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I have a very good friend lets call "steve" and i have liked more than a friend for a while now..he's 18 and i'm 14 and i really really wanna take this friendship to another level..we both flirt with each other and we've kissed each other before to..but the thing is..is that he has a girlfriend and i don't know what should i do..should i tell him how i feel or just leave it be? (link)
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well, i thinks its always good to tell someone how you fell. i mean if you don't, you never know what might have happened if you just had told them. you know? but also keep in mind that you're not leagal. thought it might not matter to him. just tell him how you feel and i hope everything works out. good luck.
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i got a probably wit my hermones and the doctor told me that my problem is that they produce too much many eggs at a time.. this problem make me break out all the time more each time.. but my question is since i produce a lot of eggs does that mean i can get pregnant faster and that i have to use MORE protection then usually?? (link)
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you should never use more than one condumn though, because its more likely to break. and i'm not sure if you could get pregnate faster. i suggest talking to your doctor about that. just say you were wondering. hope i helped any.
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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times change unfortunitly. but i guess having it in someones mind then they make it happen, its mind over matter i suppose. it doesnt always happen that way. and it would be pretty bad if that many people dropped out of school. it just depends on the person/couple. sry i couldn't help more.
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i know this is kinda gross .. but ive been broken out on the back of my shoulders for the longest time.. probably since freshman year, im gonna be a junior in the fall. is there anything i can do besides using creams? they really dont seem to be doing anything :/ (link)
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i don't know if this woeks for you, but dove soap usually drys out my skin, so that might help you. but you could also go to a dermatologist or someone and ask them about it. hope i help.
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does anyone know where i can get a dress i have to go to a wedding (i need websites of any stores that have dresses) i rate 5 for any anwser (link)
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DEB has some really nice dresses. i usually go there if i'm going to a dance or something. hope i helped.
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can i just ask you people a question....
how old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend and your first kiss?????
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first boyfriend, i was 13
first kiss, i was 14
first makeout, i was 14 then too
i dunno if this will help but i've had 4 boyfriends and im 16 now
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so im 13, female, and me and my boyfriend just began to go out. he has had many girlfriends before me, what im getting at is, he is experienced, and im not. i have only made out 1 time, and i dont think i did anything right.
i dont know what im supposed to do with my tongue?
i will rate 5's to anyone who answers decent.
sorry, i know this is a stupid question. (link)
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i'll tell you what one of my friends told me, he said that it just comes to you. which it really does. just dont be nervous about it because if you are, he'll know. just dont worry about it. good luck.
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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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sure, no problem. it does sound to me like he likes you. try talking to his friend and just ask him why he stares at you all the time. i was always afraid to ask so i had a friend do it for me. until one time i just told the guy flat out that i liked him and we started going out within a few weeks and we've been together for almost 2 years. you could either get a friend to ask him, or his friend. and about the information on how to tell if a guy likes you, staring at you seems to be one way. also, if he can confide in you it means he can trust you and you atleast mean something to him. wheather it be more than a friend or as a good friend. also if he flirts with you, like teasing for example. i've talked to some guys and they say they tease the girls they like. no matter how immiture it may seem to girls, its what they do. i just asked my friend and he said "tell them there good looking and just give simple hints" but thats just the way he does it. every guy is differnt. hope i helped. i dont want to take up too much of your time but if you need anything else my sn is blinkbabe2469. i'll be happy to help. and i wont say anything to anyone so no worries about that if thats a problem.
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ok so i have had boyfriends before but they all turned out to be jerks i was just wondering if any one knew any body or something that might want to date a 13 year old girl brown hair/eyes and a great personality because i really want to find some one (link)
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i dont think that just dating anyone who is willing to date you is a good idea. you have pleanty of time to have boyfriends. i never got my first boyfriend until i was your age. and since then i've only have four and im 16 now. if your patient, you'll have plenty of guys. just be patient and they will come to you. never settle for less than you deserve. hope i helped. and you'll find someone, i promise.
