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shy bf? or not interested?
So ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half. He is really quiet! People say he is only like this around me. I understand that probably means he is just nervous around me, but this relaionship is getting a little strainuous because of it. Conversations are so awkward, the very little amount of times we have them. We dont go to the same school, so i only see him when we make a date, and thats really awkward too. We never have anything to talk about...
Idk it's just... tough.. anything would be helpful, just dont say hes just nerovus give him time cause i already got that, thanks ;)
elise 15/f
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try breaking through the wall of shyness.
Anything to get him talking, just bring up something random or whatever.
My boyfriend is shy too, and after the first day i got him to talk up a storm and we're really happy together now.
Sometimes what happens with shy people, is that they have this big emmmotional personality busting up inside them, and if you're lucky, he'll share it with you.
Also, you said he isn't like this around you, so when you talk to those people he'sapparently not shy around, ask them what he's like. Just so you know.
Another thing you could try doing is-
be friends with him first?
and then if things go well, turn it into a big and strong relationship
good luck! (:
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Some guys are really shy around the person they like, he most probably really likes you and is too afraid to say anything wrong to ruin anything, he doesn't really know that by him doing that, he's actually straining the relationship. Have you tried talking to him? Tell him you feel that he isn't interested, that should make him jump to his feet. Tell him how you feel basically, it's how you feel and no one can blame you for YOUR feelings! I'm sure he finds the conversations and dates awkward. Don't punish yourself if it isn't working, if you feel like it isn't then, tell him that, it probably was better being friends and nothing more. You never know, the two of you could probably really good friends, and the awkwardness would fade, and maybe, just maybe, something more than friendship will come out of it! If it has to.
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