im sixteen & ive had a boyfriend for six months, i know im in love with him and i really just want to have sex, not just because he asks me to but because i really just want it, for some reason i just havent done it yet maybe because im scared i might get like pregnant because my mom wont let me get birth control, obv hes going to wear a condom, and i knoww he doesnt have any diseases so do u think im safe to have sex?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? luv_nelly_06 answered Monday June 30 2008, 12:06 am: i think you shouldnt rush it, sex is not all that great. its painfull and its embarrassing. take it from someone who's been there and done that,,,just wait to have sex.. there are so many comlicplications, stds hiv , aids. and getting pregnant are only some....so please wait...if your bf really cares about you.. he wil wait till you are completely ready no doubts or anything...
Elcee answered Sunday June 29 2008, 10:23 am: It is very sensible to think this through and take your time. I would suggest that you try and get an appointment at Family Planning for contraceptive advice with or without your parents knowledge. Definitely use a condom every time regardless but make absolutely certain it is what you want. Take care. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
luvbug555 answered Sunday June 29 2008, 9:01 am: Yes you probably are. But you still could get pregnant. Its not likely, but its possible. Its even less likely if your on birth control. But have fun. [ luvbug555's advice column | Ask luvbug555 A Question ]
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