so.. my friend and i had sex but not to the point where my cherry was broke & im not shure if he "got excited" in me or not.. if he did.. is it possible for me to get pregnant?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? wggnhjl answered Wednesday June 29 2011, 1:43 am: If his penis went in your vagina and you weren't using any form of protection (i.e. condoms, birth control pills, etc.), then there is always a chance that you can be pregnant. It doesn't matter if he "got excited" in you or not. If he was aroused, it is not unlikely that he would have at least had pre-seminal fluids. It is possible that there was sperm in there. If that goes in your vagina, it can fertilize and egg & result in pregnancy.
Not to be offensive, but you sound way too young to have sex, and have much to learn before you can be responsible being sexually active. I would hold off on having sex until you know what you're getting yourself into. And definitely use protection unless you want a baby. [ wggnhjl's advice column | Ask wggnhjl A Question ]
Xui answered Tuesday June 28 2011, 4:48 pm: People seem to get the whole "cherry popping" misunderstood, If you had sex for the first time that doesn't necessarily mean you have then "popped your cherry" A hymen can be broken from something as simple as bike riding etc.
If the penis had contact with the vagina then it is always possible to become pregnant, A simple thing as pre-cum is possible and believe it or not the pull out method isn't safe either. Nothing is ever 100% safe despite using birth control and condoms. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
kristamikele answered Tuesday June 28 2011, 1:49 pm: The previos commenter is right, but I also wanted to tell you that a person does not have to get "excited" inside of you for you to get pregnant. The male produces a fluid that most people call precum. It helps lubricate the area so the penis can go inside easier, but it has sperm in it. You should never allow a penis inside of your vagina without a condom, not onlyh because of pregnancy, but also STDs. Girl, don't you know there is some nasty stuff out there that you could end up catching and keeping for the rest of your life?!!? Guys will try to tell you they are virgins so they couldn't possibly have a disease, or give you all kinds of stories to convince you to have sex without a condom, but you have to look out for you. If you are not responsible enough to make smart decisions about birth control, you are not responsible enough to have sex. I am not trying to belittle you, but any person will tell you that once you start having sex EVERYTHING changes. Relationships become so much more complicated, and guys start talking and then coming out of the woodwork to "get some," and since they know you already gave it to the last guy, they are going to expect you to give it to them.
Sometimes, you can get so heated up--you're with a guy you like, he's kissing you, and you get this feeling that comes over you like there's nothing you want more than to have sex and release all that tingly energy. You can get caught up in the moment.
You should try getting to know your body through masturbation...do you know that orgasms actually clean out your vagina and are very healthy? Do you know most girls do not have orgasms through sex until they are well into their twenties, if at all?
So the answer is "yes," you could possibly be pregnant from what you and your friend did. [ kristamikele's advice column | Ask kristamikele A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Tuesday June 28 2011, 9:19 am: YES!! If he came in you or had any type of pre-cum release it is possible that the sperm released in the precum or his climax made you pregnant.
The fact that he did not break you "Cherry" has nothing to do with it. Some hymens are very elastic and stretch which means your boyfriend could have pushed yours a side or even through the hole in yours.
You don't say how old you are so my advice is as follows. If you are not old enough to accept the responsibilities of the possible results of sex then you are to young to be having sex. When you are old enough to accept the responsibilities of having sex but do not want to get pregnant you and you boyfriend should take responsibility for proper birth control. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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