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paranoid friend
I have this friend who is incredibly paranoid, particularly about me likeing his girlfriend or his girlfriend liking me. I;ve assured him this is not the case, and so has his girlfriend, and it causes him deep psychological trauma to see us in the same room even talking now. And I was talking to his girlfriend, and he walks into the room, and I make a joke about only wanting a pen, and he takes it as an insult, and now won't talk to me. He refuses to be my friend anymore, and threatened my teeth!...I have no idea what to do....please help me!!
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i say that if he can't trust you, then he's not worth it. i no that that sounds mean, but give him the cold sholder, and if yer friends with his gf, then keep bein friends with her. *Katie
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This happens to a lot of people. He needs to realize that you don't like each other.. if you did you she would dump him and you guys would go out. Tell him he needs to relax and say if it'll make him feel better you won't hang out with her for like a week and let them spend quality time together to prove that she really likes HIM and only HIM. If it's really bad though you might want to see if he'll go see a therapist. If he won't even talk to you try to iM him online if you both have sn's or call or write him a letter. You could also have his girlfriend talk to him since he'd be most likely to listen to her if its their relationship he's most worried about. To prove to him that you don't care for her like that you might actually have to not hang out with her or talk to her for a week or two so he'll finally get the picture that you really don't like her. Hope I helped!
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If he lets girls come between your friendship then hes got a problem...<33Toriia anymore questions?...IM me xo19VAL92ox
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ANY NiGGA WH0SE G0NNA PiCK HiS GURLL BEF0RE HiS FRiENDS AiNT EVEN W0RTH BEiN FRiENDS WiTH. . i KN0` iT`S HARD T0 HEAR BUT iF HE`S N0T G0NNA BELiEVE Y0U iT MEANS HE D0ESN`T TRUST Y0U. . EN THA WH0LE P0iNT 0F ANY RELATi0NSHiP iS TRUST. . . iF Y0U D0N`T BELiEVE ME. . . JUSS TRY T0 W0RK THiNGS 0UT. . BUT i GAURANTEE Y0U iT WiLL BACKFiRE iN THA END. . . L0OK F0R NEW FRiENDZ. . F0RRREAL.
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well, i dont know, but...it seems like your friend isnt being a true one. Maybe he's just a little over protective...some people get that way. I suggest you have a "buddy-to-buddy" talk with him and tell him, you dont like his girlfriend, your just friends, and you want to be a good friend. I mean, shes your friends gf!! you should be able to talk to her...plus, you dont want your friend to think you hate her. Maybe, if you actually talk to your friend it will make things better. If it doesnt, I wouldnt worry...you can find better freinds. friends that TRUST.
hope i helped
xoErica
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well dont be his friend if its this much trouble for you and if you like his girl friend then go out with her. act like your paranoid friend doesnt exsist.hope i helped!
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