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Hey. Does anyone know where you would get a work permit? I know I could get one at my school, but since it's summer, I couldn't get one because school is closed obviously and no one is working. I'm seventeen years old, and I got a job at the UPS store, but I need a work permit and don't know how to get one since school it out. Thanks! (link)
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even though schools out, you can usually get to the nurses office to get the forms. schools are usually open until the end of june. thats the only way i know of getting them. sorry. good luck. hope you get them soon.
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Hey. I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am afraid how much it will hurt. I can't wear a tampon, it hurts so much, does this mean that it will hurt when I first have sex? Should I wear a tampon to get used to this feeling? (link)
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it will hurt either way, but if a tampon hurts you, then having sex deffinitly will. sorry to inform you. but if you do wear a tampon and get used to it, it will make sex hurt much less.
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i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate. (link)
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well, i dont really know much about the situation but i'll do my best to help.
try to make sure that shes always included. and let her get to know you more, maybe she doesnt know you that way and she only really opens up to people she knows? tell her things about you to make her feel that its ok for her to open up to you and that she doesnt have to be uncomortable around you. or, you could possibly ask "rosie" if she knows why, because "rosie" was friends with her first. hope i helped. and good luck.
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After I'm in the sun for 3 or more hours, with suntan lotion on, later that day or the next day I develop these bumps on my arms, back, and chest that looks like pimples! Are these just pimples? How do i get them to go away? (link)
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no, these arent pimples. im pretty sure its sun poisining. i think its because your body gets too much sun. i get it all the time. it sucks i know. im not really sure how to make them go away but staying out of the sun will deffinitly help. well now that you know what it is maybe you can find out how to make them go away. maybe getting a stronger lotion will help too. hope i helped.
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LIKe OHNOS I JUST MICROWAVED MY MUM N I DUN NO WUT 2 DO???? (link)
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...how did you get her in there? was she really small..or a really big microwave? wow, thats amazing, your the first one i've heard of putting someone in the microwave. not sure what you should do though...put her in the garbage and say something went bad if anyone asks?
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What exactly is a prude? (link)
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most people use it in sexual refrence which means you arent willing to do anything with someone of either the same or oposite sex. depends which one you are attracted to. some people say others are prude but it might not always be the case. hope i helped.
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Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike (link)
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well one, you should never kill yourself or even think of killing yourself. its one of the most selfish things someone can do. what if you did, and she was going to talk to you soon to get back together. plus it would be really hard on your friends. and two, most people dont get over loves. see how things go with the person you're with now, and if you still constantly think about her then you shouldnt stay with the person you're with because it wouldnt be fair to them, you know? you should deffinitly talk to her though. if your truly love her, talk to her. if you ever need to talk, just look up my info in my column. hope i helped. good luck.
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Okay, i only remember one line of this song. Its:
"Our scars remind us the past is real"
I know a guy sings it, but i just cant remember the song!!!!! and i wanna download it! please help! (link)
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im not going to answer it because obviously you know what it is(i didnt mean for that to sound mean if it did). but if you ever dont remember the name or anything, you can go to google.com and type in the lyrics you do know. hope i helped.
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im 14 and a girl. I have a brother who failed a few times but he is 17. I have a tendency to date older guys. Right now i like this guy Chris and he told me that he liked me too. but there are 2 problems. he is 16 and he is my brothers friend. I dont kno weither or not to give him a chance or like put his life in danger. my brother is very protective and crazy. + i dont go to school with Chris till next year. what should i do??
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well for one, how would you put his life in danger? and if you like him, tell your brother. hes friends with him so he knows him, plus you're his sister so he knows whats good for you. sit your brother down and tell him how you feel about eachother. tell him you wanted to let him know first before you did anything, which will make your brother take it more easily rather than supprising him about it. hope i helped.
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Do you HAVE to be pretty to get a boyfriend? Because in my school, some guys act like they NEED to find the prettiest girl in the world and they be calling almost evry girl ugly... (link)
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deffinitly deffinitly not true. most of the prettiest girls(k well guys think so anyway) are total bitches. the guys in your school are immiture. its the presonality that counts. hope i helped any.
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Im "graduating" from middle school on June 13th. The problem is is that I need to know where I can get a dress that isn't to formal, but formal enough for an 8th grade graduate. Any suggestions or places are appreciated! (link)
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you could go to deb, sears. any type of that place.
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