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hey i just wanted to ask and see about obortions my girl is pregnet and i dont know what to do and everyone said that it will be expencive but she dont want it eather what to do? (link)
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Well, my opinions on abortions straight up, are that it is a way of murder. I do not recommend going through this. Seriously if you don't want the baby and she doesn't want it either you should probably give it up for adoption when it is born.
If you weren't ready for this baby in the first place you probably should have thought of that first. Don't abort the baby. That's like killing someone.
http://sibbyonline.blogs.com/sibbyonline/images/abortion0801_1.jpeg
Don't do this to an innocent child. I know you may think that if you have this kid it will ruin your life, but hun trust me it will ruin your life to kill the baby. Talk to your girlfriend about keeping the baby and giving it up for adoption. You don't have to keep the baby once it's born just keep it till it is born. Trust me, if you go through with this you will have a terrible time dealing with it. Do what you think is right.
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At what age do teenagers usually get past basic levels of thought and begin thinking more intellectually?What I mean is...when do they start to form their own opinions,have some idea of what they want out of life,and just generally gain a more adult outlook? (link)
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Really so many people are different. I'm 15 and i still have so much growing up to do. But I do try to think to my best ability. Some kids my age are just living off of their parents and not thinkin' yet. Me...I would like to say that I do think on my own. I try to give outlooks on life that are believable and arrangable. I still am a goof-off at times, but I know when to be serious. And as for what I want out of life...that part I haven't completely mastered. I do know things I want to do in life before I die. Things like help children in Africa and work for an organization that gives to the needy. That may not be what you are looking for, but those are my two most concerned thoughts when it comes to my life and other lives. What I really want in life is to be happy most of the time. I'm not sure if that is really looking beyond everything and examining things, but if you think about it that can be a way of teenagers expressing their true feelings. Also I have a lot of friends who still have not comprehended the whole be-serious when you are suppose to and be-fun when you are suppose to. My friends get those really confused. Being mature means you know when enough is enough and too much is too much. I feel like I understand those, but my friends don't always. So you see, it really depends on how you have been brought up and other related characters. I hope I answered your question.
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How to do you delete songs off your ipod?
Not just from itunes, but from the actual ipod?
Thanks. (link)
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Sorry, but I don't think there is a way to delete them straight from your iPod. I'm pretty sure you have to delete them through iTunes.
Steps for deleting them off of iTunes:
1)Find the song you want to delete and right click on it.
2)On the list the "delete" button is third from the bottum.
3)Left click "delete."
4)It should ask you "are you sure?" or something like that. Click "yes" or "ok."
Hope that helped. Really sorry I couldn't help you with deleting them off of your iPod because I really don't think you can.
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Hi everyone,I'm 23/f, in a dating dilemna. I was brought up on The Rules and, more recently He's Just Not That Into You. Now I like a guy, think he cold like me, and am unsure whether to ask him out. I;d like your thoughts and experiences, please, to help me find my way.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Your life is short...don't hold back anything. Do what you want to do. If you think asking him out would be a good choice than do it. If you don't he may have been that perfect one and you could let him slip away. Ask him out if you are really into him. If you're not sure if you are really in to him then just ask him anyways. You have nothing to lose and he has nothing to lose. Ask him and if you don't like him then tell him how you think you should just stay friends.
I'm younger than you, but I have experience with this kind of stuff. Not just with me but my friends and family members. Once my brother had a girlfriend who was as good as it gets. They broke up over those stupid little fights that shouldn't make a couple break up. He then was really sorry he did that and wanted to ask her back out. He couldn't ask her back out though because he was scarred she didn't care for him anymore. She really did though. He didn't ask her out and soon she started to date someone else. He is still in love with her but now she is getting married. It's sad and although you aren't at that level with this guy you should probably stil test it out.
If I was you I would definitly ask him out. Maybe you could talk about double dating just so you will feel more at ease and then if you do like him take a second date alone. You never know, he could be THE one.
Hope I helped, good luck!!
Kelse Kaye
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I`m only 13 and my parents treat me like I`m 18 and they won't buy me ANYTHING! They make me pay for my clothes, my food when I go out to eat, staying at hotels for a family vacation, and basically everything. They won't even buy me a pack of gum! I'm only 13 and I can't really have a well-paying job and I already walk dogs but that can't pay for everything.. I can't even shop anymore because I don't have enough money for more then 2 shirts and as soon as I buy 2 shirts I have to save up for another 3 months until I have any money again.
