Q: my boyfriend gave me genital herpes and I asked him to go get checked out and he pretended to get checked out. I asked him over and over did he get checked out and he finally said that he didn't go. And he keeps saying that he didn't give me the STD, but I know he did. What do I do?

Q: here's the deal. i'm turning 18 in a little less than two weeks. i just graduated high school with honors and i have some great friends that i love and an amazing boyfriend that loves me and is wonderful to me. my parents are my biggest fans in everything i do, and i'm so grateful for them (and the rest of my family). so far this summer has been phenomenal- i've had crazy late nights with my girls, my boyfriend is coming on vacation with me on my birthday, i recieved a large amount of money for graduation so i've been able to do whatever i want, and my family is perfect. my parents got me a laptop for graduation, a printer as an early birthday present, and i got an awesome cell phone for christmas. all this has got me thinking, everything is so perfect, there HAS to be something about to go wrong.

my younger sister's boyfriend broke up with her tonight. he was going on vacation with us too. they've been dating a year less than my boyfriend and i have, and seemed fine. i feel so guilty, that everything in my life is great and hers isn't as much. it's starting to hurt my relationship too, because i keep reading and watching these silly romance novels and movies and i see how they act, and i feel like my boyfriend should be like that too (even though he's not outgoing/the romantic type at all). i feel like i'm on the brink of something bad, and it scares me like hell. god has blessed me in so many ways, and i'm sure i haven't deserved it all. anyone have a similar situation or any advice? thank you so much.

Q: hi, random question but what would you say is a good age for kissing (like on the lips...with a guy you love). plz don't say "any age, as long as your ready" caz that's not what i want. when did you kiss? what's a really common age?

Q: 14/female.

Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for two months now (going on 3) and I really love her to death. But there's this guy that I really like, and I've known longer than her. He know's I have a girlfriend, but we result in fooling around all the time. I don't know what to do. It feels wrong, but he's so caring. She's so sweet and wild. I don't know what to do about this, or who to be with. Not to mention, the other night, I was having some problems, and he sweetly walked me through getting over it. Then I slipped up, and said I love you to him. I felt horrible after, and cried for an hour. So can anyone help me out with what I'm going through? Anyone with the same case? It'd be nice to know I'm not alone.

Q: I've been seeing this guy for about a month now, but we haven't officially started a relationship together. I am positive he is interested in me, but I'm not sure about my feelings. He's a good guy and all my friends approve and my parents like him. He's very talented and into music and he's pretty easy-going. And he treats me with a lot of respect(opens doors, pays for dinner, good manners). But I don't know if he's my type- I'm athletic and outdoorsy, and he doesn't like to work out (and he's slightly overweight). We get along well, but he's not my dream guy...

Point is, I'm a busy girl, I don't normally invest time in a relationship unless I think it will have potential. Is this guy worth sticking with?

Q: ok so i have tried to put in tampons and it didn't go so well. Am I doing it right or is there something wrong with me? I put one leg on the toilet and put it in the hole. But when I was trying it wouldn't go in. I can see the hole but when i try to put it in, there is like a muscle stoppng me from putting it in. and when i push it in it hurts so i stop. Am I putting it in right or is it suppose to slide in?

Q: So me and my boyfriend have been together for around 9 months, and he is 22 and I am 20.. I want to do something really special for him for no reason..what should I do that won't be over the top, but will be just perfect for us. He loves to drink and party, and we both have outrageous senses of humor, we also attend Baylor together..help! Thankss

Q: I have an annoying friend and she always talks about her self. I like her because we are besties, but she only talks about HER and what she will be doing and who she talked to and blah blah blah... Everytime I talk about me or anything other than her she changes the subject or doesn't listen to me. She also would ditch me to sit at the back of the class or with cooler people, and she doesn't care if i end up sitting by myself. Please help me, I don't know how to let her know she is making me angrier every day. What should I say to her?

PS. I have tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen and wouldn't take in what I was saying.

