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sorry this is probably gonna be really really really long
ok me and my dad have always been really close like i could always talk to him and stuff and for the last like year it has only been me and him living together in a city like an hour away from my sister{shes 16}and also where we used to live.and like a few months ago he came to me with a problem that he may loose his job and that finding another job in his feild in reddeer will not happen we would have to move back to our old city where my sis is {calgary}or to edmonton where his gf is{thats an hour away from reddeer in the opisite deriction of calgary}i was realy upset by this because i love reddeer i was popular and happy and nopt afraid to show who i was like i was in calgary.my dad knew i was upset and felt awful about so a few weeks later he came to me saying his old boss offered him a job {in calgary}i didnt think this was very good because he hated is old job {the never piad there bills or anything}but then he told me he would be getting alot more money and his boss promised my dad that he would basically be the boss my dad seemed to think it was a good idea and so i shutup and didnt whine about moveing or any thing his gf moved with us my sis also moved back in since we moved right aftyer school was out i have no friends yet so i dont have alot to cept the computer i have also been hanging with my sister and her friends so anyway my dad has gotten realy cranky since we moved he says i always argue with him and i cant seem to have a normal convo with everyone has seen his mood swings and no one y and i dont no wat to do o and also the job that he took here got screwed just like i thought now he works somewhere else and i dont know wat to do (link)
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i know how you feel one day when i was in America my parents to move us all to egypt because of my dads job also...same thing i didnt have friends so this is what i did and you should do this also...MAKE FRIENDS!! haha look your gonna be going to a new school soon and in schools there alot of children there your bound to find people just like you that your gonna end up to love and if you make alot of friends you meet there friends and there your back to popularity..abouut your dads mood flips talk to him about it and tell him that hes been fliping on everyone ask his whats wrong tell him what he said to you upset you and that you moved here all for him..talk to him like an adult so he can see your mature...tell me how it goes..and i hope i helped kk peace
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im not sure where this really belongs... i was told that i was anorexic... by a doc. so now i think it is time to face the facts... but i dont know what to do... people tell me that i should just eat .. but its so much harder than that... people keep telling me its all in my head... but idk... they are scaring me.. i dont know if im ready to get over this yet... or even where to start... and the worst thing is... i have no suport... family and friends... i already tryed... my nutricionist... all aginst me... and my counsolor.. she just acts like its a one step process... i really dont know what to do... can some one help me??
thanks bunches!
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i was once told i was anorexic also and i didnt want to belive it either so what i did was i tried to find the best thing i like to it and try my hardest to eat alot of it..but not to much so i dont get sick of it...i know the thought of food kinda disguists you right? and you get full very easily...been through it all but before dropping weight like crazy ( like i did) you should try your best to do as much as you can to keep the form your in now before you becomelike skin and bones...peace
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How old were you when you got your first kiss? (link)
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im 15 and i didnt even get it yet..nor have i been in any kind of relationship or even held hands or anything and im very proud of it!! very proud! u feel like a treasure im defiantly gonna wait till marriage
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I hat my mom.She wants me to get new friends because she thinks that all of my friends are horrible (ugh i HATE her)so I wanted to go somewhere with A friend and she won't let me go b/c there is gonna be drinking but i see it all the time...even my dad drinks she is so stupid she alwayts thinks that she is making the Best disision.So my question here is how can i get her to let me go places???? (link)
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wow..ok do this with me..take yourslef out of the whole " noone understands me my parents hate me because they dont want me to get hurt" posiotion and go to your moms position...if you were a parent and your daughter wanted to go to a party where people drink and do alot of horiible things wouldd you let her go? and dont say yes to make your point or because you realy really really wana go..no take this seriously..this is someone you care about deeply..and if you would say yes you would then you would be a horrible mother..if your mom lets you go places with these people that means she doesnt love you or care about you the way she should..so dont say you hate her becuase you dont and she did nothing but try to protect her..you want her to let you go places be reponsibile why do you have to go to a place where people are drinking? go to the mall women or to the movies or just chill with your friends dude stop being such a teenager and look at things from other peoples prospective yeah im a teenager also but i understand my parents point of viwe of things..just chill..have a talk with your mom..try to get more trust out of her ..but to be fair you have to respect her trust to you and not give her any reason for her not to trust you again...dont go all crying and life isnt fair because that way shell see you as a child and there goes any chance of freedom..peace
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hey! 16/f