It really annoys me because my friends always brag about how their mom took them to the mall and bought them 9 bags of clothes and they didn't have to pay. My parents haven't bought me any clothes since I was 11. My mom never takes me to the mall because she says "I don't like to drive and it's too far away." Yeah, the mall is literally 10 minutes away. I still have all winter clothes to survive in this summer because I have NO money to buy anything and my birthday has already passed.
Don't you think it's harsh to make a 13 year old pay for EVERYTHING including like gum and stuff?! The most I can do is walk dogs and it's not like they are punishing me for being a bad kid because I get straight A's and I'm never in trouble so it's not a punishment.. I think they are so harsh because clothes are a necessity and all of my friends sit on their butts and get everything handed to them and I`m trying to pay for everything and it's not going to work out.. I've already tried telling them that it's impossible to pay for my own wardrobe and food and stuff when my only way of getting money is walking dogs because my parents don't pay me for helping out around the house and stuff.. so how can I get them to lighten up and at least pay for SOME of my clothes and other stuff? because it would be helpful if they pitched in a little bit.
P.S if you think I should start babysitting to make money how do I bring this up with my parents?? and I ONLY want to babysit for my neighbors so should I tell them straight out I want to babysit or should my mom tell them? (link)
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Okay. first off this is ridiculous. I can see their point in making you pay for some stuff, but everything for a 13 year old. I sympathize for you, hun.
Second, do you have any relatives that are close to you and your family? If so, you should ask them to talk to your parents. IT might be a good idea and it might not. Be timid with that one. You should talk to your relative to find out what they would say. And if your parents are the stubborn type I wouldn't try this approach.
You could also try to talk to them by yourself in a well organized speech. First you should state the problem at hand, you can't pay for everything by yourself. Give your reason why you can't possibly pay for everything. Then support your answer. Do some research on how much the average 18 year old can make in a year. Talk to them about child labor laws which make it difficult for you to even get a job let alone work enough to afford everything. Your research should be well thought out and you should be able to answer any questions they might have about it. Find some sort of amazing statistic that will get them way interested. Then lastly, say something like this, "The reason it is immpossible for me to pay for everythign is the simple fact that 13 year olds are not alowed to work over __ hours in one week." Don't use that exact one because it sucks but it's just an example. Make sure to use complete sentences in all your statements. I know that sound freakin ridiculous but trust me if you have this well thought out they will consider it more. NExt this one is the one that got me a cell phone. Come up with as many reasons as you possibly can find that you shouldn't have to pay for everythign. Type them up and give one list to each parent. Be very persuasive. DON'T use the exuse "all my friends don't have to pay for everythig." parents hate that. make sure they know that you will keep your jobs you can and pay for some stuff. hope this works. GOOD LUCK!!! let me know how it goes.
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he said, "if i still talk to you like this, then when im 18 i might want to be with you." he's 13 now and im afraid of what's going to happen in between those 5 years so if he said that now does he really love me? (link)
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Hun, this guy is playing you. If he really loved you he would be with you now and not when you are 18. That's too long to wait for love.
Don't let him play you. Tell him what's up. Say something like, "I'm not into being played so if you wanna be with me you'll have to take me now cus I won't be there in five years." Be the boss. He is trying to control you.
Don't let him control you. You are in charge of your own life. You deserve someone much much better. Find someone who will date you now and loves you for you. I'm sure you can find someone.
Don't wait around on him.
So to answer your question...no I don't think he loves you sorry.
Find someone worth your time,
Kelse Kaye
Keep me posted
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Hey i am a 13 year old girl and i have a boyfriend and he's like reeeeeeeeealy sweet and he loves me but.... When ever im sad he like just gives me this look as if i have done somthing to affend him. Then he just walk's off and dosen't do anything about it. so what should i do???? Can someone help me please im crying:'(
Love,
sad and no one cares!!! (link)
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Before I give you my advice I should probably say to you that no matter what he can't make your problems go away. Don't depend on him to make them go away.
But he can comfort you when you are sad. Some guys don't exactly have that thing to them that makes them know what to do all the time. Since you are 13 and I'm guessing he's 13 he is probably still trying to mature, find out who he really is, and see all of his options. Because of this maybe he isn't real sure how to handle it when you go in to your sad mode. So here is how to fix it...
