I'm cheating on her with him,and he's okay with it.
Question Posted Monday July 7 2008, 1:54 am
14/female.
Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for two months now (going on 3) and I really love her to death. But there's this guy that I really like, and I've known longer than her. He know's I have a girlfriend, but we result in fooling around all the time. I don't know what to do. It feels wrong, but he's so caring. She's so sweet and wild. I don't know what to do about this, or who to be with. Not to mention, the other night, I was having some problems, and he sweetly walked me through getting over it. Then I slipped up, and said I love you to him. I felt horrible after, and cried for an hour. So can anyone help me out with what I'm going through? Anyone with the same case? It'd be nice to know I'm not alone.
Sounds like you have feelings for both
but no real loyalty to either. You need
to let both know that you are not exclusive
to either and just date both until you know
for sure what you want. There is nothing
wrong with doing that. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
luvbug555 answered Monday July 7 2008, 4:31 am: have you seen the show tila tequila? anyway, she basically has your same problem & ends up with NEITHER one of them in the end.
Kittzen answered Monday July 7 2008, 3:19 am: hey, i have a friend that is just like you and i walked her through this countless times. Wow tuff one, ummm.... if i were you i would go on a date with each of them and see who i like to spend my time with more. also i would see on this date witch of them i could see myself with down the road. i would pick the one that I could tell my secrets to and they would never get mad at me for what I tell them. you would want the one that fit your life better, you know personal and junk. [ Kittzen's advice column | Ask Kittzen A Question ]
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