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My Ex and My Girlfriend
I have a girlfriend right now... And I'm not sure how things are going with her... I still love her I just miss my ex. I thought things wern't working out with her because we fought too much but I didn't know what I was losing. I miss her more than anything but now she wont talk to me. I'd do anything to get her back but she wont talk to me anymore. Do you know what i should do?
17/m
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BREAKUP with the current girl friend, that's FIRST TOP PRIORITY no girl deserves to date a guy when he's feeling for his ex.
THEN you might want to consider an nice email or call to the ex. To appologize. Then just see where you guys stand see what in the world is happening
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I'm guessing you forced yourself into a relationship when you weren't ready for one. My advice to you is to break it off with you current girlfriend. You are hurting her more by being with her and thinking and missing your ex, that is unfair. So tell your ex that you don't think you're COMPLETELY over your ex, and you find it very unfair to tie her down by being with her and dreaming about another person, - this shows your sensitive and caring side, girls appreciate it! But if you don't want people knowing that you aren't over your ex, then, just tell her that, you aren't ready for a relationship and need some time to think it through.
After you have broken up with her, stay single. Be sure that you have completely healed and then get into another relationship, but only when you're totally ready. Don't confuse love with infatuation. Figure out what is which and then, get committed, that includes NOT thinking about anyone else but that one.
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Wow, this is tough.
Give it time.
That's all the advice i really can give you.
See what happens with you and your current girlfriend, and try to talk to your ex.
If your ex starts talking to you, appologize and tell her you miss her and ask what you think you guys should do.
As for your currrent girlfriend, i say you should stay with her until your ex talks to you more.
But i also understand you love her, and it'll be hard.
Do what you think is right, and figure out who you like more.
As time passes the answer should be more clear.
Sorry you had to be in this mess.
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