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blowjob
how do i make it REALLY enjoyable for my bf?
please&thanks.
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A blowjob is pretty disgusting when you talk about it so stick with me cus this isn't the best to talk about.
First off guys like being teased. They want you to tease them so when the time finaly comes they are all arroused up. WHisper little nothings in his ear that are sexy. MAybe start up a movie in your bedroom. While you are watching the movie rub his penis slowly at first and then get going harder and faster until you tell he is hard enough, but hasn't cum yet. You don't want him to cum just yet. Then get on your knees and take his pants off. Make him get on your bed and lie down. I know you said you don't wanna have sex with him, but taking off your shirt might get him more arroused you still don't have to go all the way though. From there give him a hand job and then it comes naturally from there. Just lick and suck.
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like the person before me said, talk softly and .. be like "follow me" and lead him to the bedroom. have the lights be dim and tell him "i feel like making you feel better than you ever have before tonight" though its your personal decision, try swallowing since guys seem to like this better. have some foreplay before so its not totally random and he is already a little aroused before you go for it. hope i helped.
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how do you make what exactly enjoyable??
if you are talking about Sex...
You can always start things with a Whisper. "sweet nothings"? Because you don't have to say much of anything for this to work.
You can tell him what he does to you. For example: "You make me feel sexy." or "when you're around, I just can't control myself". Little comments like that really get things started.
Be direct and make contact. Say what you mean, what you want, or what you feel, and touch him when you say it. Do it gently. Sensually. Teasingly. Touch his lips with your fingertips, and saying to meet you in the bedroom. Stuff like that. I love a total display of visualization, Sit him down and do a slow striptease for him to a CD by ENIGMA or something. totally tease him, tell him he can't touch you until you're finished
I personally like to say, "I want you". The classic:, or "You drive me crazy." Or say something like.... "Meet me in the bedroom." Or, "I'll be in the bedroom." while in sexy lingerie or naked, and while on your way to the bedroom. This kind of talk drives men crazy. "Would you like to take a shower with me?" Who doesn't love showering together?
Play the game of "You have to do everything I say." This one's very open ended, and for a reason. It makes me excited and a little nervous at 5he same time. I never know what's coming next. It's a cool little game or roleplay.
To make a Blow Job more Exciting I Just basically deep throat.. men don't wanna have their dick licked they are NOT an icecream you know???
The way to over come this fear of choking or whatever is to take control, tell him NOT to move that you will do ALL the work.
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