Question Posted Wednesday September 3 2008, 2:28 pm
15/f
Me and my ex broke up ages ago, but we've been on and off for about a year.
But then about a few weeks ago we had hardly seen each other, he didn't know where he stood and started to like this other girl. He said he was over me and that he liked her.
But now, me and him have been hanging out together a lot and flirting,I see him look at me like he used to, we talk on the phone for ages, he always invites me out and seems upset when I don't come, and goes quiet if I mention another guy to someone.
But he also likes this other girl, and he goes to sixth form with her and spends a lot of time with her, and everyone seems to assume they're going to go out.
I really love him, and want to be with him, how can I get him back?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? anniemaylane answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 9:36 pm: Well Win back is a understaightment, I mean he's not a dog or anything, ( no offense).
I think the best thing to do in a tough situation like this is to be straight forward tell him how you feel and ask what in the world is going on. Then you'll know where you stand. Because if he IS flirting wiht you then somthing is going on in his mind when he does and it's most certainly not that other girl!
IF HE DOES say that your just friends, then well. YOUR just friends, at least for now, till he get's over the other girl. But if he does say just friends, no matter how disapointed don't shut him out or ignore him, then he's pretty much gone from your love life forever. Still be friends, just tell him you now have a NO FLIRTING POLICY atleast till he's free from the other girl! [ anniemaylane's advice column | Ask anniemaylane A Question ]
jealousyxo answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 4:27 pm: This website pretty much sums up what i was going to tell you:
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