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heyy, my friend told me i should go out with this guy who happened to be her ex, but theyve both dated other people and moved on... so now hes my b/f and we like each other a lot,and when we hung out at the mall the other night with my friend she started liking him again and now shes making me feel all bad cuz shes like "oh i'll never stop liking colt, and i will always love him" and "he was mine but now you have him" what should i do?? and how should i handle my friend?? love, lauren!!
ps.. colt is my b/fs name
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ask your friend if it is really ok with her because sometimes people are in denial then tell the guy that u like him and see what he says
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This isn't your fault at all. She's the one who told you to go out with him, so you probably thought everything was cool and she didn't like him anymore. It sounds like she's a bit jealous and she realize how much she missed him when she saw how happy you guys were together. I'm sure she'll start liking another guy soon. Try hooking her up with someone else. As for her and how you should handle her. Just tell her that he's your boyfriend now and you guys broke up. If it was ment to be, you guys would still be together, but he's with me. If she still liked him, she shouldn't have told you to go out with him. I'm sure she'll cool off about it soon.
♥ Krissy
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Tell her thats really unfair! Shes the one who hooked you up and you were under the impression that everything was OK. Tell her that you and Colt are together now and its not right to like him when shes the one who hooked you up! I can understand if she started to like him, but to make you feel bad like that is ridiculous! Tell her all of that..who knows she might come to her senses and realize she was wrong. If not, ask her "would you be happy if I broke up with him even though we are both happy..just so you can be happy?" Also try talking to Colt about this..see what he thinks. He might suggest to break it off but to still be "good friends" with you if you know what I mean. That can get tricky because you'd have to keep it secret from your friend. tell your friend not to be mad..and if your friend told you before you two went out that she still liked him, you would have backed off. Explain you have FEELings for him and its not fair what shes doing.
write back to me if shes still not accepting this..and we'll take it from there
-melissa
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well thats her probelm she sayd she was over hm and it was ok for you to be with him, so hes yours and she needs to back off now
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Wierd name for a boy...sowie
your friend toldyou u shud go out wit this "colt" dude so she shouldnt be telling you that she is in love with him it obviously means that she still likes him and wants you to break up wit him but DONT!! people are just jelous
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hey..
first of all i think if your friend wanted u 2 to be together she shouldn't of said that to you " oh i'll never stop liking colt " .. let her know that you really like him and if it bothered her in the first place than she shouldn't of ever mentioned you being with him at all.. as for your friend let her know shes still your friend know matter what but if it really bothers her more than you thought then maybe you should have a talk with her about how shes happy now and moved on and maybe she see's herself holding hands with colt and maybe thats the part that bugs her.. another word for that is a little bit jealousy.. hmm?.. Just talk to your bf about it and see what he says then talk to your friend.. Hopefully they both understand your feelings! :) hope it works out good!
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WoW! your friend told you to go out with him so say to her "Your the one who told me to go out with him! You had your chance now he's mine!" Don't be afraid to stand-up for yourself!
Beleive in whats right!
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Tell your friend that you really like Colt too, and that she is the one who urged you to go out with him. She might get upset by this but try to make her understand that she is the one who encouraged you in the first place, and now you really like him. If she won't listen, then you will have to choose. What kind of friend does that to you though? ♥
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She's the one who told you to go out with him. If you guys like each other tell her that she even said to go out with him and you feel badly but you really like him. She had her chance and lost it. Just be sure to say it in a way where she won't get very mad... a lot of friendships are ruined over guys. Hope I helped!
rach3l
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