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I am a near 30 year old, single, attractive woman who has attended a large scale church for over 3 years now. I have not become a member of the church, but I just enjoy the worship and the teaching. The latter part of 2010, I started noticing the pastor gazing in my direction. I perceived that he may have been looking somewhere else, so I would change my sitting arrangements at church to see if it was a figment of my imagination, or if what I was discerning was accurate. Well, I noticed that no matter where I sat, he would stare with no facial expression, but with great tension in his eyes. I also notice that when I stand up during his preaching, he immediately looks away or avoids eye contact. I have never spoken to this man or have no way of comprehending his behavior, or his perceived mood swings. Any Advice.
There could be numerous things, and they all depend on the nuances you are feeling. You do not specify if he is married, or not...If he is married, and you feel as if he may be wrestling with an attraction to you, I would ignore it--don't change anything about yourself, or what you do. It is his battle to fight with himself, and as long as all he does is look, there is no need for you to acknowledge his actions. Be friendly, gain all the spiritual and emotional support from your experience at church, and he will work out his issues on his own.
If he is not married, and you think his attention is based on attraction, than why not give him a smile? I have noticed something about myself, which may, or may not pertain to you, but if I tend to notice someone watching me, it's because I want to notice him watching me. I have a crush, so I pay attention to what he's doing, and what he's paying attention to. Why not go up and talk to him? At the very worst, you will have a conversation with an individual who holds a spirituosity close your own, and at the very best, you might have a really great connection. I wouldn't project, or imagine what might happen, I'd just go with the flow, be myself, and keep it real. If one of his sermons strikes a real chord with you, go up and talk to him about it, even if it's because you disagree with what he said. Let him get to know who you are, and let yourself get to know who he is.
If you feel as if his attention is not based on attraction, but that he seems concerned for you, (people love to gossip, and this man almost certainly knows more about you than you think he does), it wouldn't hurt to go up to him after service and give a hello. People love to tell stories, and half the time they get them wrong, so any little issue you have had might be all blown out of proportion. He may have the complete wrong idea about you.
So...if he's not married, I'd say smile and go up and talk to him (if you're a little shy or intimidated, it might be a good idea to think about what you want to say ahead of time. Don't entirely script it out in your head, but have a general outline of something to discuss that you truly care about.) If he is married, well, you might have to do a little more soul searching, and try to discern if his attention is out of attraction or concern. There is no good that can come out of encouraging the attraction, and sometimes, when you try to detract a person's attraction, it ends up making them attracted to you more. Hope this helps...
Heres the story
I was in the kitchen and my sis was frosting a cake. (My mom was there 2) And the cake was for my Dad. So I took my finger and licked the frosting off it. And my sis shouted to my Dad ''SHE FINGERED THE CAKE!'' Then my mom and sis said ''That sounded wrong'' And started laughing. I know what it kinda means. I guess. It has to do something with gross stuff with boy and girl... but what is fingering? or fingered?
As a rule of thumb, if your mother feels comfortable enough making a joke out of what your sister said, she would feel comfortable enough telling you what "fingered" means. You should ask her...it might really open up the door to an open and honest conversation between the two of you.
me/18 bf/20
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and we've had alot of "trust issues' eventually i found out that he was cheating on me with another girl so of course i confronted him about it, but he denied the whole thing and said he just firted with her he then confessed everything he ever did during the course of our relationship, he says that he just flirted with girls but i don't believe that this is true, he said that the only reason he did this was because he found out i was flirting with other guys behind his back, but he also cheated before he found out about this, i know it was wrong of me to flirt with other guys but i thought we looked past that but it seems we didn't because he told me that he "got close" with one of his friends too, i guess the reason i'm still with him is because he confessed everything and we could start again, but i'm still uncertain, what if he does it again? i love him so much but i don't trust him at all please help me
In my experience, when people (male or female) give a big "confession," it is usually because you are close to finding something out, so they orchestrate some moving tell all to come out ahead of it. This is not to say that your boyfriend is not being sincere, but if he is, he is one in a thousand, because most of the time, it's a runaround...he's backed into the corner. I would think the thing that is making you think he's telling the truth is because he has admitted more than he had to by telling you he has gotten "close" with another girl, but I would bet if you scratched the surface on the girl he's talking about, you will find that they have more than "gotten close." Typically, people who cheat try to turn it around on the other person. He is telling you he only flirted because he heard you flirted with other people, but wait a minute...didn't you just hear about him and some other people? Did that information make you go out and seek revenge by doing it too? No; you went and confronted him about it, which is what any person would do if they heard something about their partner. I can't tell you what to do...plenty of people (again, male and female) stay with someone after they have cheated, and sometimes it even works, but you gotta at least be honest with yourself--chances are, if you feel like there's something going on, than there's something going on.
