Should I wear tampons so first time sex won't hurt?
Question Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 7:56 pm
Hey. I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am afraid how much it will hurt. I can't wear a tampon, it hurts so much, does this mean that it will hurt when I first have sex? Should I wear a tampon to get used to this feeling?
jewishgurli89 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 10:44 pm: probly it will hurt but after a little bit it will go away it probly would help you get used to the feeling of sex to wear a tampon but it won't be exact so if you feel your ready go for it don't hesitate!
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Razhie answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 8:17 pm: Sex can hurt at first that's why it is really important to have a caring and understanding guy. Don't expect to get it right the first time. Sex is often a little awkward untill people get used to eachother.
If you are really tight it might take some work to streech you out. Either your boyfriend can help you with that or you can work on it on your own. If you are really worried about how much pain you are feeling you'd probably be best to see a doctor.
mushoku answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 8:12 pm: There are cases when a woman has what's called a hard hymen. If this is the case with you, it would be best to have a doctor cut it and open it up.
In the interim, finger yourself. Seriously. Get a finger up there and work yourself. You'll eventually get yourself to the point that it doesn't really hurt, and when it does, it'll feel kinda good, hence the whole "hurts so good" thing.
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