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a few questions about sex/pregnancy
In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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Go slow at first and littly put it in dont be in a hurry and it should last longer thats what i do and it last about 30 min. at first it only lasted 2 min.
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I'll be honest, my boyfriend and I rarely used condoms. At all. Is this safe? No. Am I advocating unprotected sex? No. But I'm telling you, I've gone 7 months, using no condoms, him just pulling out before he came, and haven't gotten pregnant. The deal is though, he tends not to show much precum at all, in fact, I've never even see him precum, when giving him a handjob or blowjob. But I'm not saying he doesn't. I'm just trying to ease your mind about this. People are just telling you that you can get pregnant because, well, you can. It IS possible, but it is not as probable as you might think. But still, to be safe, I would go on birth control pills. It will give you peace of mind. It's what I did. =)
I have the same complaint. My boyfriend doesn't normally last very long the first time but the solution to that is to go again. But if you are going without a condom for the first 30 seconds and it is the second time going, DO NOT GO WITHOUT A CONDOM AT ALL. Because there could still be sperm leaking from his penis and that can get you pregnant easier than precum. So if you're going a second time, use a condom all the way. Okay?
I wouldn't worry about it. But I also wouldn't do it again. Just try and stop stressing and wait for your period to come. If you stress it'll be later and then you'll just freak out more. If you don't get it in the next week, take another pregnancy test.
Best of luck, if you have any questions or just wanna talk feel free to IM me at blondstbrunete34 I love helping people out!!
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1) Lots of people get pregnant by precum. It is totally possible and you should expect to get pregnant if you continue to do this.
2)If your boyfriend is young and relatively inexperienced then 3-7 minutes isn't uncommon. With age and experience, he will learn to "control" himself and last longer. If he is in his 20's for example, most men last much longer then that.
3)It isn't likely that you would be ovulating during/at the end of your period (which is when you are fertile for pregnancy) but many young people have irregular ovulation cycles so it is impossible to predict. In addition, since sperm can live inside you for up to seven days, you may still be at risk for pregnancy when you do ovulate. If you took at test (and it is around the time of your next expected period) and it was negative I wouldn't worry. It IS a little early but don't stress until your period is missed- then take another test. If it is still neagtive them you are good. Just remember ot use a condom (the pill is better though) every time from now on.
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I really don't know how else or how many times I have to answer this same question. If your bf puts his dick inside of you, there is always the remote chance you will get pregnant. The longer he's in there, the bigger the chance. Especially, unprotected. Precum can get you pregnant. The chances of you getting pregnant are low, but are you willing to take that chance? Second thing, yeah thats normal he goes for about 5 minutes. Commend him. He could be a minute man. Third, if your pregnany test came out negative, you shouldn't be pregnant. But if you're having to ask this many questions about sex, you're not ready to be having it. Rate me low, I don't care. I'm not here for ratings, I'm here to give answers.
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Hi..let me answer one question at a time.
1. Pre-cum holds up to 50,000 sperm, so yes, it can get you pregnant.
2.The likeliness of you getting pregnant isn't that high when you use a condom, but if he pre-cummed during the 30 seconds, then you cold get pregnant.
3.Different guys last different times. Not everyone finishes in a few minutes.
4. It was unlikely that you could've gotten pregnant, but you should've used a condom. Without a condom, you can get a STD.
5. A pregnancy test cannot determine if you are pregnant so early yet. You need to wait 3-5 months.
6. Please rate 5, I wasn't mean.
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1) Yes, there is precum and it is possible for you to get pregnant if the precum is put into the vagina. Precum may not have very much sperm in it, but any amount of sperm can fertilize the egg. If a male urinates a few minutes before he has intercourse, the sperm is less likely to be present. But precum is designed to clean out the urethra (the tube within the penis) and bring any sperm that may be left over from prior ejaculations out. That is why sperm can be in precum.
2) Your boyfriend only lasting such a short amount of time is normal for them butttttt it's only because he can't "hold his load" meaning he could most defiantely go longer if he wanted to, but it feels to good for him so he just keeps going till he cums. Try talkin to him about this. The next time he gets close to cumming tell him to pull out & take a breather or flip into a different position that will give him just enough time to "calm down" so he don't nut so quickly.
3) Yes, you can get pregnant at ANY time, here is a website I want you to go to: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
It's a ovulation predictor. Find out when you're likely to ovulate -- this will give you some guideline for future refrence on days to steer clear of having sex. Remember, these are good educated guesses but in no way does it mean that you couldn't be ovulating at other times, so always use protection. The pull out method does NOT work. My 5 year old god-daughter says so...lol Good luck & hope I helped you...drop me sum feedback. :)
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