Only you can decide what to do from here, but give your own inner feelings more trust than you give what comes out of his mouth right now.
This guy I love is 24 and in special needs. He is at my level of thinking and is an amazing guy, funny sweet caring and everything I want in a guy. But like I said he's 24 and no one thinks I should have anything to do with him. But if he thinks like an 8th grader its ok right? What do I do?????! Idk if he even loves me, but he's given me gifts so.........???????!!!!
I am sorry to say that I have to agree with those who tell you not to date him. Regardless of his disability, it is illegal for a twenty-four year old to have a relationship with anyone under 18, and he could potentially get in a lot of trouble, and it wouldn't even be his fault. Plus, you have got to remember that there is no way this relationship can work out long term; I know you love him now, but you are going to mature, and he is not. You are going to want a family and kids one day, and he probably will never have the mental capacity to do that. Even though you won't mean to, you will really break his heart, and he will suffer self-esteem issues because he will blame it on his disability. In this situation you have to be the mature one and make the right decison. If you don't date him than the two of you can be friends forever...you can always be in his life, and he will always love you and value you. If you do date, it will end badly, you will both be hurt, and you will probably lose him as a friend forever.
How do you kiss?? I've never kissed before besides my dresser and I'm going on a trip in 9 days and I wanted to know just in case? How can I practice
It's hard to explain how to kiss, it's more about how NOT to kiss.
Not too much spit in your mouth. Make sure to swallow beofre kissing.
Not too much tongue. The best way is to kind of lip-suck (if that makes any sense) ith a little tongue every once in a while. You gently suck his top lip for a second, then the bottom lip. You don't want anyone's tongue flipping around like a lunatic in your mouth, so don't you do it, either.
Not too fast--take it nice and slow, all your movements should be slow and gentle.
Don't be separated from the kiss--get involved. Hold him, hug him, run your fingers through his hair.
No stinky breath--that's the worst.
Okay, so I'm gonna keep it short. I'm 20 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been together steadily for six years. Our sex isn't all that I feel like it should be, and I'm wondering why not and how should I go about improving this. Even when the experience feels pretty good, I rarely EVER get my 'big finish", and he ALWAYS gets his, and he always thinks I've gotten mine. I don't know what to do! I want us to fix this problem asap! Please advise me! Thanks =)
First, most women cannot achieve the big finish through man-on-top intercourse until they are at least 27. I don't know why, but it's true.
Also, if he thinks you've gotten off, you must be faking, which is the all-time biggest mistake a girl can make, cuz we all fake when he's going at it like a speed racer (mostly because we think he's ready to finish, and we want to give him a little encouragement), and really that's not what does it for us. Of course, it's gonna be difficult for you to stop faking now without giving him a terrible complex--he's gonna wonder what the heck he's doing wrong when all of a sudden he can't please you anymore. You could even tell the truth, that you've never really gotten off, and that it's your fault, not his, because you have been misleading him to believe something was working when it wasn't. I'm sure he'll be willing to figure out what makes you tick if you give him a chance.
A couple things to remember...
for women, the sex act starts long before the penis enters the vagina. Enjoy foreplay together, and don't be afraid to speak up and tell him what does it for you and what doesn't.
Try getting on top.
well i am 15 years old and there is this boy who comes up here for the summer. He lives a couple houses down from me and we have been hanging out a lot lately. He really likes me and i kinda like him too. About 3 days ago we were about to kiss but we didnt because his little sister was about to see us, so then the next day we actually kissed and yesterday, we made out several times. He calls me all the time and we talk on the phone for hours, he even calls me during his lunch break at work, he also drives his dads truck around my house when he knows im outside:) i really like him but i dont know if what im doing is right because im not dating him, so what should i do??? any advice will be appreciated:)
Kisses are always nice when you are kissing a guy who is nice to you. If he is so sweet and makes your heart flutter...well, how can you help but kiss him? The problem with kissing, though, is that some guys take it to mean you are going to go further. Set your boundaries and stick to them, and then, no matter what, you never have to worry about kissing.
