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obortion
hey i just wanted to ask and see about obortions my girl is pregnet and i dont know what to do and everyone said that it will be expencive but she dont want it eather what to do?
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An abortion is less expensive than having a baby, unless the woman decides to put the baby up for adoption and the adoptive parents agree to pay for all medical expenses throughout pregnancy and delivery, which is very possible. In the case of termination, the woman or young girl needs to try to make an informed and educated decision, one that considers all options and risks to her body, emotions and beliefs. It is an intensely personal choice that only the pregnant female can make for herself and she will benefit from your support no matter what she decides. If possible, she should discuss the matter with a trusted family member, one that she feels safe to talk to. If she is certain she wants to terminate the pregnancy, then the sooner the better. The longer one waits, the higher the cost and risk of physical complications. Listen to her feelings and try to be there for her as much as possible no matter what she chooses.
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Always respect her decisions on her OWN body, but try to find out why she doesn't want a baby. If she's only choosing not to get an abortion because of money problems, just think of it this way. In the long run, a child(or children) will cost way more than an abortion will cost. But I'm sure there are other reasons to her opinions, too.
If you have a direct opposite opinion than your girlfriend, just discuss it with eachother. Calmy and openly discuss everything. But just remember, always respect her decisions about it. Again, it is her body.
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If your girlfriend doesn't want to get an abortion, don't get one. It's her decision.
Based on the way you wrote this question, i'm going to assume you're very, very, very unfit to be a father. If your girlfriend chooses to keep the baby, make sure you aren't a major part of it's life until you are responsible.
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If you and your girlfriend want to get an abortion, don't listen to pro-lifers. It's your choice, your baby. However, if your girlfriend doesn't want to get one, respect her decision. It's her body and child and if she wants to keep it, you have to be there to support her. In the end, it should be up to her. Good luck, hope it works out ^^.
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Well, my opinions on abortions straight up, are that it is a way of murder. I do not recommend going through this. Seriously if you don't want the baby and she doesn't want it either you should probably give it up for adoption when it is born.
If you weren't ready for this baby in the first place you probably should have thought of that first. Don't abort the baby. That's like killing someone.
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Don't do this to an innocent child. I know you may think that if you have this kid it will ruin your life, but hun trust me it will ruin your life to kill the baby. Talk to your girlfriend about keeping the baby and giving it up for adoption. You don't have to keep the baby once it's born just keep it till it is born. Trust me, if you go through with this you will have a terrible time dealing with it. Do what you think is right.
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it depends. can you & her take care of the baby financially & physically? a baby is a LOT of work, and even adults call over their family members like mothers & sisters to help take care of a new born baby. if you feel that you can raise the baby, raise him or her.
however, if you cannot support the baby, either give it up for adoption so that you don't feel like you are "murdering" the baby, or have an abortion to do what's best for the baby. why raise a child that is depressed and not able to get education, food, and housing? do what's best for your kid.
if she doesn't want an abortion, there's always the possibility, as i stated above, of giving the baby up for adoption. that way, you and her can always visit the baby, and know he / she is alive and cared for properly without feeling guilty.
it will be more expensive and stressful to raise a child properly than to pay for an abortion. taking into consideration clothes, food, education & extraneous things like accessories & toys.
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