Ask him one day (randomly) "If I was sad right now what would you do?" Try and ask him this when you are alone and kind of intamate. Like watching a movie and you are both really into it. He will say something like "Hold you" or something like that. Pretty much he will try and sweet talk you. Then say "Then why don't you when I am sad?" Challenge him. Then tell him it bothers you when he won't comfort you. He'll come around it just may not be right when you want him to.
Also don't be so dramatic. This being dramatic can affect you worse than actually being sad over something. Hang in there, hun. He'll come around.
Hope this works for you,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. Keep me posted!
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does anyone know the name of his song that is new.. and it goes something like "and youv given my the most beautiful set of wings" i think thats how it goes.. and at the end he has little girls singing it (link)
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The song is "Last Dollar." It's a really good one. The album is "Let it Go." Here are the rest of the lyrics to it incase you need them...
http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/mcgraw-tim/last-dollarfly-away-19704.html
Tim Mcgraw rocks my sox off...lol.
Hope I helped
Kelse Kaye
P.S. I'm a big Tim McGraw fan and a really big country fan. If you need more info just drop one in my inbox.
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i just read someone who said that they shouldnt go tanning because they have a mole or something like that. i did not know this and im like freaking out because i want to go to a tanning bed but i have like a mole above my lip to the left, like how celebrities draw theirs in (christina agulara)
anyways whats going to happen to me if i do??
im scared ive always wanted to go!? (link)
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I'm sure you will be fine.
The mole the other girl was talking about was a big and nasty one that could cause cancers.
By you explaining that it is one that the celebs draw in...I'm sure it's harmless.
Don't let it bother you. Use a tanning lotion with a little SPF in it.
Don't tan too long. If you are a beginer at tanning only tan for about 15 min.
If you are experienced you should know your limit. Don't worry...but you might want to
see a doctor (just in case). He can tell you
if you can tan. But more than likely you have nothing to worry about.
Have fun tanning,
Kelse Kaye
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I am 15yr. Female. I have never had sexual intercorse. For the past two-three years ago I started geting these bumps. My doctor said it was an Absess [sp] from the bloomers I wear. They were to tight. I havent done cheerleading in about a year now but I am still getting the bumps, but they are worse now. They have moved lower and open like a sore. Is it possible that I have Genital Herpes?
I am still very active in sports. With summer coming up my next sport is SWIMMING and DIVING. Those sports are my life but i am to embarresed to wear a bathing suit with the bumps..
Please if you know anything.
Any information will be appreciated. (link)
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I don't think you do have any, but there is a chance you might. I'm no doctor so don't quote me, but if your bloombers have ever been worn before than the person who worn them could have had herpes and passed it on to you. It's unlikely unless you didn't wash the bloomers thoroughly, but still a chance.
Also they might have been the same sores except got infected. Some sores can get infected and spread. You might want to consolt your doctor really quick because if it is a bad infection you could die. But until you get to a doctor drink lots of water. Infections can dehydrate you and kill you. Keep water running through your system at all times.
Hope this works,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. Good luck. I'm praying for you!
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i have noo idea what to wear to school tomorrow!
i have a pair of khakis (http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_285120_-1_12620_12552 in khaki).
can someone tell me what would look cute with those? i have a lot of shirts... in every color... so any cute colors? or a specific type of shirt that would look good with those pants?
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Don't wear short sleave knits. It will look really tacky. Wear something like these things...
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_321246_-1_13062
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_317789_-1_13062
Don't wear this one in green...you're better off with pink.
A cute lil Abercrombie pink shirt would look adorable!
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Does toothpaste help get rid of pimples? (link)
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No. It does not get rid of pimples, but it does hide them if you apply a small small amount over a pimple and rub it in and then put makeup over it it helps so it's not noticeable. But note that if you do this you are causing a better chance for getting more pimples because of the build up.
There are alterniatives to this though. Mary Kaye makeup produces a product that does the exact same thing but is much much better for your skin.
