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Location: California
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Member Since: March 24, 2005
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well, i used to like this kid, but im slowly growing out of him ( if you know what i mean)
and well i like this other guy that almost everybody in my school likes. Hes realy perverted and everyone knows he is just kidding(most of the time)
but lately he keeps calling me, sitting near me at lunch and he keeps grabbing my ass..and i dont know if he is just kidding or not..what do i do? (link)
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if you like him FLIRT BACK!! it depends if he does that to everyone though, but i say what the hell go ahead and flirt back!!
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Today my friend Liam invited me to his 18th birthday party. I was rather shocked because I don't really know Liam, but I guess he likes my quirkiness. So I was really excited until I realized that I don't really know any of Liam's friends besides the people he talks to in art class, and only one of them is really a friend. Her name is Rachel. Sometimes I talk to them about things in the art room where I know them from. They're both very open about themselves and have said that they're into drugs among other things. So I'm worried about going to this party tomorrow because I don't want to get caught up in drugs, but I also want to be friends with Liam and Rachel because they're nice people who talk on my level and care about the things I care about.
so should I go or should I stay home and be perfectly safe? and if I go and there are drugs, how can I stay away from them and not come home smelling suspicious? (link)
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personally i say don't go, but it is up to you. you could easily be manipulated into doing the drugs even if you go there intending not to. so the safe choice would be going home. plus if your parents found out about you going to a party with drugs, they probably wouldn't trust your good judgment so i hope you follow my advice.
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My boyfriend told this girl that i hate that one of her friends is hott and hes denying it but i know he said it cause he always says stuff like that what shold i say or do help!!
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i think you should talk to him about that "problem" and if he doesn't stop then think about breaking up with him. and for your problem i say just go up to that girl and say that it isnt true and that she is your friend. and if you still arnt friends with her then idk what to tell ya but to just try to forget about it.
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I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do? (link)
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dump him, if he makes u do something, especially have sex, and u dont want to then i say dump him
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if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite? (link)
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i think it slows your period down but im not really sure
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I have been looking for some shorts for summer. I like SHORT shorts. Does anyone know where I can find khaki or denim shorts that are short? (Lately, everyone has been selling the long, bermuda shorts) (link)
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Ambercrombie and American Eagle, thats what i suggest. but just look around and find new places
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Ok i didnt really start like this kid until i heard that him and his g/f broke up because she had sex with another guy.. and when i found that out he started to talk to me alot and in gym class he started to come over and play tennis with me and some friends...well after a couple of days of that i told my friends they could tell him after gym soo they did and he said he may possibly like me too ( of course he didnt give them a complete answer cuase i mean he is a guy)..well that day i heard that his ex g/f wanted to go back out with him and she asked him back out(they went out 7 months b4 the break up)well i was hoping they werent going to go back out but then the next day in 5th hour she told me they were dating again after class i told my friends and broke down in tears i cried all 6th hour and when i got home i stayed in my room and didnt eat....i felt terrible..he stopped playing tennis with me but now 2 days later he is playing with me all the time and is always flirting but he has a g/f.....sooo should i like him still. . .forget about him and just be friends or is there anything else i can do. . .Please help . . i may be falling for him!!! (link)
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i say if you like him that much, just la low about it and ask him out when he gets single. or you could just find someone new and maybe even better. its up to you. i suggest finding someone new and keep yer options open.
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today in lacrosse practice we were running up and down metal bleachers when my leg caught a corner. the cut is a little deep but my friend put peroxide on it and a bandaid. when i got home, i changed the bandage. now i just took a shower and put bacitraycin plus on it but it looks red around the cut. does this mean its infected? if so what do i do (besides see a doctor)?? (link)
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i would say just tell your mom and she will know what to do and she would take u to the docter and the docter could give u stuff to make it heal and tell you how long it will take to heal.
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Does anyone know where I can listen to songs from the movie "Chicago" without buying the actual movie? (link)
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you could probably do a search on google then download something or just buy the soundtrack
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hi! My friend has been absent from school for 3 months and has been in the hospital, most likely with cancer. I really want to visit her and cheer her up...the problem is that I don't know what to say or what to get her as a get-well present. By the way, she isn't coming back to school...she's homeschooled. (link)
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say exactly that, just say you really miss her and that you want to cheer her up and visit her more often and you don't know what else to say but stay with her. maybe tell her about the people who miss her at school. and for the present, what does she like? stuffed animals, flowers, candy, money, cards? yer her friend, think about it! hope i helped!
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ok i play the guitar and i need to know chords to some songs because i lost my book with all these songs in it so does anyone know like the chords and strummingn pattern to any good songs because im bored as hell with the like 10 i can play, i just keep playing them all over and over and over again so if you could help that would be great! (link)
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i don't know any by heart but look sum up the chords. hope i helped ur boredom!
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omg so i thought i was pregnant and i put the form in my wallet and i left it out in my living room and my mom found it..shes coming home in 15 mins now and said she wants to talk to me abuot something and i looked though my wallet and the pink form was gone....omg what do i tlel her???? im soo scared (link)
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oh wow, are you pregnant or not though? cause you said you thought, but idk what to tell ya. just tell her how you feel about it and tell her your point of view and maybe she will understand. and if u are pregnant she would find out sumtime so might as well talk to her now. hope i helped.
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Hey im getting into alot of fights with my really good friend on the internet and 1 day my mom read our confersation and now she never aloud over at my house again and at school we hang out alot and we havent got in a fight yet and i realyy want to ask my mom if she could come over but im to scared shell yell at me!! what should i do?? (link)
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i have to be honest with you, im not completely sure because i have never been in a situation like that. but if u really don't want to ask her in person u could leave her a note saying everything and tell her why you wrote a note instead of talking to her and she might understand. hope i helped!
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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? (link)
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when you think yer ready, but i have to agree with everyone else, 16/17
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How do you plan out a kick ass party? What sort of invitations should you give out without looking too kiddy-ish? (link)
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just like tell people and then it will get out to everyone and whoever shows up shows up
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Me and this guy were fuxkin and he put "it" in me and it hurt too bad so he took "it" out .. am i a virgin or not? (link)
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nope yer not a virgin anymore
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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.
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i think that it is truely up to you. but my i think that you should talk to him somehow and just ask him if he thinks if it would be alright to date other people just untill you guys meet up again. i hope i helped! *RATE ME PLEASE*
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people told me about squats and lunges for toning legs.. what are those? please explain..
plus.. spring break is a week and a half. i want to get up every morning, weight lift a little, stretch, and go walking. approx. how long should i fast walk, to tone my legs, how far, and how fast will it work?
i need to look better in a swimsuit in other words, please respond fast, ill rate high!! (link)
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well i don't think that you will get that much improvement in only a week or week and a half, but i think that is is really great that you r being so determined. walk untill you now you need to stop, if you r dead tired then stop. but if you have sum energy still then just slow walk the rest. also try to eat healthy. my advice is to not go on sum huge diet but just cut back, like dont have dessert every night, or don't have candy just when you want somethin sweet. well i hope i helped. *RATE ME PLEASE* -x0xTarax0x
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