I've been "going out" with this guy ever since this party where we had to kiss for truth or dare...
we liked each other and talked every day for several days.
when we were talking on the phone, I asked him about the things he didnt like, and he said his siblings and gays.
His mom had made this one kinda racist joke that i heard abot african americans, and his brother had called me a name (I'm Jewish)
Could it just be a coincidence about his family? (I'm not gay or anything, but I believe in rights of minorities, being one).
Should I break up with him, or what?
(sorry for it being so long)help!
(his family is kind of the rich white christian type but he seemed sweet)
-HeLpMe-
those prejudice losers. next time, tell them what you think. don't be shy.
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This was something my mom and I talked about the other night, and it really made me think. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same way, as in a bf/gf? I'd appreciate to see some opinions on this...
JyNxiE
i don't think its possible to love two people at the same time in the same way.
here's my reasoning:
when you love someone, you love them with your whole heart and dedicate all of you to them. If you love two people, you don't love either of them enough because the other person would always get in the way of that love.
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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster?
im pretty sure you can't
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I'm female, and i know that i'm going to have sex sometime soon, anyone got advice?
condom.
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what's a mosh pit?
this is totally outta my league.. so i may be wrong. but a mosh pit is basically where bands like rock and heavy metal and stuff play live for a huge crowd. people in the crowd usually shove, push, and body slam each other to the rhythm of the music. it is not intentionally to hurt someone, but it often happens. but it is the people's way to enjoy the music in a different way.
yeah i really wish i knew more about mosh pits. but i dont. sorry.
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How do you get rid of freckles?
you dont
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omg! my mom doesn't want me to be on advicenators without her permission. she thinks it's a freakin chatroom and made me take my picture out of my column! i hate her and she's pissing me off. she's making a big deal about nothing! what do i tell her? she made me take my picture out cause she thinks there's some 47 year old guy on this site who's gonna come stalk me. and i already told her it was mostly teenagers and lyk nobody over 25. like i'm so stupid as to go meet some person i dont know! what can i say to convince her to not be so unreasonable? agghhhhhhh! driving me craziii!!!
invite her to come check it out. there's not too much on this site that i wouldn't mind letting my parents see. if she's soo paranoid, let her see what really goes on. are there any guys on this site at all? ok, i know there are, but not many. so just let her see. and almost everyone's got a picture on their site. what makes her think that a 40 year old rapist would pick you out of all these people.
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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿
well, you should always try to work things. out. next time you guys get into a fight. just be a good boy and stop it. just be like * i dont wanna fight* and blah. but sometimes trying to wokr it out just doesn't work. and if it doesn't... bye bye girlfriend. but if you really love her, try your best to work it out, and maybe she'll try too. good luck. xo0x annie
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I am a fourten year old female.
How many times a week is it healthy to mastrubate? If you do it everyday, is it unhealthy then?
Thanks for listening
XxLostxAndxConfusedxX
i think its healthy to masturbate everyday. i don't think it is ever unhealthy to masturbate. i really wouldn't know. i'm very unhealthy.
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ok well i just moved to a new town, where i noticed everyone goes to church. i am jewish, and only 1 of 2 jews in the town (the other being a 77 yr old man) some ppl here dont like jewish ppl...should i keep it a secret, lie..or tell the truth.. i need help. fast
don't hide yourself from anyone. maybe they don't like jews. oh well. then you're better off hanging alone that with haters like that. and if you're scared they will hurt you, lemme know where that's at cuz i'll go hurt somebody.
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Hey, I'm sorry if this grosses you out but it's just something that happens and I'm wondering if there is a reason why. Well I usually don't go #2 a lot, like people tell me you're supposed to go everyday but I only go like once a week sometimes longer, and it's not like I don't eat because I eat a lot and I don't gain any weight either, I'm 14 and weigh 100 pounds. So I'm wondering if that's normal or what I should do or any advice about that.
Thank you, I rate well.
i don't think there's anything wrong with you. there are certain foods that make you do #2 a lot. and maybe your diet just doesn't consist of it. and maybe you just don't eat fatty foods.
