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life going TOO good?
here's the deal. i'm turning 18 in a little less than two weeks. i just graduated high school with honors and i have some great friends that i love and an amazing boyfriend that loves me and is wonderful to me. my parents are my biggest fans in everything i do, and i'm so grateful for them (and the rest of my family). so far this summer has been phenomenal- i've had crazy late nights with my girls, my boyfriend is coming on vacation with me on my birthday, i recieved a large amount of money for graduation so i've been able to do whatever i want, and my family is perfect. my parents got me a laptop for graduation, a printer as an early birthday present, and i got an awesome cell phone for christmas. all this has got me thinking, everything is so perfect, there HAS to be something about to go wrong.
my younger sister's boyfriend broke up with her tonight. he was going on vacation with us too. they've been dating a year less than my boyfriend and i have, and seemed fine. i feel so guilty, that everything in my life is great and hers isn't as much. it's starting to hurt my relationship too, because i keep reading and watching these silly romance novels and movies and i see how they act, and i feel like my boyfriend should be like that too (even though he's not outgoing/the romantic type at all). i feel like i'm on the brink of something bad, and it scares me like hell. god has blessed me in so many ways, and i'm sure i haven't deserved it all. anyone have a similar situation or any advice? thank you so much.
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Life is full of ups & downs. the ups are always higher then the downs are lower.
right now your on an up. your sisters on a down. dont feel guilty because eventually shell be on an up too. just enjoy it! it wont last forever, so enjoy every second youu have of it.
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If you've worked hard and are a good person, i believe you deserve to have good things in life, this revolving around the whole idea of karma.
If everything in life is so good, don't worry about bad things until they happen. There's no point worrying about something that may not even happen.
With your sister, she's going through a rough point right now, but everyone does. Just support her and be there for her and everything will be alright with her in the end.
In the matter of you and your boyfriend, don't try to change him, he is how he is. Sometimes i want my boyfriend to be like the guys in the movies but at the end of the day i can't change him and i'd rather him be himself than someone he's not.
Take life day by day, don't worry about what could happen, be grateful for what is happening.
Love xXxPunki-PixiexXx
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I say just keep thinking positive. Just because everything is going well, it doesn't mean something HAS to be bad. God does work in mysterious ways, though =].
If you're really scared, I would try talking to your boyfriend about this all. He might understand and be able to offer you some comfort.
Just keep praying to God that He may continue to bless you and keep everything going smooth =]
--Jack
(16/m)
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