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Q: I cant remember like anything that happened in the book. All I remember as a major conflict was that edward and bella and the wolves and all of the cullens are in the mountains or something and victoria and the newborns come.
I dont remember any details about it.

Victoria had a mate named Riley with her. Seth and Edward killed Riley and Victoria.Bella cut herself to distract Victoria and Riley.The rest of the pack and the cullens were fighting the new borns. Seth and Edward became good friends after that.So did the cullens and the pack they did'nt really hate each other anymore. Edward and Jacob were competing for Bella.But Bella Chooses Edward in the end and Jacob comes to accept it. Bella and Jacob had a conflict because Jacob wanted something more while Bella did'nt in the way Jacob did. Kinda get it now? If you need anymore help just let me know.

♥ danielle

Q: Okay...is it possible for guys to get an erection while they're...being sexual with a girl they have no attraction to? Like if they were hugging, the guy wouldn't...would he?

yup, it's possible.

♥ danielle

Q: What is one major conflict that happens in the book, I cant rememberrrrrr !

Ahhhhh im a huggggggggeeeeeeeeeee twilight fan!

well edward and jacob are.
edward,jacob and bella.
bella and victoria.
vampires and wolves.
newborns and vampire/wolves.

theres quite alot actually,if you need anymore just let me know.

♥ danielle

Q: so it feels like things are going really well for me lately. i actually feel happy with my life and with who i am. i feel confident and i havent gottne upset or sad or anything for quite a while. ive also stopped looking for a relationship and love. and ever since i've stopped looking ive felt so much more confident about myself and everything. i havent been able to really explain this to any of my friends and i dont thnk any of them would understand. so i thought i would write about it here. idk i just feel greattt. =)

haha thats good im happy for you! i know exactly how you feel ;)

that's how i am right now,im not looking for anyone right now and i dont need a guy too make me happy and ive been the most confident and happiest person ive been in a long time.

thanks for inboxing!

♥ danielle

Q: so halloweens on a friday this year and there are prob conna be a lot of parties and stuff and i want a really great costume. Im 16/f... and 5'8" so i dont really wanna wear heals cuz then i'll be way too tall
i want something sexy (but not slutty) and possibly scary

I work at party city and we have like 500 costumes for girls it's insane! lol since i can't name them all (that would take up way too much time lol) i thought i would give you a link to the website instead :)

http://www.partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?parties=Halloween&productstype=Adult%20Female

hope these help,if you need soem more ideas just let me know ;)

♥ danielle

Q: so this guy and i have been friends for a while now. but we just really started hanging out these past few weeks. i kinda of have a thing for him and i think he MIGHT have a thing for me. we talked one night and he used to like me and the way he was acting when we hung out the first night it seemed like he still liked me. his friend though also likes me and they're those kind of guys that they dont care who the girl likes, its who the guy likes outta the group. so with his friend liking me i feel like it's kind of bringing down my chance of getting to know the one i like. theres also another problem. he's kinda mean to me. like not in a serious way but in a way that makes me mad. and sometimes makes me feel like i want to leave and cry. the past few guys that ive gone after havnt showed me that they're worth my time. ive been cheated on by almost all of them. and deff lied to, too many times. it just feels like he's gonna be just like them. ive asked him if he likes me but he's always like, idk my friend likes you bla bla bla. i feel like im betraying him. but he knows i like him. im about to just say nevermind but whenever i begin to think that he turns around and starts acting like he really does like me. i dont exactally know how to act around this because everytime im around him he always makes me mad. of course i know that if someone treats you like that than obviously he's not good but i dont know. should i keep trying or stop trying and let him go and see if he comes back.

im SO SORRY i getting get to this questions sooner between work and school im like never home anymore lol

I actually think you answered your own question with the second to last sentence "i know that if someone treats you like that than obviously he's not good" your exactly right. I mean come on, if a guy really likes you then he would want to get to know you and be a total gentlemen to you. A guy that likes you would'nt make you feel like crap.The fact that he sometimes makes you want to leave and cry you don't want a guy like that in your life he's a jerk and totally not worth your time.If his friend is the total opposite and is considered the "nice" guy and has a history of good past relationships i would go for him. If he's a jerk also,then i would wait till a better guy comes along,and don't worry there will be ;) just don't waste your time on that guy he's not worth it.