so my good friend joe and i were hangin out tonight with his little brother and my cousin. well my cousins parents were gone so we were being all crazy and joe always takes my stuff like my keys and my cell phone so i have to go chase him and like flirt with him in order to get it. joe has a GIRLFRIEND and he claims to really love her but i dont know. joes like a really good friend but I wish we could be something more and im not sure if he gets the hint because one time it was me and his little brother in the same room and hes like OooOh you like joe i know you do and im like uhh no we are just best friends as we call each other and so i dont know if he was just saying that or he could tell that i did. the problem is im a HUGE flirt too. i cant tell him i have feelings for him..im just not that way and it will be awkward and it would ruin our strong friendship but i have REALLY strong feelings for him. he always like talks to me about his girlfriend and like gets advice from me. like tonight hes like allright we have to have a talk so we went in the parents bedroom and he locked the door and it was just me and him talking =) and like when i was standing in front of him turned away i know he was staring at my ass and he like always looks at me! i know he sees me as a friend but then he was like always touching me and flirting and laying right next to me and hes always "punching my stomach lightly" and we did a handshake and we kinda held hands. well like i was trying to get my keys back they were in his pocket and i went to grab them and he like grabbed my hand and we linked hands together like him trying to hold me back it was the cutest thing ever and it felt like we were boyfriend/girlfriend. stuff like that always happens he always grabs me and holds me when i try to get my stuff back from him! i just dont know. please dont tell me to talk to him about it im not going to. but is there anything else i can do? and please dont suggest to wait it out and if they breakup he will go to YOU! the problem is i have a feeling they will be going out for a loong time. i dont want to get over him i like being around him but its hard for me at the same time.. (link)
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haha ok well first you said dont tell me to tell him and then you and dont tell me to wait either...so that way you really don have much choices haha ok listen its obvious he likes you anyone can see that just remeber he has a girlfriend and i dont think you should reuin a good thing between them..just because you like him or really like him...i know its not what you wana hear but im not gonna tell you what you wana hear im just gonna tell you the truth if he does like you while he has a girlfriend dont you think if you both do hook up he might like someone else also...you never..im just saying if he comes to you then youll know for sure but as yuos aid you both are tight so you know him better then anyone you should be able to see right through him ...peace
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Hi, I noticed that you answered a question on May 26th. I also answered this same question. Somehow this question was reposted w/our answers on it on June 28th. I happen to be able to maintain an average feed back of 5 most of the time. I got a 1 from this individual back then, but she has recently changed that to a 3 after the other one expired bringing my average down again (twice rated for same question). My feedback points were changed by a level 2 moderator. I don't mind loosing points when it is under legitimate circumstances, but this appears as though she has found a way to keep reposting this listing so she can bring down peoples ratings she doesn't like and it appears she’s a level 2 moderator because that is the level individual who changed my feedback. I've written an abuse report, but they only look at the top of the posting and see that it was posted June 28th. They think that this is the first time the question is posted. If you remember this person said she ruined a girls life...she gets off on that and it looks like she wants to be a thorn in my side because she didn't like my answer. Do you want someone w/this mentality to be a level 2 moderator? I was wondering if you would file an abuse report stating that you did answer this question back in May and was rated then. I have a copy of this posting here to help remind you of the incident just scroll down to the bottom of the post and you will see your answer and that it was posted on May 26th:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=429404
I would appreciate any help in this matter that you can offer.
Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hey umm well this girl also gave me one but thats because her question really annoyed me and i found her consited and stuck up so my advice to her was to stop being so full of herself and she wrote back on my feedback and was like "fyI loser i get staright As" and kept going telling me that the losers are the ones that have to work for the things they want..so i wrote her back and cursed at her...so if i file a abuse report shed probably file one on me..haha...plus she didnt do to me what she did to you but thats proabaly because shes to afraid listen if this keeps hapening to you tell me and ill take my chances and file a report on her ok? tell me how it goes..peace
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=443468 was my last question talking about this topic.
Anyways, today, Jeff acted like he liked me. Like, he sat by me at lunch again, and complimented me on my new a-ar shirt. Then, some girl said something and I hit her in the butt with my agenda and then he was like "ooo hittt me laurie!" and of course we all laughed and stuff. Then, during science class, this kid took my glasses and I was like "STEVEN GIVE THEM BACK!" and jeff was like "o0o Laurie looks SEXYYY without her glasses on," smiling and all, and the other guys at the table nodded their heads haha. idk. it just seems like he gives me mixed signals.
and then, I talked to Ginger about it, and she said she didn't mind at all, because just today she started going out with this other guy.
So, NOW what do you think about him liking me?
=] Thanks. (link)
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yep i think he does..haha and ummm mabey you shouldnt write their names on here because you never know mabey someone you know might read it..si yeh just incase...peace!