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15/f. i love hayden panettiere. i think that she is gorgeous and i want my hair to be like hers. can anyone help me and give me instructions on how to get my hair like hers in these pictures:
1) http://www.hayden-panettiere.info/gallery/albums/photoshoots/parademag/hayden-panettiere2.jpg
http://www.hayden-panettiere.info/gallery/albums/photoshoots/parademag/hayden-panettiere5.jpg
2)http://www.hayden-panettiere.info/gallery/albums/photoshoots/okouttakes/normal_002.jpg
3) http://www.hayden-panettiere.info/gallery/albums/events/2007/peopleschoiceawards/normal_38412_Celebrity_City_Hayden_Panettiere_051_128_122_424lo.jpg
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You will need the following:
1) *If you have friz use CONTROL FREAK from the Bed Head company (it says its for straightening, but don't worry about it. it will hold really well for frizzy hair)...Price-$17.95
* If you don't have friz use MAXXED OUT from the Bed Head company (it's your hairspray. it works really well and is good for the enviroment)...Price-$20
* SMALL TALK 3-IN-1 from the Bed Head company (it's a stylizer and thickener)...Price-$15.95
* HEAD SHRINK from the Bed Head company (it's gel and it holds really well for when you are ready to curl)...Price-$11.95
* 3/4 in. SPRING GRIP CURLING IRON from the Chi company...Price-$96.91
2) * SMALL TALK 3-IN-1 from the Bed Head company (it's a sylizer and thickener)...Price-$15.95
* HAIR STICK from the Bed Head company (it's a really soft hold)...Price-$20
* WORK-IT from the CatWalk company (it's a hairspray that adds shine and it smells great!)...Price-$11.66
* 1 in. FLAT IRON from the company Chi...Price-$138. Or...PROFESSIONAL CERAMIC CURLING IRON 1 in. from the company Chi...Price-$105.95.
3) * Everything you used in your first hair style EXCEPT...the SMALL TALK 3-IN-1. But maybe take the size of the curler down to a half inch.
1)Wet your hair or after a shower brush youre hair out.
Then put in your HEAD SHRINK. Put it all through your hair, but DON'T put too much or it will end up being really hard to curl. Thin hair-Dime size. Medium hair-Nickel size. Thick hair-Quarter size. Thick Thick hair-50 cent peice.
Lather it through until you can't feel any globs of it. Flip your hair around so it evens out.
Blow dry about half of it and then put in your SMALL TALK. Don't put your small talk in on the bottom of your hair just put it on top all through your roots and half way down your hair.
Lather it in. It's okay to put it in dry hair just make sure it gets lathered in completely!
Blow dry the rest of it and fluff it with your hands as you blow dry it.
Now take your 3/4 in. curling iron and curl your hair really tight. But don't curl every bit of it. Only curl the bottom and leave the top alone. When you are done...take the top of your hair and go underneath some of it. Rat the underneath with a rat tail comb. Rat it really good and then comb back your hair. This is where your gell that you put in earlier comes in handy. Slick only half the har back and the other take a straightener and pull back the front of your hair to make it look like there is more to it. Hair spray it down with Maxxed Out or Control Freak. Hair spray it really really well.
2) Blow dry your hair half way and then add the Small Talk. Do the same with it as you did in the last hair style except put this all through your hair. Flip your hair all different directions for a while to volumize it more and more with the Small Talk. When it's all dry take your Straightener and pull it back in a curling motion and do this everywhere. Don't make the curls tight. When the curls are done run your fingers through them to let them all flutter out. When your done use the Hair Stick and Work it spray. Use them together in your hand mix them up and run your hands through which will add more fluff.
3) With your hair wet put in the gell and get it all through your hair. Flip your hair. Blow dry your hair. Pull more than half of your hair up in clips and curl every peice just right. Curl it very very well. Use the Control Freak or Maxxed out stuff after every section. Make sure to section off parts and don't curl all of it with your hair down. Spray every part really well, but not so much that it shows as a really stiff do. When you are done use your fingers to seperate the curls.
REMEMBER-The stuff I listed at the top you don't HAVE TO HAVE. It just gives you my favorites to use and it gives you an idea of what you'll need. Find products just like these and maybe even cheaper.
Hope it turns out GREAT
Kelse Kaye
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why does tyrie get arrested in the real world? (link)
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Tyrie was abusing his girlfriend Jazzelle (I think that's her name). He yanked her into a bathroom. I'm pretty sure he was drunk, but that's still not an excuse. I think it's playing again tonight.
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do 16 year old guys allready have sex???????? (link)
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Ya...unfortunatley. But some guys really do have sex. Some guys talk about having sex to seem "Cool" to their friends, but really don't. And some guys are truly awesome and save it for marrige.
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how do i make it REALLY enjoyable for my bf?
please&thanks. (link)
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A blowjob is pretty disgusting when you talk about it so stick with me cus this isn't the best to talk about.