♥ danielle

Q: so this past week ive been feeling sooo ugly. i dont know what it is. but i feel like im the ugliest girl on the f-ing planet. or it seems like everyone else around me is becoming extremely pretty. each day i just feel even more ugly than the day before. and ive never really complained about this kind of stuff but it's comin back harder than ever. im not depressed over it but it's bringing me down. i know i shouldnt care about what i look like because i know that other people think im pretty. but my self confidence and esteem is way down in the dumps. ive also met this guy and normally id be compeltly open to have a relationship. actually that's something ive been looking for, for a while and now that i think i might ahve the chance i dont want one..WTF?!?! ughhhhhh

I know EXACTLY how you feel i have a low confidence level myself.In school i always compare myself to other girls and think their so much prettier then me and so my confidence level goes down even though people say im a very pretty girl.My friend and I actally do this thing where when were both feeling down about ourselves we say "yay were beautiful!" haha corny i know but it actually makes me feel better to say im "beautiful" so it gets me a little confidence boost.You know what's a good thing to try? go look in the mirror and instead of pointing out the flaws on your body point of the postitives.For example,"i have pretty blue eyes" "i have curly hair that not alot of people can pull off" "i have an amazing personality" "im funny" things of that nature that will deffinately perk you up.I do that all the time and it makes me feel better because your nor focusing on the negatives about yourself,just the postitives.Love yourself for who you are,your unique,your different then everyone else,your what makes you YOU! Stand tall and look straight when your walking not at your feet.If you see a girl that's pretty be like "yeah she's pretty,but im better" get a little cocky attitude! lol Another good tip is maybe even giving yourself a makeover it can be something small like a new haircut,or a manicure some thing that will make you have confidence in yourself :) And if you have a chance with that boy go for it! he likes you for who you are,so dont stress like if your saying "oh im not good enough for him" YES YOU ARE! just the step you need to take is too love yourself first then the boy comes second ;D

♥ danielle

Q: i shave my vaginia a lot and i get realllyy bad razor burn but i really need a way of healing it because i have a boyfriend and he can not see it!!!!!!!

do you know how to cure razor burn???

ugh i absolutely HATE razorburn.I found a few websites that i thought might help:

http://www.wikihow.com/Treat-Razor-Burn

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080809124235AAYDyOY

http://www.oohoi.com/natural%20remedy/home%20remedy/Home-Remedy-for-Razor-Burn.htm

http://www.iloveindia.com/home-remedies/razor-burns.html
http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/health/how-to-get-rid-of-razor-burn/

I actually got razor burn a few weeks ago,and i needed it gone fast.I looked online and found a website where someone said put deodorant on the area i thought noway that works but it actually really does! i put on dove deodorant and some lotion on the area and in one day the burning sensation went away and in 3-4 days the deodorant kind of formed a pimple where the ingrown hairs were and i just popped the pimple like thing out lol it really works trust me! :)

♥ danielle

Q: Do you still get discharge when you're pregnant?

Yes,discharge is a body's way of cleaning itself. You should have discharge that is clear and dosent smell whether your pregnant or not.

♥ danielle

Q: 15/f

Me and my ex broke up ages ago, but we've been on and off for about a year.
But then about a few weeks ago we had hardly seen each other, he didn't know where he stood and started to like this other girl. He said he was over me and that he liked her.

But now, me and him have been hanging out together a lot and flirting,I see him look at me like he used to, we talk on the phone for ages, he always invites me out and seems upset when I don't come, and goes quiet if I mention another guy to someone.

But he also likes this other girl, and he goes to sixth form with her and spends a lot of time with her, and everyone seems to assume they're going to go out.

I really love him, and want to be with him, how can I get him back?

This website pretty much sums up what i was going to tell you:

http://www.wikihow.com/Win-an-Ex-Back

♥ danielle

Q: I'm looking fot a specific video. It was on My Space a while ago and its a 9/11 video where the little girl loses her father. Its a really cute video and I want to know where to find it again.

Im pretty sure this is the video your talking about:

http://www.guzer.com/animations/miss_daddy.php

it's so sad,i watch it every year.

♥ danielle

Q: is there a maxim hot 100 for men? i mean like 100 hot men instead of women?

