ok so i have this guy friend and we met in the summer. We started hanging out and we became really good friends, and i was really really starting to like him but i didnt realize it because i had a boyfriend who was one of his good friends. well we started hanging out more and more and i started caring about him more than my boyfriend. i didnt realize it until after my boyfriend broke up with me. i wasent upset and i realized it was because i cared for my other guy friend more. after he dumped me i was told a lie by my guy friend about my x, that he was trying to get another girlfriend because he was bored with me... so i told my x that "someone" said it, and he guessed who it was without me saying anything. so the next day they got in this huge fight and then they went outside to fist fight... all because of me. and now i really like the guy who was just my friend before but he hates me and dosent trust me because of what i did and it really kills me and he wont forgive me even though i didnt really do anything. now i just dont know what to do to get things back to normal.....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 14 2005, 10:32 pm: take it from me, because i dont really trust anyone. your guy friend may have been charming, but he lied to you. not so charming now, huh? But how could u have known? well, first of all, you shouldnt have acted on that what he told you. you should have checked others to see if it was true first(if possible) But you dont wanna get things right with your guy friend, becuz he told the lie that started everything. he led to his own downfall. now as for your x, you gotta get his trust back and dont let anyone come btween you ever again. [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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