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I think I might be bi-sexual
I've been wondering if I was for awhile.. I have had boyfriends, and am definatly attracted to guys.. but I am also kinda attracted to girls to. I've kissed a few girls and.. when I masturbate (oh come on, everyone does it) I usually picture girls... I could see myself having a relationship with a girl too.. is this weird? Am I normal??
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No it's not wierd, and yes you're normal. Lots of people in the world are bi-sexual [me included], and lots of people are homosexual. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it, and whoever tells you otherwise should probably be shot.
If you think you may be bi-sexual, then keep searching for yourself. You won't know your sexuality for a while, and that's fine. Until you're positive you're bi-sexual however, don't state that you are indeed bi. There are lots of people who will jump on your ass about that, and that's the last thing you want.
When you finally do decide that you are, try out a relationship with a girl. If it doesn't work out, don't automatically assume that you're not bi anymore. The relationship may just have been a bad one & you need to try again with someone else. If you feel you're not bi because you're gay or straight, so be it.
The two hardest things about being bi/gay is that it takes you a while to figure it out. It's not something you know instantly. Another thing is coming out. People may not accept you, and they will put you down about it. People may want to hurt you because they think it's unethical & that you're a bad person. Your friends may not want to be friends with you anymore, and your parents may disown you. Lots of challenges come with this, so be prepared for it.
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oh yea i think that ur perfectly normal dont worry and haha yea everyone masterbates whether they admit it or not, haha. my best friend was going through the same thing a few months ago and it turned out that she ended up breaking up with her bf and getting with her gf. and trust me its the happiest ive seen her in a long time. maybe ur just experimemting right now but it could go either way. most people now a days are ok with it and you have nothing to worry about. its easier for some girls to relate to girls than to guys. so its all good. dont stress soon enough you'll know for sure.
SAM
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of course your normal
either boy or girl,
you can like whoever you want
and people will accept you
i have 2 of my close friends that are bi
its not weird so dont worry
hope i helped =]
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