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to ask or not to ask?
Hi everyone,I'm 23/f, in a dating dilemna. I was brought up on The Rules and, more recently He's Just Not That Into You. Now I like a guy, think he cold like me, and am unsure whether to ask him out. I;d like your thoughts and experiences, please, to help me find my way.
Thanks in advance!
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Your life is short...don't hold back anything. Do what you want to do. If you think asking him out would be a good choice than do it. If you don't he may have been that perfect one and you could let him slip away. Ask him out if you are really into him. If you're not sure if you are really in to him then just ask him anyways. You have nothing to lose and he has nothing to lose. Ask him and if you don't like him then tell him how you think you should just stay friends.
I'm younger than you, but I have experience with this kind of stuff. Not just with me but my friends and family members. Once my brother had a girlfriend who was as good as it gets. They broke up over those stupid little fights that shouldn't make a couple break up. He then was really sorry he did that and wanted to ask her back out. He couldn't ask her back out though because he was scarred she didn't care for him anymore. She really did though. He didn't ask her out and soon she started to date someone else. He is still in love with her but now she is getting married. It's sad and although you aren't at that level with this guy you should probably stil test it out.
If I was you I would definitly ask him out. Maybe you could talk about double dating just so you will feel more at ease and then if you do like him take a second date alone. You never know, he could be THE one.
Hope I helped, good luck!!
Kelse Kaye
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