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ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
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I think that you should wait. I don't think that two days is enough. AND since you just got out of a relationship, you know. You should wait and maybe get to know her a little better before you start another relationship. I'm not so sure that you know what you want right now. So I would hold off.
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Hola! (16/f) I'm an advice columnist on here and I always read those questions that ask "should I tell him I like him". How do you tell someone you like them?
Well, I would ask him who he likes and maybe say "What do you think would happen if we went out?" OR I would just come right out and ask him "Do you think you would ever go out with me?" or "I know we are friends but I've been thinking lately, and I think I like you" But I'm not too sure. I've never told someone that I liked them. But, you know, its probably harder to do it in person. I would suggest talk to him on the phone or the internet.
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OK so my hair is wayyyyyyyy thick and frizzy, like totally thick. If i get it cut to about shoulder length, and get 2 layers taken off, will i see a big difference? Will other people? I alwayssss wear my hair up, so can yu still see the difference? and will it be easier to straighten, cus with the way my hair is now, it takes about 2 hours. Lots of questions, i know, but i'll rate high for any help
You won't believe this but my hair is the same way. My mom is always like "You have beautiful, thick hair and you should appreciate it." BLAH!! lol. Anyways, It went all the way to my back (cuz my mom wanted me to grow it out). I just got it cut up to my sholders not too long ago because I thought it was too thick. But it doesn't look any better. I don't know about your hair but if I were you, I would leave it alone UNLESS you are READY for a BIG change (if you know what I mean). I like it but its WAY different and doesn't look like I expected it would.
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Okay, so ... I'm a month and 7 days late for my period, but I'm NOT sexually active, anyone have an idea of what might be going wrong?
I go through the same thing. But nothing is wrong. The doctor told me that it was just because sometimes, you skip your period. Don't ask me whats going on!! But nothing is wrong. So don't worry about it.
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so my friend is like super hott and i am not a lezbo and she doesnt think so but she tries to kill herself and i have tried to like help her out but i am running out of ideas and i dont know what to do but telll her i am there for her and her friends are too but she wont belive me and i am kinda going through some of the same things like her away message is like i am going to draw a picture on my wrists i will do it with a razor and after all of my problems will go away i used to do the same thing after my dads accident but i dont any more nd i think she will do something she willl regret........................HELP
I'm going through the same thing your friend is going through. Except I'm not thinking about doing anything to hurt myself. What you need to do is take her out and show her a good time. Do this about once a week. Buy her a little something, take her out to a movie. Tell her that you are there if she needs to talk. You know, just do things to cheer her up. Good luck to you and her =) if you need anymore help, email me or IM me at beecuzzimcooool.
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I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?
I feel the same thing you do. I'm pretty sad because me and my ex went out for about two years. Then we broke up all of a sudden. Now he has gone out with plenty of girlfriends since our breakup. All I have to tell you is wait. Thats what I'm doing. I've told him plenty of times that I still have feelings for him. But, keep your current boyfriend. You need to. I didn't because I didn't feel like my focus was on him. Don't worry, you aren't alone. If you have anything else to ask, IM me at beecuzzimcooool. Or email me. =)
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hey im 14/f my mom thinks that i have been having sex latley because i have alot of guy friends. I told her that im not but she doesn't beleive me. It gets kinda annoying i say i have a stomach ache and shes like u could be pregnant. Im like no i couldn't. But how do i get her 2 trust me around guys? And how can i convince her the im not having sex? I was guna go and get a test at the doctors. but she always says we dont have time. or w/e my moms 30. Please help me... i rate high 4 good answers!
What you need to do is buy one of those pregnancy tests at a drug store. They shouldn't be hard to find. Then you need to test yourself in front of her so that she can see that you are doing everything right. I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if there is anything else you can do. Except not hanging out with all your guy friends as much.
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how do I loose 10lbs raelly fast?
All you have to do is eat right (steak, chicken, turkey, salad, etc.) You also need to excersize a little bit. Jumping rope 20 minutes a day will work. Or just run around the house about 5 times. Two easy things that worked for me. You need to keep up the excersizing for 20 minutes or more because when you keep your body in movement for 20 minutes, anything after burns fat/calories! If you have any more questions about this OR its not working, Inbox me or send me an email. OR you can IM me at beecuzzimcooool.
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Ok, I'm 13 (14 next week), 5'1", and 161 pounds. I'm very overweight. Embarrasing, but it's the truth. I need to lose weight. I really want to lose like 50 pounds by Christmas possibly sooner. My mom was going to order the Nutrisystem foods for me but it has been delayed(probably cancelled) cuz we just can't afford spening 300 dollars on something like that right now. Is there anything else out there that can help me?! I don't want diet pills or ebooks but maybe some type of prepackaged food meals that maybe are a little cheaper. Or like a diet plan just for me that doesn't cost much!!!