Why does pussies stretch
Why does my nostril stretch when I put my finger in it? Why do my lips stretch when I open my mouth really wide? Skin, in general, is stretchy. I see other posters have told you about birth, but I think you may be asking a different question...I know when I was a young girl I once heard a guy say that another girl was "loose," and when I asked him what he meant, he told me that the more a girl had sex, the more stretched out her vagina got. This is not true...well...not really. Plenty of people in long-term relationships have sex every day, and their vaginas are just fine. I imagine, though, that your vagina is like any other part of your body, and if you abuse it, or mistreat it, after a while it's gonna be in tough shape. Normal sex, though, shouldn't make you "loose."
One way to keep your vagina muscles in good working order is called the Keflex (not sure about the spelling); a girl can do it whenever without anyone even knowing. All you do is just pretend you are stopping your pee when you are not peeing. You can do it like five times, then hold it for a couple of seconds. (just remember that all muscles get sore if they are overworked, so don't go overboard). If you exercize those muscles, it will keep your vagina in good shape, and it even makes having a baby easier.
What's a liberal and a comunist? And what's the diff between a democrat and republican? And is Prez. Obama a republican or a democrat. I'm 13 so can you explain it without all the confusing politics words? I skipped a few grades and I'll be taking a placement test in august that'll have some social studies and American history sections so I think it'll be good to know a little more about some if this stuff. Thanks a ton guys. :)
A liberal is a person who is more open to new ideas, and feels like things should always be changing, where a conservative is someone who thinks people should stick to tradition, and not change too much.
A communist is a person who thinks society will be more fair if there isn't private wealth, and more things are shared between all the citizens. They feel companies shouldn't be owned by a person, but by the government, so that profits can be split equally between all the workers. The opposite of a communist is a capitalist, who thinks that society runs better if people can have private wealth. They think that the competition stimulates society, and that all will benefit because the wealth will trickle down from the very rich to the very poor. A socialist is a person who is kind of in the middle (although some people would say socialists are more communist), and feels that it is good to have some private property, but for the most part, a nation of people should share what they have with eachother.
President Obama is a Democrat. Democrats tend to be more socialist; they tend to want to give more to the poor, and they tend to be more liberal. Republicans (sometimes called GOP, which means "Grand Ol' Party") tend to be more conservative, and they typically think that making things easier for the big businessmen will benefit all people in the country because the businessmen will hire more people and give them more money.
Another way people describe political stances is "right" and "left." A person on the right is usually someone who is more likely to want war, more conservative, more capitalistic, and a person on the left is usually less willing to go to war, more liberal, and more socialist. Lately, people have been using the term "centrist" to describe someone who is kind of in the middle, or who may go to the left when it comes to war, but to the right when it comes to being conservative.
Hope that helped...
I am from Kentucky. I used to date this guy named Braiden three years ago. We broke up because we couldn't get along and we were both too immature for a relationship at that point. However now he is in Afghanistan and we have both matured considerably since then. So we reconnected and decided that we still liked each other. I thought we were back on track and maybe going to talk about getting back together. The next thing I know he is in a relationship with another woman. When I asked him about it he said that he does not know what he wants. Then I decided to move on and see other people. He found out about it and got really angry. He said that if I loved him I would not be with anyone else yet he is still with another woman. He keeps saying he is going to leave her but he never does. Am I a fool to wait around? Why is he doing this?
Deep down, you really know the answer to this question, but it's just so hard to follow through because your heart is involved. So, let's play the "what if" game...
What if you wait for him and he finally leaves the other girl...do you think she will be the last one? You may think it's a different situation because he is away, but you are establishing a pattern in your relationship, and once a relationship pattern is established, they are damn-near impossible to break. Even if the two of you do get together, there will be so many scars, lead-ons, and painful memories that you will have to work out before you have even really gotten started. If he doesn't want you to be with anyone else, he shouldn't be with anyone else--period, no excuses, and no bull.
I had sex with my boyfriend on the last day of my "reminder week" of my BC pills without a condom [Saturday, 6/18]. Due to unforeseen circumstances, I was unable to get my new packet of BC pills and start them on time [Sunday, 6/19]. I took Plan B on Tuesday evening because I was afraid I would get pregnant since I wasn't able to start my new pack of BC pills. I called my doctor and she said that the chances of me getting pregnant is very slim.
