hey im kim
im funny
love to act sing and read.
i have a huge personality and a strong oppinion which is why i made this advice column.
animals are awesome, so respect them (: !
im a big "GO GREEN" person
and the one thing about myself is
i am not normal
im loud and hyper all the time
im refered as "the bouncy kid"
ask me anything on advice
and ill be glad 2 help youu!
im great with advice.
so dont be shy
anything you wanna ask me, go right ahead!
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Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: September 2, 2008
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My names cherry, im 15 years old and me and my boyfriend mark have been together for almost a month. I no i'm young but i really do love him so much and recently one of his close mates is saying all this horrible stuff like, "oh you can do better.. bla blaa" and he dosen't even no me and i don't even no him :S but yea ever since he's said this mark's been acting really weird with me.. like he won't say love you and hes deleted the pictures of me and him off his phone. I've obviously asked him why he's been acting different and he claim's he hasn't.. I've also asked him if he's going to dump me and he says no.. but i really don't know what to think.. has anyone ever been in a situation like this? Thanks, Cherry x (link)
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Ugh,
im the same age and we're at the age where all the guys want to impress their friends, and take what their friends think by heart.
So, im guessing he really does love you, but he just doesn't want to show it in front of his friends.
I know that sounds kind of jerky, but i'm sure he'll grow out of it.
Every guy does, and if he dumps you, im sure he's missing out.
I've had the same situation before, and the guy always ends up not being worth it.
From what you're telling me i hope he's different.
Guys your age are generally not what they seem to be.
See what happens and give it time
good luck(:
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13/F
Ive been working out for a while now
i was overweight before
but now im skinny
jus got a little tummy so thats why im still working out to lose it,i do the same thing all the time but ive noticed that im sweating less than before
everyone is tellin me thats a good thing
cause it means im skinnier and have more stamina "energy"
so its a good thing right?
and now that im skinny is it going to be harder to lose the weight now? (link)
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Well, i'm not a big person to talk to about weight.
but, what i do know is that your body is getting used to working out.
its a very good thing, so you're right.
And i think you might have to work a little harder to lose the weight, but not enourmously harder.
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So ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half. He is really quiet! People say he is only like this around me. I understand that probably means he is just nervous around me, but this relaionship is getting a little strainuous because of it. Conversations are so awkward, the very little amount of times we have them. We dont go to the same school, so i only see him when we make a date, and thats really awkward too. We never have anything to talk about...
Idk it's just... tough.. anything would be helpful, just dont say hes just nerovus give him time cause i already got that, thanks ;)
elise 15/f (link)
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try breaking through the wall of shyness.
Anything to get him talking, just bring up something random or whatever.
My boyfriend is shy too, and after the first day i got him to talk up a storm and we're really happy together now.
Sometimes what happens with shy people, is that they have this big emmmotional personality busting up inside them, and if you're lucky, he'll share it with you.
Also, you said he isn't like this around you, so when you talk to those people he'sapparently not shy around, ask them what he's like. Just so you know.
Another thing you could try doing is-
be friends with him first?
and then if things go well, turn it into a big and strong relationship
good luck! (:
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hey heres my problem... my mother is bipolar and she is manic depressive... it doesnt help that she wont take pills to help her. im only 13 and im the only one who lives here with her. i feel so much guilt and hate toward her its unbelievable. i feel so helpless. she has no one but me, so i cant leave her all alone. i would love to know if you could give me some advise on what to do.
thanks for the help,
Kirsten L. (link)
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Well, you have to understand the fact that she's bipolar.
Just be there for her, to comfort her and love her.
I know you feel alot of hate towards her and everything but afterall she is your mom.
She probably has done alot for you.
So even though you dont feel love for her, atleast act like you do.
Because i expect it's not easy for her to be bipolar.
And i also understand your side because it's not easy for you to put up with it, and its probably aggravating and whannot.
When times get frustrating, just go up to your room and do your own thing.
or talk to your best friend or a close friend or a relative or whoever you can pour your feelings out to!
muchh luckkk
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I have a girlfriend right now... And I'm not sure how things are going with her... I still love her I just miss my ex. I thought things wern't working out with her because we fought too much but I didn't know what I was losing. I miss her more than anything but now she wont talk to me. I'd do anything to get her back but she wont talk to me anymore. Do you know what i should do?
17/m (link)
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Wow, this is tough.
Give it time.
That's all the advice i really can give you.
See what happens with you and your current girlfriend, and try to talk to your ex.
If your ex starts talking to you, appologize and tell her you miss her and ask what you think you guys should do.
As for your currrent girlfriend, i say you should stay with her until your ex talks to you more.
But i also understand you love her, and it'll be hard.
Do what you think is right, and figure out who you like more.
As time passes the answer should be more clear.
Sorry you had to be in this mess.
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the one girl i like the most likes my best friend. i'm one of her "good" friends. my best friend dosn't even like her. i'm there helping her try to win him over though even though I like her. help? (link)
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well, she cant resist a good friend thats for sure.
i think you should still help her out with the problem even though you like her.
It will prove to her that you really care about her, and when she grows out of your friend. I think you should tell her you like her.
It doesnt hurt to tell the truth.
Hope all goes welllllll (:
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Ok, I have this friend that knows I really like this one guy. A few minutes after I told her that she asked him out and she always hugs him in front of me and everything. It is getting really annoying. When she asked him out he said, "yea but what about tyler?" And then she said "I dunno yet," and I am so confused with her. She has been going out with both for a week and she knows how much I like the one guy. I dunno what to do because she knows that I like him but won't break up with him so I can go out with him...and she alreay has a b/f (link)
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Then why are you friends with her?!