I'm going through the same thing. I know what you mean. But I know how to lose weight. Even though I can't stick to it now, I've done it and every two weeks, I went down 10 pounds! I know, its amazing! But kids lose weight faster than adults. So.. all you have to do is eat right. Steak, chicken, turkey, salad, etc. No sugar but Yes fat. Don't ask me what it is, but don't eat sugar and watch fats. By this I mean don't eat TOO many fats. Just a few. You also need to do a little excersizing. Jumping rope once a day for 20 minutes non-stop. Or just run around the house about 5 times a day. I've done both. If you need any more tips, Inbox me or IM me at beecuzzimcooool. *wink wink*
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i dont feel comfortable telling my mom i got my period...how do I tell her? what do i say so i dont feel so embarassed?
You should just tell her. Say "Mom, I think I've started my period." All moms wait to hear those words and believe me, they prepare for it. You shouldn't feel embarrased. She will understand.
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can you wear a pad while swimming? or is a tampon reccomended.. can you not wear any?
Well, I don't think I would swim if I had my period. But you definetly DO NOT want to wear a pad. Believe me from experience. You have to wear a tampon.
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i'm a 15 year old girl and i love to masturbate. i do it at least 2 times a day. do you think that is bad? i also like to look at porn, especially girls. do you think its weird for me to look at girls instead of guys even though i'm attracted to guys?
It's not bad to masterbate. People do it all the time. And don't worry about looking at girls. That's not bad either. I was reading a book the other day and for a fat, everyone is more attracted to watching a girl because they seem more active and they play themselves well. Most people find their bodies sexier than a boys body.
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i pierced my cartlige on my b-day on march 31 ... & now im doing cheerleading so they make me take it off ...no biggie, but when i was putting it back on i relized it was infected, so what can i do and shouldnt i do to make it feel better?! (bu the wasy it looks like a have a pimple on the back of the hole thingy but its the infection thingy
Tell your mom or someone. You don't want it getting infected even worse, believe me. Use some alcohol or proxide on it. Get some earring cleaner and wash all around the hole.
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I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!
Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help
Well, you shouldn't let your friend bring you down like that. Tell this "Bob" chick how you feel and what you think about her. Tell her that she hurts your feelings. Maybe you should make new friends so that you won't have to be with JUST "Rob and Bob" all the time. You should be happy that you are skinny and can fit into clothes. Its not your fault what they think. Tell them what you feel. Don't let them act bigger just because they are jealous.
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well i want to find a website where i can find kjute things. like those dollz with quotes or poems. and all that glittery stuff. like i love you. well its kinda confusing but if you know a webiste please put it down~~
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Try www.firehotquotes.com if you haven't already. Its cool!
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i found this guy on the internet.. and we met up and i like him.. ALOT! i mean hes sweet nice cute everything i want in a guy.. but i dont know if hes into me.. he says that he wants to see me again and really soon.. and everything but does he like me? I DONT KNOW BUT I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!
He does like you!! Tell him how you feel and everything. Ask him if he likes you as much as you like him! I'm sure he will be like "oh yeah" because you are probably cool, nice, funny, and sweet! He probably loves you, I'm sure. Try it, chick!
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Other than Jansport, what are some good brands of backpacks? I'm going to have a lot of big books and binders this year and I need a bookbag that will last me all year without tearing or the zippers breaking. Thanks.
What about the New Balance bookbags? Thats what I got in the middle of the year last year. It's cool. I love them. Even though I didn't use it and my friend did, (lol) she was very impressed with it. I'm not sure what I am going to get this year. But if I do get one, I will get one of the New Balance ones.
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well 13 months ago my doctor said i was gonna get my period in 6 months to a year.. but then a year passed and i still hadn't gotten it.. and then i went to my physical 13 months later and the doctor said another 6 months to a year.. but ive gotten like everything such as my growth spurt pubic hair.. vaginal discharge.. etc. but im active.. cauz im a runner... but i haven't ran since the end of may cauz i have an injury.. so i know like you shouldn't want your period or w/e.. but i just wanna get it over with because all of my friends have it except me and i feel so left out.. and my best friend just hers and she says she won't feel comfortable talking about it with me until i got mine.. so i feel so bad.. when do you think i'll get mine??.. do you think i'll have to wait another year??
I don't know what to tell you. But my friend doesn't have her period and she feels so left out. And DON'T feel left out!! Believe me, YOU are the lucky one. You DO NOT want to start. You're lucky so enjoy the free-ness while it lasts! Because when you get it, theres no stopping it! BE HAPPY!!
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hey umm i have really liked this boy for awhile but he has a girlfriend. so should i tell him that i like him. or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or what should i do? plez help.
Well, I have done both of your situations. I've told a guy that I liked him and it messed up our relationship because his girlfriend knew and it was SUPER awkward. But then, I didn't tell one guy that I liked him and I still don't know, by the way!! But, my advice is that you SHOULD tell him how you feel. I mean, having it be awkward isn't half as bad as not knowing what could've happened. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!! =)
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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?
She is treating you like dirt! Don't let her do that! I hate it when people walk over nice people like yourself just because you're nice. She is an idiot. Find a new friend. Don't let her walk all over you! Well, if I were you, I would do the same thing to her. When you get around your friends, don't talk to her. She doesn't deserve you. Believe me. I hope you take my advice and end your relationship with that snob.
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