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Im a young 16 year old girl i like to have fun,Im a modole, Im a cheerleader, i also play diffrent sports. Im blonde im 5ft. 5in. i weigh 145 pounds. i like blue, pink, white, and black, green. im singel but im looking for a boyfriend.i love giving people advise.

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Location: albany Oregon
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so say if i went to the health clinic in my area would i just go in there and say i need to get tested for an STD? and say i want it to be confidential i mean i know its gonna be embarrassing but i really do have to do it because right now thats all thats on my mind (link)
Yes it will be confidential go do it


I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
go to the docters they cant tell your parents anything it's in the law


I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice. (link)
talk to the guy who might of gottin u pregnent


my boyfriend is about to leave for basic and i want to get him something he can use daily or see or whatever to remind him of me...any ideas? (link)
get a poto of you and write somthing speciel on the back


Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not? (link)
just ask her out you'll might have more fun camping with her Lol!


Ok so I took some people's advice and asked my grandmother if I could go on the pill and surprisingly she said YES!!!

But she said she is coming with me to the doctors.

What kind of questions will the doctor ask? like am I sexually active? I'll have to lie to the doctor and say no because she will be there.

I told her it was to regulate my period which needs to be done anyway but she said the doctor will put me on a light dosage.

Will this mean that it wont be as affective with birth control?

I will rate a 5 for all questions answered thank heaps.
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NO but it starts working after a month dose.


How old is way too young to have sex? my bf wants to with me but were only 15!! is that too young please help... if that is too young what should i say to him..

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it's kinda young but if you like him do what you want


ok well i hasve been having sex a lot and its awesome. in n out and in AND OUT! well its been starting to tickle. is this weird? do i need to have sex less? im almost 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet. wooothoot (link)
I think you'll be fine.
Good Luck


In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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Go slow at first and littly put it in dont be in a hurry and it should last longer thats what i do and it last about 30 min. at first it only lasted 2 min.


My friend has always dated someone younger than herself. And she is again. And liking it. And she is a freshman in highschool and is dating this 8th grader. And just today she told me that she might be pregnant. But shes really not sure: they did it once two weeks ago and they were protected and all, but the numbers say that condoms dont work all the time and she hasn't gotten her peroid.
Could having sex just mess up the time it comes? Or is it more likely shes pregnant?
Thanks.
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Yes it could mess the time it comes up!
Good luck


what are the chanches of a condom breaking when have sex? (link)
97% chance


ok i am 13 female and the first time i got my period was in october of 2005! the thing is that i was masturbating when it came on and i thought it was my period ( the 1st one i ever had). then it didnt come back for a really long time now it May and it hasnt really came on. 2 days ago i say a little blood but it was only the size of a nickel and it stopped 10 minutes after. was that my period? also when i was masturbating did i pop my cherry? it didnt hurt and it bled for 2 days. then i never saw it again. i havent had sex at all ever so i know its not anything like that. please help me!
i rate high for good answers. (link)
Yes you could of broke it It's easy to brake


I am 16 /F. Last week i visited my girl friend, she told me they are naturalists and celebrate all week ends as a naturalists and they wear nothing at home. So I went their to see and I was astonished to see all of them nude (Dad, mom, my friend, her 12 year old sis and 19 year old bro). Is this kind of thing allowed? Isnt it a kind of incest? (link)
no as long as they dont tuch eachother or get happy about seeing eachother nude!


I have freckles all over my face and am thirteen years old. three questions-
- are freckles considered pretty in today's society?
-what are some good techniques (ie: masks, serums, ect)
-good makeup to cover them up?

thanx! (link)
Yes they are considered pretty
Dont know!
Dont know!


My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!! (link)
Just sneak behind her back and do it or just bring her on the dates you go on if she's there and or ask your dad


i'm female 14 years old...well you will think this is normal and everything but i still feel weird:

yesterday it was about 11:30 at night and i was still awake listening to some radio then i became thirsty and i wanted to go downs stairs to get something to drink and then on my way downstairs i heard me parents having sex.... it was soo weird my mom was like making this really weird sounds and i heard how my dad kissed my mom and i dont know i was just standing there listening i couldnt move... but yeah then when i couldnt hear anything i went back to my room... and then my little sister (she's only 11 years old) also heard it cause her room is right next to my parents bedroom and she came into my room and she was really nervous and scared! and so am i and i dont know i just have a weird feeling about all this...what should i do?? its just freaking me out!!! and my sister also totally dosnt get it and she said she cant trust our parents or something :-/

any advice???

i'll rate (link)
Talk to your mom about it.


19/f. Me and my b/f have been havin sex for over a yr but it still hurts. My docter doens't think theres anything wrong but another suggested a pap. What do you think could be wrong with me and does any one else have this prob? (link)
Yes get a PAP!!
you could have a STD


What is a hymen? How does it break? Do you bleed the first time you have sex? (link)
Its a thin peice of skin!
When somthing hits it, it breaks
Yes it does


Okay...
My friend had sex last wednesday and when she was done she went home and couldn't sleep. She felt sick, looked horrible, and even started bleeding (she didn't tell me when, though) so we skipped school on thursday to talk and see what was up. She tried to eat and she threw up. She's still bleeding, feeling sick, and everything she eats she throws back up again. Any idea of what's wrong? (link)
She could be pregnent or have a STD or a STI!!!!


My butt is so flat! Is there any excersizes or foods or anything I can do to make it bigger? Help. (link)
sorry about saying that i really mean
Eat carrots, bannana's, and drink alot of water




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