Question Posted Wednesday September 3 2008, 7:55 am
My names cherry, im 15 years old and me and my boyfriend mark have been together for almost a month. I no i'm young but i really do love him so much and recently one of his close mates is saying all this horrible stuff like, "oh you can do better.. bla blaa" and he dosen't even no me and i don't even no him :S but yea ever since he's said this mark's been acting really weird with me.. like he won't say love you and hes deleted the pictures of me and him off his phone. I've obviously asked him why he's been acting different and he claim's he hasn't.. I've also asked him if he's going to dump me and he says no.. but i really don't know what to think.. has anyone ever been in a situation like this? Thanks, Cherry x
Hes immature. His friends opinions mean alot to him.
Honestly, I'd break up with him. Theres a reason that sex, and even alot of the time dating isnt a good reason until the late teen years. People just aren't mature enough.
Its obvious that this isnt going to last forever. If you break up with him now you teach him a valuable lesson, listen to your friends and act differently and you can screw up something thats actually good.
If girls were harsher on guys for being assholes, I think guys in general would be better off for it.
kimmycutiex33 answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 4:11 pm: Ugh,
im the same age and we're at the age where all the guys want to impress their friends, and take what their friends think by heart.
So, im guessing he really does love you, but he just doesn't want to show it in front of his friends.
I know that sounds kind of jerky, but i'm sure he'll grow out of it.
Every guy does, and if he dumps you, im sure he's missing out.
I've had the same situation before, and the guy always ends up not being worth it.
From what you're telling me i hope he's different.
Guys your age are generally not what they seem to be.
See what happens and give it time
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es answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 3:26 pm: ok so he listens to his ridiculous friends over you. he deletes your pictures off his phone just to make his friend happy. he's not thinking with his brain and he's listening to some kid.
what you need to realize is that if all it takes is "you can do better" to make him listen and delete stuff, then he's really not that amazing. i'm sorry but if a boy is dating you and can't respect you and listens to his friends over you than its YOU who can do better. if one of your friends told you that you could do better would you start deleting all evidence of you two dating? if he's shallow enough to do this then YOU CAN DO BETTER AND I HOPE YOU DO.
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