I stil have not gotten my pills [USPS kind of sucks] and will hopefully start them at latest next Monday. I started very lightly spotting earlier today and I don't know if that is because my hormones are thrown off balance (since I haven't taken a BC pill for 1.5 weeks now) or if it's because I might be pregnant?
How soon can I take a pregnancy test? I know you should take it as soon as you miss your period but here's the thing:
(1) My hormones are going to be off because I've missed taking my BC pills for so many days and (2) when I do start them, I'm still going to have whacky hormones for restarting the pills, and (3) since I have had extremely irregular periods when I wasn't on the pills, I wouldn't know when I would normally get my period.
Would it be too early for me to take a pregnancy test this weekend? What are my chances of being pregnant?
Typically, a pregnancy test will not be effective until around 4-5 weeks after conception. You probably already know this, but even when you start your pills again, you should continue to use a condom throughout the whole first cycle of pills. Often, a woman can be more fertile than ever before when she has recently stopped taking the pill; kind of like her overies are making up for lost time. Good Luck; I hope it all works out for the best, and madd props to you for being so vigilant and taking responsibility for your body. If and when you do get pregnant, I'm sure you're going to make a great mom.
Recently I decided to let go on a lost friendship with someone who has trash talked me to my face, made me cry on multiple occasions, tells my secrets and then lies about it, forced me to cheat for them, and all of a sudden stopped talking to me without a reason. It's taken awhile for me to realize that this friendship may have started out well, but it took a bad turn. I really want to let go and move on, but I'm having a hard time. Now, I think about all of the good memories we had together. How can I help my self move on from the pain of such a failed friendship?
First, you have to get the idea of "failed" out of your head, because it isn't that you "failed," your sorry-ass so-called friend failed. Of course you;re gonna think about the good times, but also remember that the good times are long into the past--how can you have a good time with a person who you know will stab you in the back tomorrow if they feel like it? Sometimes we stay friends with jerks long after we should have kicked them to the curb because, even after all the bad things they have done, we worry about them and feel badly that we're not sticking it out. They give us guilt trips and play on our emotions, and because they are manipulative the yknow exactly what to say to get us where they want us. Of course, all their apologies mean nothing, cuz they just do it again and again. Whenever you start to feel like she's dragging you back, just remember that the closer you let her in, the more it will hurt when she stabs you in the back. She doesn't care about your feelings; don't care about hers.
I'm a twelve year old girl and need cash...fast.
I owe:
$29 to my mom for not returning books borrowed from the library using her card
$6 more to my mom for breaking her compact powder (I'm clumsy)
$10.65 to library for books not returned
I also need a lot of extra cash because we're taking a trip in five days. My mom deprived me of $50 (birthday money I just got yesterday) because of the $35 I owe her. Add in all those expenses and that leaves me with... negative $90.35. ( I have $5) I also need to buy summer clothes (my closet is full of sweatshirts and long pants). Help!!!!!!! :(
grownups love to see kids show initiative. You could put out little flyers saying you will weed your neighbors flower beds, you can bake cookies and sell them, you can offer to wash your neigbors car, water their lawn, walk their dog. Each neighbor is going to have a different need, so think of what they might need done and offer. I bet most will say yes.
I have babysat before but I have never babysat this girl. She is really sweet and she is 7 or 8 years old. What are some things we can do? I'll be going over to her house. The job is tomorrow. Movies and pop corn? What all could I do with her? Some really exciting things. I'll be over there for about 6 hours. Thanks!!! Also what kind of food should I make for lunch? Thanks soo much!!
Seven year olds love it when people take their feelings into consideration...if you think about it, most people just tell seven year olds what to do and think, but nobody ever asks them what they want to do and what they think. Why don't you ask her what she likes to do, and then give her some ideas of what you like to do? If you speak to her like you think she is smart and has a good opinion, she will love you. (PS..If you haven't seen Toy Story 3, it is a really great movie that you both will love)
The 4th of July is coming up, you could make some streamers, or cut up some red white and blue stars and tape them to her window to celebrate America's independence day
I would like to commend you for taking your job seriously. It is very good of you to really care, and the little girl is very lucky to have you babysit.
I really want to die please can you help me find a fast painless way to do so I have been thinking about this for 2months and I am very sure.
