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Hey. I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am afraid how much it will hurt. I can't wear a tampon, it hurts so much, does this mean that it will hurt when I first have sex? Should I wear a tampon to get used to this feeling?

it will a tiny bit hurt but after a while it will go away , it would probably help if u get used to the feeling of sex! so if u feel that your ready for it, go for it! haha i hope i helped

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Ok, i am a 17/f, and VERY innocent, lol, i've never had sex, but i masturbate, and why is there white and clear discharge "inside" of us? Thanks, I rate Very High!

this clear discharge is best known as female ejuctulant and is more commonly referred to as cum. cum is released at the peak of sexual pleasure, and is PERFECTLY NORMAL! -- no worries :)

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i didnt know what catagorei to put this under but i think it goes here. anyway im a female. ok my problem is that i like to mess with my vagina for some reason and i get a clear discharge but i dont know what its from and why its happening. i seem to get cuts down there and dont know why. my thing( i dont know what to call it but its not the vagina) gets chapped alot. i dont think its an std because ive never had any sex before. what do you think is wrong with me?

i have the same problem ! i mess with my vagina too for some reason. and the exact thing happens to me. the cuts and chapped etc.. is all from just messing around with it. i never had sex either. and that is what its from. dont worry theres nothing wrong with you. i hope i helped.

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Ok, I love my friends very much don't get me wrong. I have so much fun with them. But tonight I just broke down and started crying because I was so pissed and upset. I feel like I'm always the one being laughed at. We all make fun of eachother, and we laugh together, but I feel like I'm hardly ever taken seriously. One of my friends kept saying stuff, saying I live in the ghetto when I don't. And he knows it, he just wants something to laugh at. I didn't care, and it was funny, but it kept building up. Does this happen with anyone else? What do you do? I'd really like to talk to anyone in the same situation. Thank you so much.

i have the same situation. i just said to my friends .. " look , can you please just stop making fun of me. All of the things you say just builds up and some of it hurts even though you might not know it" and they took it fine. they are better now and i never feel left out.

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Hello Advicenators,
I have an impacted/stopped up oil gland on my ear. The impacted/stopped up oil gland is next to where my earring would go in my left ear. It is not ontop of the "hole" for my earing, it is to the side of it. The gland is swollen, reddish/purple, and it hurts really badly. When something touches it (putting on a shirt, brushing my hair, etc., etc.) it feels like someone has stabled a needle in my ear. I know that this is sort of like a pimple on my ear, but is there something I can do to help it go away? Would acne medicine and hot compresses help any? My mom said that if it didn't go away, she'd take me to a dermatologist, but should I try to mess with it or anything?

DO NOT mess with anything. have your mom take you to a determatoliogist. thats the best cure. my cusin had the same problem. She went to a dermatologist and the guy made it go away by giving her something to rub on it daily. i hope i helped you.

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Please don't judge me on this, I'm not nearly as materialistic as I sound here.
Here's the short version:
Last Valentine's day, my guy gave me this really pretty antique ring. This past August, he basically proposed, but didn't have enough money for a real engagement ring or promise ring, etc. He's been working like crazy in general, earning like seven bucks an hour, so I know he has some amount of money.
Is there a way to hint to him that I want a "real" ring before we go to college? I want to be able to flash it in case any guys get any ideas...
He knows my ring size now, and I know his, so theoretically we could buy each other rings.
But how do I suggest this without seeming...I dunno...like "Buy me things!"
'Cause I mean maybe as stupid as it is, I do want a real promise ring. The ring he gave me is starting to tarnish, and it doesn't quite fit on my finger.
Thanks in advance =)

well as it sounds, hes working really really hard trying to earn you the ring. Hes obviously doing the best he can. maybe by hinting you can just say i think we should both get rings. so then people will think we are married and will not get any ideas. its not that i dont trust you, but i dont trust everyone ELSE .. i hope i helped your situation

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Yeah, so my guy and I have been together for almost 20 months, and he proposed awhile back.
The thing is, about a month ago we had a big fight over something INCREDIBLY stupid and almost broke up before realizing that it was completely fixable, and that we'd both be miserable without each other. So really, we never broke up...but I want to know if we're still engaged. It's getting close to a year since he proposed. Should I just randomly do something like "You remember what you asked me a year ago today?"
I mean, he still talks about our relationship as if it'll never end, so I think he still feels the same way. I know he still loves me (if anything, he seems to love me more, and I love him)
So...how do I go about bringing this up?

Being engaged to someone should mean that both are willing to get married. For that to be a good relationship .. there needs to be honesty and communication and to love eachother. and if your not sure wheather your engaged, or if you feel not right asking your fiance' if you are engaged or what.. then this isnt the best decision ever.
now dont take this the wrong way. im not saying that you wont end up together in eachothers arms married but maybe you should give it more time to see if u become more comfortable opening up to eachother. the best thing i can say is to talk to him, it sounds like you both really care deeply for eachother, and im sure you will be fine. i wish you the best of the luck!

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hey i was wondering if anybody knew that jergens natural glow daily moisturizer actually works no matter the skin tones and how long does it take for it to work.-thank you

my sister used that! she went to a website and ordered it a long time ago and she was complaining about how she couldnt find it anywhere in the stores because everyone wants it. you should try going to that website .. maybe google, im not sure. so gat she liked it so it seems to be working fine. its only 5 dollars so its worth trying it out. I sure hope i helped.

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Usually I get my hair dyed and highlighted blonde professionally. But now I want to dye my hair a medium brown and I was wondering if the hair dye boxes at the store did a fairly good job at it? Is it even that possible to screw up on brown? If you have used anything in particular that you've tried and it works, could you please tell me the brand and price, etc? I've use hair dye kits PLENTY of times before, but i always used blonde (which looked horrible) and was just wondering if brown worked. Thanks.

alright. It depends what hair color you get. A medium brown would work fine and would not screw up. If you go to CVS or Sally Beauty, anything there would work in medium brown. and i know this because i had the same problem. I hope i helped

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Could anyone tell me of a site where I can get the song `Do it for the kids` by Velvet Revolver?

yes i can tell you that. www.Google.com and then when google comes up you enter this -> Velvet Revolver "Do it for the Kids" Lyrics

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Ok lately at the same time my period arrives i have been needing the toliet all the time not a wee but poo.All the time and it made me feel really weak yesterday! Is there something wrong with me?

thats perfectly normal. there is nothing wrong with you * it happens to all my friends too. its just a stage you go through when you have your period at times. dont worry! i hope i helped your situation

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how do i get into acting at a young age if you live in a non-important town in Ny. I know I major in acting at college, but I want to start acting on tv before that.
any ideas or tips!?

see you dont live in a non-important city .. because if you are good at acting, then you make your city important. ask your parents for help. Maybe they can register you online. Or there might be a number to call * i sure hope i helped

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