Q: im sixteen & ive had a boyfriend for six months, i know im in love with him and i really just want to have sex, not just because he asks me to but because i really just want it, for some reason i just havent done it yet maybe because im scared i might get like pregnant because my mom wont let me get birth control, obv hes going to wear a condom, and i knoww he doesnt have any diseases so do u think im safe to have sex?

Q: why doesnt he care anymore?
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 7:15 pm
so i dated this guy for a year and a half on and off....the only reason we broke up was because i moved away and we barely saw eachother...well he start doin things that i never thought he would do. he start smoking and drinking and gettin high alll the time... then we kinda just fell apart and started dating other people ,but even though we were both dating other people he made it clear he still loved me , and i was the only girl he loved...and that his new girlfriend was just a crush, but anyways he heard from my x boyfirend that i did all these horrible things wit him, which was not true. but like an idiot when he asked me, i didnt deny it. and now he is acting all in love wit his new girlfriend and he doesnt even wanna speak to me anymore,...my question is... do u really think he is over me...or do u think we will get back together on day?/

Q: im in love with my x still and its so hard to move on..
but i realy wanna move on.someone please give me some advice on what i should do..

Q: Whats the best way to ask a girl out?
Im really shy when it comes to asking.
Should i ask her to the movies, just me and her?

We both do mixed martial arts and wrestle.

Should i hang out with her a few times before i ask her to the movies on a date?

Any advice is welcome, thanks

Q: 14/f

I don't have that much time to get a tan this summer, because it's not that easy for me to tan. basically, all I want to know is; is it possible to use makeup to make it look like you have a tan, that will cover your face, AND not look fake? If so, any suggestions? Thanks!

Q: today i was shaving "down there" and i got a few little cuts at the top of my vagina, like the kind you get when you're shaving your legs. there were like, maybe 4 of them, small little dots, with only a little dots of bllood. i cleaned the cuts with soap and water and put a band-aid over them. could anything happen to me? like a disease or something? it stings a little, but i think that was from the soap. what are the possibilities of something happening, and what could happen? i'm kind of concerned and nervous, please help
!

Q: My friend is about 4 feet 7 inches and weights about 80 pounds. She wears about a size 3 in shoes and her pant size is about a 12. She just turned 12 in March. Is she the the avg size for her age?

Q: I've been writing since I was little, and was always told I have an over active imagination.
I really enjoy writing, and I seem to just live in the story [which can or cannot be a good thing]]. While in the 7th grade we had a lot of writing projects, and everytime I got high praise. Even in music Mr. Lounsberry told my parents they should really let me pursue it because I have a very Uneek writing style.
Writing is something I couldn't live without, and I get my ideas anywhere, and a lot of my friends that read my stories started writing some of there own. A lot of them say they really like them too but I don't know if there just saying that to not hurt my feelings or not.
So I was wondering if there was any website you can submit storys to be read that wont be copied
-I put my heart into my writing and I dont want some random persons name on it.
It would also have to be free.
And then maybe if someone on here has like a Myspace, or something that wouldn't mind reading my storys. There really long... I just want an opinion on my writing from someone who doesn't know me. I just want to be carefull because I dont want anyone stealing...
Thankss

Q: i got this bathing suit and its made of 100% cotton. problem is, the top is a little too loose. is there anything i can do to shrink it a little? thanks!

Q: What are some clever ways to trick a boy into telling him he likes you without you telling him you like him?

Q: What are some good stores for plus size hip hop clothing?

Q: I'm 16/f never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, the whole nine yards. "Every woman has that certain quality that makes them attractive to men." I happen to think this is a load of bull and is true to a degree of how you look. It's annoying when you just want to get to know a guy and they ignore you because how you look. I understand that the first part of attraction is mainly appearance but what if you don't have looks? How do you try to ask a guy if he wants to get to know you when in this world if you don't have "it" then you aren't worth the time?

-Lon

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