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theres this guy i like, his name is collin. hes really good friends with my friend jessica. i think collin likes me but thinks he doesnt have a chance with me. i've asked him to come to dances and stuff with us but he always doesnt come. i know he likes me alot and i like him but he just doesnt know i like him. i guess what im asking is how do i get him to notice i like him without seeming too obvious?? thanx alot
well, i think you should just tell collin. he seems to not be getting your hints.
but if you still want to be subtle about it, invite him somewhere with you. alone. like to your house or something. so you guys can just chill together. alone. you know? try to get him to go to the movies with you.
annie xo0x
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There is this guy I like, and its like taking over my life.. all the sudden thats all i think about, its crazy! I can't conentrate anymore, even when I'm with my friends.. i dont pay any attention to them. I haven't told anybody that I like him. But how can I stop thinking at him ALL the time? -- Love *Melissa*
find a hobby
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what are some good sonhs to download? some songs that i lyk are "senorita by jin ; over n over again by nelly ; loose my breath by destiny's child ; seven days by mary j. blige" those types of songs .. soo what are some good songs to download?
thnx
some of the songs i like are Oye Mi Canta // N.O.R.E ; Just Lose It // Eminem ; Kanye West's work out plan ; Goodies // Ciara ; and My Boo // Usher .. yeah idk which you'd like but those are some goodies
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who is gonna win? kerry or bush? tell me ur opinions
bush is gonna win.. BOOOO
EVERYONE VOTE FOR NADER
aight yeah, well, i think Bush shouldn't be president anymore becuz he made some madd horrible decisions
John Kerry thinks he can solve every freakin body's problems with no plan to do so.. and we don't need that either
nobody knows who the mess Ralph Nader is, so that's outta the question
so frankly, we all just need Jesus
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I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
thx
Erin
its alright, just tell your bf what ur crush did, and tell ur crush that you have a bf and dont feel right with him kissing you like that
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My gym shoes.. both pairs.. smell really bad.. i wear socks all the time.. and i have tried putting dr. scholls powder in them.. and odor eaters shoe spray.. but they just make them smell worse.. does anyone know a way to TOTALLY get rid of the horrible smell in my shoes?
Thanks!
p.s. I tried 3 different perfumes too.. still didnt help!!
uhmm try washing them out first.. maybe in the washing machine?? or maybe by hand and then try some febreeze.. but it might not work if you don't wash them first
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ok, so, there is this guy i have been friends with for about a year. and well, i like him. he has a girlfriend tho. anyways, he was walking me halfway home and we decided to sit down 4 a minute to take a rest cuz its kind of a long walk. and he tickled me a little, then i tickled him back...and so on....we are both VERY ticklish. well, while we were tickling each other i kinda like, layed back (not purposly) and he looked into my eyes.................................and kissed me! i mean its what i have wanted for so long but i didnt want him to cheat on Kim 4 it! what should i do?! i want to kiss him again but i dont wanna ruin anything with them and i dont think they are ever gonna break up. so...what do i do? he has been talking to me latley and he said that with the way things with him and kim have been going latley that they probably wont last long. so maybe thats why he did it. cuz he was confused.
hey, it's not cheating unless you have sex
and besides, he kissed you first
haha.. soo now you have a reason to kiss him
go for it... unless Kim is your friend. other wise, i would jump on it. you guys can be friends with benifits
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i sing..and if u work ur voice alot..for example ima cheerleader and i yell alot..is that good or bad for ur voice power? does it make ur voice stronger or weaker?
thx
that makes your voice weaker
i had a friend who had a really pretty voice.. and she was a really serious singer..
but, she wasted it on cheerleading
and POOF.. next thing you know, she can't sing anymore sooo blah blah yeah
so thats definately bad
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i dunno what to do..i've liked this guy..(lets call him mike) .. and ive liked him for about 2 months now but its been like really on the dL .. cuz my best friend marissa is like in love with him..and ive been trieing to make her happy and ive been trieing to hook them up but he just doesn't like her..but todays my berthday and he told me liked me a lil but he never told me cuz of marissa and he knew i woldnt do that ot my friend..but i LOVE him..i dont wanan upset my friend..but then agian..i just wanna do something for myseelf for once..please help me =/
if you do love him
you shouldnt let anyone get in the way of that
i know it sounds a little selfish
but you shouldn't
sometimes you just have to do stuff for yourself
tell your friend
she should understand
it's a really hard decision..
but remember, friends last longer than boyfriends
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