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so my friend is like super hott and i am not a lezbo and she doesnt think so but she tries to kill herself and i have tried to like help her out but i am running out of ideas and i dont know what to do but telll her i am there for her and her friends are too but she wont belive me and i am kinda going through some of the same things like her away message is like i am going to draw a picture on my wrists i will do it with a razor and after all of my problems will go away i used to do the same thing after my dads accident but i dont any more nd i think she will do something she willl regret........................HELP
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Tell someone.
I had a friend who was suicidal. I never had the guts to tell, but luckily, another friend did. Now my friend is recovering, and she and the other girl are closer than ever.
You have to get help. She may hate you for a while, but she'll forgive you.
If you still think you can talk to her, though, give her a dose of tough love.
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From what you've written I believe that you and your friends are around middle- highschool years right? In those teen years, are when one goes through an identity lost, they don't know who they are and is in self-denial. The best thing for you to do it talk to her and spend time with her. Also see a doctor or a psycatrist because they're not just for crazy people, they're train to help those in needs and who has problems. Both of you can go through sessions together but don't give up hope on her. Good Luck.
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I have a friend just like her. except she was into drugs and alcohol, she was pretty, but she lost everything when she started getting depressed and angry at the world. I can see that this is what is happening. you've gotten some REALLY great feedback and i would listen to everybit you can get. I did tell parents at one point she had run away, she hated me but then she thanked me. She's back in juvy now, and probably will be for a long time bc she didn't listen to me. YOU need to get through to her. Someone said shock the hell out of her. DO IT. DO IT SO MUCH THAT SHE IS SCARED TO DIE. you need to. I wanted to die months ago but i didn't give up LET her know that she has SOO much more to live for. and hopefully that will help. I'm praying for you and her.
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Okey, just be there for her, as you're doing. Try to talk to her, and find out what's going on in her life, that makes her this depressed. Just be someone she could always go to. This should help her. As she'll start to open up, then her problems gonna be going away. Arm... I'm not a phychologiest, but it would be nice if she could visit one.
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You need to tell an adult so there can be some kind of intervention. You have already tried talking to her, her friends have tried talking to her, but it didn't help so now you need to go get help from a adult. She will probably be mad at you but it is ultimately irrilevant if she is mad or not because you helped her and have possibly given her a new life and or atleast a better one.
I hope this helps and you get help for her right away.
Your in my prayers.
-Ryan
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You need to tell someone.. yes, she may get mad at you but would you rather have her mad.. or her dead?? tell your parents or her parents or someone you trust! Get her some help before she harms herself!
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Tell her that you love her and that you would be sad if she "left you". This is a hard situation, I had a friend like that... it got so bad that I told the councilor, and she never attempted suicide again, even though she had to move away... Sometimes people just need a knock on the head, so if that doesn't work, tell her you don't want her to die. Sometimes, if you shock people enough, they care.
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I'm going through the same thing your friend is going through. Except I'm not thinking about doing anything to hurt myself. What you need to do is take her out and show her a good time. Do this about once a week. Buy her a little something, take her out to a movie. Tell her that you are there if she needs to talk. You know, just do things to cheer her up. Good luck to you and her =) if you need anymore help, email me or IM me at beecuzzimcooool.
Hope I helped <33
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