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How can I say this ..... hhmmmm .... ummm how can I run away i want to run away i dont like my family I know were im gona go im going to my boyfriends house if I run away and my parents dont know were he lives so thats good .... but how can i run away without my parents knowing ? Cuz i got caught once so i dont want to get caught again ??...
thanks.
-xoxox Vanessa (link)
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Ok...everyone wants to run away some time ...but you cant possibly be thinking of doing that to ur parents i mean imagine how worried they will be look so many people go through worse belive me i know someone that her life is so horrible you cant even imagine but she pulls through so be strong and pull through also..your a women we can pull through anything thats the beauty of being awomen =D haha best of luck and please listen to what i said...peace
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So, basically.. in my school, our group is thee 'mean group' you know, the plastics. Thats what everyone calls us! & well me & this other girl sarah, well last year, we decided to start hanging out with them , because they were always so nice to us. So, now like this is like, something how it would be, if I IMed them..
me:heyy
one of them: hey
me: whats happenin?
one of them: ehmagawd, first off.. i just found out that so&so she thinks she can be friends with us & that she is! hahahaha how funny is that? oh & do you wanna go up to the country club with me today? i didn't know you were a member! whatsherface told me! oh & guess who likes me .. oh & did you know, that nick got captain of the football team? oh yeahh.. how does it feel to be captain of the cheerleading team? i guess you two will be dating now, huh?
& thats what they alwayyss talk about. either what boy likes him, which girl is a loser, & how rich they are. & like, i wanted to get out of there group really bad, me & my other friend. & like one other girl. like, the only one they dont talk behind anyones back, is me. they think i'm there leader. & supposly, one of thee other schools,everyone knows who i am, & this one girl said, that like.. i rule there school? i dont even flippin go there. so before, when we were new to the click, we could get out easily.. but now i dont know how, without them completely destroying our lives.
what do we do ?!
kthnxs (link)
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ahh thats easy just make friends with other people and blow them outta the water that way they cant say anything you said you were the leader right? if the leader moves on to a new group everyone in school will; stick to where she moves so they cant do anything! hahaha peace
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i'm confused as to where the line between the signs of friendship and love actually is,so here are a couple of scenarios,please answer according to number.
1)She calls your name all the time,even when you do not cross paths,or when you are not near her.is she just being friendly?or something deeper?
2)she says you look handsome playing the guitar
3)she compliments you on something(e.g drumming),which is good(she's not just exaggerating it to flatter you).Is she just complimenting because i'm really good?or because she likes me?
4)let's say you are famous in a band,and she doesn't know you but only through recognition from your performances,so she tells her friends that you are the singer for the band or she galnces at you.Is is that she likes you or that she just recognizes you as the singer for that band?
5)She asks your number,but doesn't really message you.Is she shy,or does she just wanna be friends?
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hey,
yeah well i do think she likes you but dont put your hopes up well i dont think shell just take your number to stare at it shes probabli being hard to get most girls liked to be felt like the boy is running after them not the other way around..just dont seem to clingy either that might scare her off...ok well bye
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i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas (link)
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ok well this kid might be sleep walking for example he might dream of cutting someone and was sleep walking and cut her honestly thats the most sensable souloution either that or a horrible coinedence haha..i dont think whatever he dreams of would come true my brother sleep walks also and might dream of drinking milk and gets up and drinks milk and the next day wed tell him that he wokr up at5 in the morning to drink milk and he wouldnt remeber sometimes he evern gets up and grabs my arm stares at me and goes to sleep and he wont remeber the next morning and he would just dream of that so i think hes just sleep walking but they family memebers should watch out for him cuz the next time might not be a cut..
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14/f..
ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.
& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"
do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?
should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP. (link)
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Ok well it sounds like this guy really does like you i mean alot just hes real shy and your bestfriend guy is right but i think he does like you...i think you can see it foryourself and if he hated you why would he smile at you when you came in!? haha and like why would he talk alot about you what if he hates you he isnt gonna go around telling people" shes beautiful and amazing but i hate her" ofcourse not..haha guys are shy these days..best of luck.
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Ok, I'm 14/f and I'm going out with this wonderful boy. It's already been a week and we've been hanging out like every day. I want to kiss him soooooo bad, but I'm afraid because this is my first kiss. Would he find it sexy/a turn on if i asked him to teach me how to kiss? Thanks! (link)
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nothin to worry bout im 15 stil didnt get my first kiss either so well one thing dont ask him if he wants to kiss you because what if he says no what are u gonna do laugh and tell him you were joking? hahaha...look just dont rush yourslef into anything you should wait tilll he kisses you so you dont look like you wanted it more...ok bye
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lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..
i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him
also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..
my life just seems to be going completely wrong.
ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore.. (link)
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laddy noone died hahaha calm down you sound just like me hate everything about yourself just im not jelous of anyone haha listen everyone has something about that they dont like ofcourse theyre might be people that just love everything about themselves even their imperfections they love but normal people are always like "oh im ugly look at my tighs..im fat" just stop if you think your fat loose weight if you think your ugly try and do something about it new hairstyles..new cloth honestly there is no ugly people they are just people that make themselves look ugly...so do something if you think your not pretty how much you wana bet your pretty just you dont think so...most of the people that think theyre ugly are pretty...its kind afreeky actually haha...and for that guy that doesnt like you screw him!! you dont have to worry about any guy there soo many other guys in this world if he has a girl and loves her then let him be happy and look for someone that would make you happy they usually come along...just stop hating life make new friends...and your own style people will follow your trends ;) okay then ...best of luck dude! laterz!
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my boyfriend told me hes in love with me. he looked into my eyes and said it and i think im in love with him too.his friends always tell me that im all he talks about and when im with him he kisses my hand and does the sweetest things and he always says never to let go of him.also he invites me to all his lacrosse games and he ditches his friends just to see me even if its only for 30 minutes...thats a pretty big deal right?when guys are the first ones to say it..they mean it right? or could he have said that because hes afaid of losing me?? (link)
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you can only be the one to know if hes telling the truth or not but honestly i think he really is in love with you! belive me im pretty sure my brother is deeply in love with his girlfriend and he does the same thing!! and hes friends also! usually guys are too afraid to talk about love or say i love you and when they do they really mean it!(Your a lucky one) You got a descnent man! dont let go of him..and to keep your relationship pure dont go to far with him so he wont think that ur cheap or whatever..but like i said before..stick with this one...you might have something
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okay this is not about me . well i was friends with this girl and shes going out with a kid that shes in love with and he loves her well anyway i heard that he cheated on her and had sex with other girls [ hes only 14 ] . i told the girl and we started talking as friends again but then the other girl that told me about it got mad at me for telling i mean was it wrong to tell her seeing it was her boyfriend? please help bc i try to exp-lain that it was the right thing to do. thanks♥ (link)
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just tell your friend if she wants to get mad go ahead but when she has a boyfriend and he cheats on her remind her that you wont tel her...let her know that what you did was right...you know i dont think she wouldve gotten so mad if this was the truth...mabey she was lieing and she didnt want people to find out or something then again this is a guess,, have a talk with these to friends just remeber you did nothing wrong
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my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself... (link)
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well they shouldnt say everyone does it because not everyone does it me myself i find that disguisting but i guess its normal at around your age...ok well its nothing to kill yourself over imagine she came on you having sex...see anything can get worse...listen number one ask for privacy your old enough to have your own privacy and two i dont think your mom wil hate you for this im sure she thinks its normal..talk to her im sure youll feel alot better! hahaha but c'mon why cut yourself!? so shell see u masterbating..wathcing porn...and to make it better your gonne cut yourself? do you think that shell be happy if you did? shell get angrier...and cutting yourslef just hurts! it wont solve the problem...just be brave im sure youll be fine best of luck ~SkAtEr~ laterz
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
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hahaha yeh i think its pretty slutty and umm dont do it and if you have..dont do it again! lol im not your mom i cant tell you what to do but take my advice dont make yourself seem cheap
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I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.? (link)
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yep! its stil the same they hit u sometimes and call u names they call it "kindergarten love" sometimes they can just be actin like idiots and think theyre funny and try to be mean but most of the time they tease you if they like you well there are still types like that why dont you tell me exactly what you mean by him teasing you and ill tell you if he likes you or not ok? just like write a Question in my inbox specifically what you mean. laterzzz
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I've had a crush on a boy since I was in third grade. Now I am going into sixth when school starts again. I asked him out in fourth grade and he said "Yes I will go out with you." Everyone found out thou. A month later he came up to me and said "You know we are just friends." Then I would say "Ya, I know."
I love him not like him. He is a christain (And I am supposed to marry a christain). And I was going to go up to him and say," Why did you say we were just friends when we were going out and if it is because everyone knew then we can go back out starting now and no one has to know.
But I don't know if I should. (link)
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hey this guy "Alpha345" is sooo right you are waaay to young my sisters in the 7th grade and if she had ever said she was goin to date a guy i wouldve dropped hell on here ...love isnt something you can say and not feel its not like saying "i hate you" it means much more know the meaning of a word befor using it...im 15 and i will never date a guy yet at all i find useless you usually brakeup and get your heart broken wait till your in an mature age...
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