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mean girlss.


Question Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:21 pm

So, basically.. in my school, our group is thee 'mean group' you know, the plastics. Thats what everyone calls us! & well me & this other girl sarah, well last year, we decided to start hanging out with them , because they were always so nice to us. So, now like this is like, something how it would be, if I IMed them..
me:heyy
one of them: hey
me: whats happenin?
one of them: ehmagawd, first off.. i just found out that so&so she thinks she can be friends with us & that she is! hahahaha how funny is that? oh & do you wanna go up to the country club with me today? i didn't know you were a member! whatsherface told me! oh & guess who likes me .. oh & did you know, that nick got captain of the football team? oh yeahh.. how does it feel to be captain of the cheerleading team? i guess you two will be dating now, huh?

& thats what they alwayyss talk about. either what boy likes him, which girl is a loser, & how rich they are. & like, i wanted to get out of there group really bad, me & my other friend. & like one other girl. like, the only one they dont talk behind anyones back, is me. they think i'm there leader. & supposly, one of thee other schools,everyone knows who i am, & this one girl said, that like.. i rule there school? i dont even flippin go there. so before, when we were new to the click, we could get out easily.. but now i dont know how, without them completely destroying our lives.

what do we do ?!
kthnxs


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katieneedsadvice answered Thursday July 12 2007, 4:33 pm:
This is rather easy one. I was just like you. Sucked in by the life i thought was so cool! you know everyone at your feet begging to be friends with you. cutting in line....yada yada yada. But you know what....It wasn't. You have to act this way and talk to certain people and leave your old friends begind and be mean to everyone! it is NOT worth it. TRUST ME!!!! Just start hanging around your old clique and slowly move away from them. By not IMing back and telling them straight up that what they are doing is really getting on your nerves. This is gonna be hard. Leaving that kind of group always is. Just be prepared for rumors and nasty comments! but it will be worth it! just stick to your guns and wipe off what they say. its just words!!!

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FACEDOWN answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 7:21 pm:
well at my school there is me and this other girl, and when we were like in 3 rd grade we dicided we wanna become popuar when we get older so in 3 rd grade we acted like snobs. now im in 9th grade and like everyone thinks we are sluttly snobs. and i hate it. and all these girls try to hang out with us and one day i just snaped and i was like o my god are u kiddin me? do u wanna be like me? i was like wow yall are pathtic, and i told them everything. hah and it worked!!! i love it now!! try snappin? cse it worked for me =]

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skater answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 6:36 pm:
ahh thats easy just make friends with other people and blow them outta the water that way they cant say anything you said you were the leader right? if the leader moves on to a new group everyone in school will; stick to where she moves so they cant do anything! hahaha peace

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eternitysofbliss answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 5:03 pm:
Make them mad by being friends with everyone and anyone.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 4:41 pm:
hey well i think it would be easy because you dont have to be friends with some one you dont want to be friends with. you seem like a nice girl so start talking to someone that think isnt worthy enough to be in the "group" or just tell them you dont like the way they talk about people.

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