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i dont know what to do....
okay. so me and my boyfriend went out for a lil over a year and a half. i am madly in love with him, but he just kept lieing to me, so i broke up w/ him. not even 3 weeks after he already has another girl. he tells me that hes over me, but that he still loves me. last night he told me that he was falling for me again. and i was gonna take him back. but then he decided that he was too worried about wat his current gf's friends would do. i love him so much. and im trying to just let go and move on. but its sooo hard. and its killing me seeing him w/ her. =/.
any advice? i know i deserve better. but maybe i dont want better. i just want him. gah. i hate my life. =/.
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You don't hate your life. You hate a single thing that isn't going right in your life at the moment. Your ex boyfriend doesn't know what he wants. You can't have two different cakes and eat them both. Sorry, it just doesn't work. You need to let him go and sure it'll suck and hurt like hell but in the long run you'll be stronger and better for it. You'll be wiser.
He's not being fair to you or his current squeeze of the moment and he'll hurt her the way he hurt you. It's a cycle that only he can break. Sometimes in life we don't always get what we want and we can't fix everyone or mold them into what we want them to be. So naturally, we hold on even tighter when we should be letting go.
Give it time. Let him go. Tell him to let you go. Your heart will feel heavy at first, believe me it's not easy. But I guess life's got alot of tests for us - and hoops for us to jump through. Heartbreak is one of them. You'll survive. We always do. :)
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aw im so sorry ):
well, first thing you have to do is let him break up with her first.
i know exactly what you mean, you only want him.
No matter how bad he treats you.
i've been there, done that.
and its not pleasnt.
and i dont blame you for wanting him again, you have probably been through alot together and it breaks your heart when you see him with that girl.
The only way you can be honestly happy is if you talk it over and find out what you both want.
Talk to him, and then when all is done, destiny will reveal itself whether you were meant to be or not.
tell him how you feel when you see him talking to other girls, and how you feel about him.
Spend some time to really get to know the real him before you trust him with a relationship again.
Now, i dont know what kind of lied he was telling but im judging it must have been bad that you broke up with him for it.
Tell him that you dont like it when he lies to you(unless you already have).
i know exactly how you feell..
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Good luck!
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