First off guys like being teased. They want you to tease them so when the time finaly comes they are all arroused up. WHisper little nothings in his ear that are sexy. MAybe start up a movie in your bedroom. While you are watching the movie rub his penis slowly at first and then get going harder and faster until you tell he is hard enough, but hasn't cum yet. You don't want him to cum just yet. Then get on your knees and take his pants off. Make him get on your bed and lie down. I know you said you don't wanna have sex with him, but taking off your shirt might get him more arroused you still don't have to go all the way though. From there give him a hand job and then it comes naturally from there. Just lick and suck.
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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my boyfriend roosevelt is 16 years old and my cousin atraci says that he wrote her a letter saying that he said that she was more prettier,sexier than i was and that he said that he would have sex with her over me even though she's only 15 but my problem is i don't know who to belive becouse traci has lied to me in that past and roosevelt says that he didn't do it but i want belive traci becouse she's my cousin and i mean why would she lie to me about something like this? (link)
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Here are some answers to if they were lying...
Traci is lying= She could be lying because she is jealous of what you and Roose (hope that's okay that I'm calling him Roose) have together. She may want Roose. Talk to her about this and see if this is the reason she might be lying to you. She also just might be jealous of you period. Maybe she see's what you have and what she doesn't. She wants something of yours and you haven't let her have one, but the second she see's one thing she might be able to have she'll take it. So be aware she might just want to be even with you. And because she's fifteen this could really be the reason. She hasn't quite matured yet.
Roose is lying= Maybe to hime you're not giving him enough. But if this is the deal than you shouldn't worry about that and break it off now. He should take you for who you are not for what his desires are. Talk to him about this and make him tell you the truth. If he is really into you he will end up telling you the truth. Sounds stupid but if he says yeah he did write it he is probably feeling guilty about it and you might wanna give him a second chance. But if he lies and you find out later dump him quick.
You shouldn't have to put up with any of this. If your cousin is lying there isn't much you can do about it but try to get over it with her. If Roose is lying you can get rid of him easy. So do what you think is the best. Try to work this out with either of them.
Kelse Kaye
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Today i went into the cafeteris and this boy on campus that i have not had any classes with and never spoke to said he can't stand me and he meant it i heard it but he was talking to someone else. What should I do? (link)
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The guy who said this...is a dumbass. He has no idea who you are or what you stand for. If he did know you and still said this it was your fault, but because you have never even spoke to him it's not your fault it's his. He wants to look like a big guy and you were just the first person he felt like he could get to. Don't let him get to you and when he doesn't he'll see you aren't the one to be pulling this crap on and he'll move on. Don't get down on this because he's probably jealous of what you have that he doesn't.
Kelse Kaye
P.S. Serioulsy he's the one who looks like a dumbass in this situation...NOT you!
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i have a very strict father who wont let me date or do anything until I'm 18. So how do you make out? (link)
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Making out isn't something that you can really learn from someone else. You have to just do it. So when you're ready and the time comes just make out. It will come naturally and you'll see that ther was nothing to worry about. Don't be nervous or you will have a higher probability of messing up. Don't just rush into it either. You'll know when the right time comes. But also if you need a little boost to push you off into making out with who ever you want to...make them conforatble with you. Don't rush it for them or yourself and they will probably come to you. Well...hope all goes great!
Kelse Kaye
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So I'm going on a shopping spree this spring break, because I've been saving up for a LOOONNNGG time! I have about 1000 dollars saved up, but I don't plan using more than 200 of it!!
Anyways, I'm absolutely in LOVE with rhinestones, so thats basically what I want to spend the majority of my money on, but I need a list of rhinestones.
Heres my list:
*Sunglasses
*Belts
*Accessories (earrings, bracelets... etc)
*NO shirts or pants
Anyone have any other good ideas? (link)
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I love rhinestones too. I have a rodeo based family so it's everywhere. That's my suggestion to you is to find a western store. They should have rhinstones everywhere. But yeah some headbands would be great (Claires), Rhinestones for your phone (Walmart), and a purse (Claires). Claires will have a lot of stuff. You should probably just go there and check out what they have to offer because more than likely you'll find more than what you expected. But with all this glamor you need to be way glamored with your clothes too. So to match all this in don't go with a solid colored shirt from Abercrombie and plain jeans from Hollister. Tie your rhinestones in with your own style. Hit it up at DEB or any other place that adds funk. No boring stuff or you and your outfit will be shot down quick!
Hope I helped
Kelse Kaye
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