid Joe saw them and started making fun of me. I can't help what I did and i'm tired of him saying things to me , and for me to always having to hide them from everyone in fear that people will thing im weird. Thank you in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*
Put concealer stuff on it and depending on how long ago you stopped cutting they should fade away in probably a month or so.
16/f
So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen
You could tell one of your friends or one of his friends that you like him and ask if he likes you. They'll probably end up telling him so either way he'll know and you'll find out if he likes you back =c). If you want to tell him face to face just casually ask who he likes and he'll probably ask who you like and you can say something like "Honestly?" "You." Hope I helped! =cD
i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help
Use guys deoderant. It works and it smells really good too =c). Try speed stick.. its the official deoderant of the NBA. Hope I helped!
Okay this isn't really a serious problem. But okay i like this guy. And well u know i am always lookin at him and stuff, and there is so many times that i catch him lookin at me. All i want him to do is like me... Can ne one tell wat wat this means?? Please help!!
Don't jump to conclusions. He might not like you back. If you want to know though just tell him you like him. If he likes you he'll tell you. He might be looking at you just because you're looking at him. Hope I helped!
I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help.
If he wants you to have sex with him or else he'll cheat on you, then he doesn't love you enough. If a guy really loves you he wouldn't try to make you have sex. If you think you're ready though then go ahead. Just make sure you use a condom AND a pill. Hope I helped!
i was just told today that my brother is suffering from depression and im not taking it really well. He is being treated for it but i cant think of life without him. He is my best friend. Are there any ways to get my mind off of his problem?? If there are i really wanna know. tHanks
Go out with your friends, read books, write poems. Anything to keep you busy. You could even clean your room or help around the house. If you're out with people a lot then it'll get your mind off it. Just try not to think of it. If you think about NOT thinking about it, you'll just think about it more. Just keep yourself busy and you should be able to keep your mind off it. Seeing a movie really helps =c). Hope I helped!
racheL