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Confused..


Question Posted Sunday October 24 2004, 5:59 pm

i dunno what to do..i've liked this guy..(lets call him mike) .. and ive liked him for about 2 months now but its been like really on the dL .. cuz my best friend marissa is like in love with him..and ive been trieing to make her happy and ive been trieing to hook them up but he just doesn't like her..but todays my berthday and he told me liked me a lil but he never told me cuz of marissa and he knew i woldnt do that ot my friend..but i LOVE him..i dont wanan upset my friend..but then agian..i just wanna do something for myseelf for once..please help me =/

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ppcrn answered Monday October 25 2004, 7:24 am:
if mental maturity is any factor in one's capacity for love, you shouldn't worry, because you're not actually in love. hoorah for you. however, if you "wanan" get some advice anyway, i would suggest you spell-check, and then explain to your friend that you rather enjoy "mike's" presence as well.

why were you trying to hook your best friend up with the guy you like, anyway? if you liked him, you should have just supported her but stayed out of it. looks like you set yourself up for disappointment here, toots.

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xOxTinkerBellxOx answered Sunday October 24 2004, 8:43 pm:
I was in the same situation...you should talk to you friend about this and hopefully she will understand and maybe be she will be alright with you 2 goin out.But dont not hide it from her cause that just makes everythin wrose and take it from me it happened to me.So just talk to her.

-Amanda Marie

p.s Happy Birthday

I hope I helped

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puppy_x3_love answered Sunday October 24 2004, 8:10 pm:
if you do love him
you shouldnt let anyone get in the way of that
i know it sounds a little selfish
but you shouldn't
sometimes you just have to do stuff for yourself
tell your friend
she should understand

it's a really hard decision..
but remember, friends last longer than boyfriends

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Sunday October 24 2004, 7:43 pm:
Tell him!....Marissa will be mad but your not gonna b her puppy for the rest of her life!she'll get over it and shes gonna have to face the fact that he likes you and you like him and he doesnt like her!!..so if i was you id tell him and talk to her about it just b like ok look i know you might get mad at me but i cant keep this on the DL for any longer i like mike! its not that hard you guys can talk it out and if shes really your friend she'd understand!good luck!

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