I hope you give life a chance. Do you know that one morning I woke up and my baby, who had been sleeping next to me, was dead? She was two months old, and she died of SIDS. For a long time afterward, I kept wondering why I was even bothering staying alive. I even started hearing voices, it was terrible. I blamed myself for her death, I thought I must have been a bad person, or else why would something so bad happen to me? I thought I didn't deserve to even be alive, and if I stayed alive I was just going to keep getting punished. Life could never be good again...I didn't deserve to have a good life....Then, something good did happen to me, and then something else good, and today I went out and took my beautiful two year old triplet grandsons out, and we had the best day. If I would have killed myself, they wouldn't even be here. I would have denied them life! If I had killed myself, I would never see another sunset, never have the chance to make someone happy, or give someone the chance to make me happy. I would let the people who didn't like me win, and I would prove to them that I didn't have what it takes. Well, I DO have what it takes, and so do you. Maybe tomorrow, some little child will need you, and if you're not there who will she turn to? Maybe tomorrow, you will meet someone who makes you smile all the time. Maybe tomorrow...well anything can happen! Please, don't deny yourself, do you know what I realized about my baby? She wasn't a punishment, she was a blessing...I couldn't see it through the pain then, but she was really an angel, and she grew inside my body...I wasn't being punished, I was being trusted to grow an angel! Right now, it may feel as if you're being punished, but guess what; you will make it through, and then one day you will meet someone who is going through the things you went through, and you will be there to change their life and give them hope. Keep your chin up, and remind yourself of something Mother Theresa said: "I know God won't give me anything I can't handle, I just wish He didn't trust me so much."
Well theres this gurl and her friend Who think they can talk behind my back so she said she wants to fight so i told her to bring it on so tomorrow im suppost to fight er and i have fought before but i need advice on some moves
I am sorry, cuz I know you were up all night worrying about this, and who needs that crap? It is hard when you are dealing with a bully, because sometimes if you tell an adult the bully will call you a sucker or a rat and bother you even more, and it's so hard to ignore them. Sometimes it seems like the only way you can get them to leave you alone is by standing up for yourself and fighting. Just remember that those girls who are talking behind your back may be making you feel badly, but each and every time your name comes out of her mouth, it is only because she is jealous of you. I think you would make her feel pretty stupid if you mentioned that she thinks about you waaaaaaay too much. I mean, why is she spending all this time and effort talking about what you're doing? Doesn't she have a life? I hope it all worked out for the best today. Keep your chin up, don't let anybody bring you down--jealous bitches suck!
so.. my friend and i had sex but not to the point where my cherry was broke & im not shure if he "got excited" in me or not.. if he did.. is it possible for me to get pregnant?
The previos commenter is right, but I also wanted to tell you that a person does not have to get "excited" inside of you for you to get pregnant. The male produces a fluid that most people call precum. It helps lubricate the area so the penis can go inside easier, but it has sperm in it. You should never allow a penis inside of your vagina without a condom, not onlyh because of pregnancy, but also STDs. Girl, don't you know there is some nasty stuff out there that you could end up catching and keeping for the rest of your life?!!? Guys will try to tell you they are virgins so they couldn't possibly have a disease, or give you all kinds of stories to convince you to have sex without a condom, but you have to look out for you. If you are not responsible enough to make smart decisions about birth control, you are not responsible enough to have sex. I am not trying to belittle you, but any person will tell you that once you start having sex EVERYTHING changes. Relationships become so much more complicated, and guys start talking and then coming out of the woodwork to "get some," and since they know you already gave it to the last guy, they are going to expect you to give it to them.
Sometimes, you can get so heated up--you're with a guy you like, he's kissing you, and you get this feeling that comes over you like there's nothing you want more than to have sex and release all that tingly energy. You can get caught up in the moment.
You should try getting to know your body through masturbation...do you know that orgasms actually clean out your vagina and are very healthy? Do you know most girls do not have orgasms through sex until they are well into their twenties, if at all?
So the answer is "yes," you could possibly be pregnant from what you and your friend did.
19/f
So there's this guy in his early twenties that I've been talking to for about 2 weeks now; we work together and he was hired recently.
I talked to him first: Besides the fact that I was drawn to him for some reason, I wanted to be friendly to him because he is new to the job. Turns out he has a really great personality and lately we have been flirtatious. The problem here is that we are both in relationships already.