If she does this this time.
who's to say she wont do it again, and hasn't done it to you in the past.
Move on with her, shes doing it to annoy you and she is just jelous.
She also seems like a player, cuz you said she already has a boyfriend.
I say, tell the guy you like whats happening with her, and who she really is.
Then, hopefully, he'll immidiatley lose interest.
Nobody wants that kind of girl around.
Unless, she appologizes, and fesses up.
That's the only time i would enen consider being her friend.
But she sounds like a meanie pants (im so mature i know haha) so i doubt she will.
(:
good luckk!
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I just recently started dating my boyfriend. I've known him since we were younger because we went to school together. Throughout high school we never really hung out with the same people so i wasn't around him that much. He's been in the army for almost a year now and when he was just home on leave we started dating. Even though we were only hanging out for a week, we really noticed how much we like eachother. Do you think i'm wasting my time in this relationship since i can't see him that much and we didn't have a chance to get that serious with eachother?
I care about him a lot and i would really like the relationship to work out but i could use someone else's advice. thank you. (link)
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I see no reason to start seeing him
sure you wont be able to see him as much as you would
but that only makes the time you actually have more special together, and romantic.
but, you should make sure he's worth it first.
But from what you said, he sounds like a great guy (:
good luck!
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so im 16/f a jonior in high school.
okay so in 8th grade i went out with this guy he was in 6th but we aren't far apart in age bc i have a later birthday. I really liked being with him and i know thats wierd bc i was only 14 but i did. he was my first real boyfriend and it was really great. well i broke up with him after i graduated to high school bc i was getting sick of all the crap from everyone else sayin hes only gonna be in 7th grade when your a freshman. Seriously, i regret breakin up with him!
well now hes a freshman and im a jonior but its so different in high school with age and every thing no one tells you about it like in jonior high and i just could care less what anyone
thinks anyway. Well i dont know how he feels and we have no classes together but i see him in the hall a lot, hes in my lunch shift too. when i look at him i feel such a big connection and i cant ignore it. we are the only 2 in the room and i cant concentrate in school or anything, i have never ever felt like this before. i havent caught him staring at me extensively but if our eyes catch somethings there like a spark you know? well the homecoming dance is coming up in october and i reallllly really wanna go with him but i dont think he will ask me, he is a little shy. but i dont wanna ask and get turned down or maybe he already has a date or something but its killing me and i need to go with him. so the question is how do i start a convo with him kind of randomly i guess and how do/will i know if he likes me too if he wont make the first move?!
please please helpl!!
ps. hes the only guy i have ever really dated still...oh i just like him a lot help! (link)
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ohmygod this is so weird.
I had the same problem!
I got alot of crap from EVERYBODY even my family for going out with him. But me and him learned to ignore it and just focus on being in love, my friends all gave me a hard time and everything and were telling me to break up with him.
But something inside me knew i belonged with him.
Dont listen to what people say, beacause now weve been going ut for seven months and im so happy.
But anyways, heres what you do-
next time you see him smile and if he returns the signal- say hey to him.
And talk for a while, and then bring up the dance and ask if hes going with anybody.
If he says no- make your move however you wish (:
But if hes going with someone it doesnt neceserrily mean they're going out. So go anyway just to hang out, and maybe hang out with him.
If he doesnt seem interested move on- but i highly doubt that will happen because from what you've said you two seem to have a connection.
Anyways, good luck and i hope you two turn out happy.
(:
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i have fine,thick, wavy hair,and i want to make it more curly, like this
https://anitagrant.com/images/stories/newsletter/BackBlondeCurlyHairSmall.jpg
any products that wont weigh my hair down, that will enhance my natural curl to achieve this? *i dont want to use any heat products*
i've heard bedhead sells some good curling sprays called "foxy curls" or something, anyone try it? if so, how does it work? thanks for your help (link)
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Herbal essences has a gel that you could get at rite aid.
http://img.nextag.com/image/2-PACK-Herbal-Essences/1/000/006/054/633/605463373.jpg
this stuff is great too
http://img2.timeinc.net/instyle/images/2007/products/june/SHL/051707_victoriassecret_c.jpg
i have wavy hair too that i like to curl sometimes and sometimes what i do is braid it before i go to sleep or put it in a bun but that doesnt work as well as hair gel but its good for when you need a quick style.
and the bedhead is great, ive had it.
(:
good luckkk!
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okay. so me and my boyfriend went out for a lil over a year and a half. i am madly in love with him, but he just kept lieing to me, so i broke up w/ him. not even 3 weeks after he already has another girl. he tells me that hes over me, but that he still loves me. last night he told me that he was falling for me again. and i was gonna take him back. but then he decided that he was too worried about wat his current gf's friends would do. i love him so much. and im trying to just let go and move on. but its sooo hard. and its killing me seeing him w/ her. =/.
any advice? i know i deserve better. but maybe i dont want better. i just want him. gah. i hate my life. =/. (link)
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aw im so sorry ):
well, first thing you have to do is let him break up with her first.
i know exactly what you mean, you only want him.
No matter how bad he treats you.
i've been there, done that.
and its not pleasnt.
and i dont blame you for wanting him again, you have probably been through alot together and it breaks your heart when you see him with that girl.
The only way you can be honestly happy is if you talk it over and find out what you both want.
Talk to him, and then when all is done, destiny will reveal itself whether you were meant to be or not.
tell him how you feel when you see him talking to other girls, and how you feel about him.
Spend some time to really get to know the real him before you trust him with a relationship again.
Now, i dont know what kind of lied he was telling but im judging it must have been bad that you broke up with him for it.
Tell him that you dont like it when he lies to you(unless you already have).
i know exactly how you feell..
=/
Good luck!
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