I'm almost postitive there is'nt one for men (considering maxim is a men's megazine,i dont think guys want to look at other guys haha).Theres a sexiest man alive list? i think people megazine does it.

♥ danielle

Q: how do i make double pictures

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070311192734AAUQo6f

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080226014726AAMAEql

Copy one of the pictures into paintshop,or a similar program.Paste the other picture below it,save it then upload it onto your Myspace.

here's the code you put it into your caption under the picture you have:

i hope this makes sense if you need anymore help just leave a question in my inbox and ill happily help you or explain things better for you :)

♥ danielle

Q: my ex and i have been seperated for awhile, and we took each others virginity, and i don't want to sleep w/ everyone, but we aren't going to get back together, and won't ever talk, like before dating again.
so how would i suggest he come over, for sex, only, like in a text or something?

just say "hey wanna come over?" or "you wanna mess around tonight?" and if he says why or whatever just tell him no strings attached i just want to have a little fun,or ask him if you guys can just be "friends with benefits" until one of you is in a relationship.Although i would'nt suggest doing that.It can get either you,him,or both of you hurt in the process and not to mention they can complicate things if one of you gets into a relationship.So if your ready to handle just having sex with him and not having feelings toward him again then go for it,just be careful.If you have anymore questions just leave one in my inbox ;)

♥ danielle

Q: 15/f
Ya I have an Ex that I broke up with over the summer because he was cheating on me, and now he wants to go back out again and I kinda still have feelings for him, what should I do?
plus nobody wants me going out with him.

the key phrase is what you just said "no one wants me to go out with him" that usually means that people see something in him that you dont.My friends and family were like that.If i introduced them to a guy i liked,they could tell right away if he was a good guy or not.Friends and family see things that go undetected from you because you like the guy when he's really not a good guy.I believe in the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater" chances are if he cheats on you once he'll cheat on you again.In my opinion i would move on from this guy,there's plenty of more better fish in the sea why settle for a goldfish when you can get a swordfish you know? haha

♥ danielle

Q: are starbucks membership cards free? what are they for anyway?

nope their not,you get rewards and discounts things of that nature.

The website tells you all about it :)
https://www.starbucks.com/card/default.asp?cookie%5Ftest=1

♥ danielle

Q: Lose my voice before Tuesday?
It's hard for me to lose my voice. Don't ask why, I just want to lose it.

ha completely random but okay..

http://www.ehow.com/how_4466493_perm-hair-straight.html

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061216181214AA2BAg1

http://malaysia.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070407124223AAwz3TL

http://boardsus.playstation.com/playstation/board/message?board.id=offtopic&thread.id=2302205&page=1

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080401234519AAkye68

best way in my opinion is by screaming...alot. That works trust me lol

♥ danielle

Q: let's say your boyfriend or someone you really like asks you to give them head. well, not asks you, but says it like "give me head." or "get down." or "how bout a blow job?"

how can you say no? or reject them? and they don't have to be nice rejections.

First of all,if a guy forces you to do anything,he's deffinately not worth your time.Ive been told by an ex to do things for him that i didnt want to and ended up breaking up with him.Just say im sorry but im just not comfortable with doing that yet,im not ready,i dont want too or just a flat out no.It's okay to say "no" to something,you dont have to do something you dont want too do ;)

♥ danielle

Q: is it true that you can get a perm that makes your hair flat or stirate?

sorry cant spell!!!!

yup you can get it relaxed,my friend did that before.If you go to the hair dressers,it can last for up too 6 months but its also quite expensive.It also can damage your hair so youve been warned ;)

this website shows you how to do it:
http://www.ehow.com/how_4466493_perm-hair-straight.html

you could also do it at home,but you have to make sure you knwo what your doing or you could mess your hair up.

♥ danielle

Q: 15/f

i've been thinking about drinking a cup of warm green tea everyday before school. does it have any good health benefits? like will it give me more energy? thats what i need, it has caffine. thanks!

Yum i love green tea,it has alot of health benefits :D

http://www.squidoo.com/benefits-green-tea

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/44315/the_benefits_of_green_tea.html?cat=5

http://www.farsinet.com/hottea/medicalbenefits.html

http://www.knowledgebase-script.com/demo/article-447.html

It does give you natural energy,but it dosent last as long as coffee does.

♥ danielle