Our flirting is all done in the workplace: very casual, mostly verbal although he has tried to make it physical - for example, today he poked me, and I playfully responded, "poking me? what is this, facebook?" and when he asked me for my number a few days ago, I told him I had a boyfriend, because I don't plan to take things further with this guy while I am in a relationship, although I do enjoy flirting with him and am anxious to see him again.
For the 9 months I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been completely faithful to my boyfriend, but I must admit that I have noticed this work guy - I mean, I'm not married and am still young so I guess it's okay to always have your options open, right? I am wondering: Do most guys think that way too about their relationships, or is it just me?
I am wondering why the guy from work is flirting with me despite the fact that he knows I have a boyfriend, (pretty much every time I encounter him lately he says, "where's your boyfriend?") and I know he has a girlfriend but I have not met her.
It doesn't seem like he is flirtatious with any other girls at work, so I guess I'm wondering if he is interested in me in spite of his relationship. To be honest, I've been thinking about him...guiltily of course.
I guess I need some evaluation on why I am flirting with him and why he is flirting with me. My question is: Why would someone flirt while in a relationship if both people involved are already taken?
Flirting is OK, and even healthy. It makes you feel good about yourself to know someone is paying attention and thinks you're hot. It is good for your self-esteem. Even if you're in a relationship, as long as you follow "the rules," than you should not feel guilty at all for flirting, or even fantasizing. In fact, your partner is probably really enjoying your attitude, even if he doesn't quite know where it's coming from. Now--The Rules--there is really nothing set in stone, so you gotta think about it and figure what you feel comfortable with, but here's my rules, just to give you an idea...
1. My flirting should never be insulting to my partner. For example, it would not be fair for me to say, "You're way better looking than my boyfriend."
2. The best flirting always leaves the other person with a little question mark, meaning he should be thinking, "Hmmm, I wonder if she/he likes me. I wonder if he/she would consider dating me if he/she wasn't in a relationship." The point is, you don't want to flirt so much that the other person thinks they've got you in their back pocket and can have you any time they want, but they just haven't gone for it, yet.
3. The old golden rule applies here....treat others as you would like to be treated. Don't say or do anything that would hurt you to the core if you found out your boyfriend said or did it to another person. (what goes around comes around, right?)
I know you have probably considered cheating--it's only natural to bounce those ideas around in your head when you're wrestling with an outside-the-relationship crush, but just remember that if you cheat on your boyfriend with this new guy, the new guy will never really be able to trust you because he will already know you're a cheat. You want this new guy to be like, "wow, she's perfect! I would love to have her for my girlfriend!" not "well, she's cute, but I'd be a fool to make her anything more than a bed buddy." He will respect you more, dream about you more, and crush on you more if he knows you're a lady of your word, and you don't play dirty. Plus, he works with you, so that could add all kinds of unnecessary crap into your life if it doesn't work out. You can flirt with someone forever and ever, but once the line is crossed, you can never go back and nothing will be the same. Just enjoy it for what it is, and don't allow thoughts of someone else to affect the relationship you're already in, and definately don't compare. This new guy is new, so that means he's on his best behavior, got a whole bunch of stuff to talk about that you haven't already heard ten times before, and the excitement can seem so much better than the plain old boring, but the guy that has been there has proven himself and you can probably talk about things you would never say to the work guy. Don't forget to appreciate him for that.
a guy wiped his penis in his girlfriend's anis but he did not penatraite, almost the next night he felt straing unusual feelings around the pea hole of his penis, it would come and go for about 2 or 2 in a half weeks then one day it just stopped, any idea why?
Also, feces is filled with bacteria. It is kind of odd, because your own urine is sterile to your body, meaning if you had a cut and peed on it, your pee will act like an antibiotic (this only works on yourself, so don't go peeing on other people's cuts, and certainly don't let anyone else pee on yours), but poo, well that's a different story; it is filled with things that can cause disease. It is a good idea to use a condom all the time, but especially when exploring the anal region.
I'm 18, and sexually active with my boyfriend for the past 3 months. Last night, I noticed (after using the bathroom) that there was pinkish blood on the paper, It was there for several hours but stopped. THen this morning it turned into a brownish discharge. My period ended 2 weeks ago and I'm not due for it again for another 2 weeks, so it's not my period. What's wrong with me? STD? Pregnancy? Please help!!
You could be ovulating. (I call that brown stuff beef stew...I'm sure you can figure out why), and it's normal. Like everything, though, if it gets out of hand see a doctor. Getting on the birth control pill will help regulate your period, if you're not on it already