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how do you go about this when you like one person but his friend likes you
so this guy and i have been friends for a while now. but we just really started hanging out these past few weeks. i kinda of have a thing for him and i think he MIGHT have a thing for me. we talked one night and he used to like me and the way he was acting when we hung out the first night it seemed like he still liked me. his friend though also likes me and they're those kind of guys that they dont care who the girl likes, its who the guy likes outta the group. so with his friend liking me i feel like it's kind of bringing down my chance of getting to know the one i like. theres also another problem. he's kinda mean to me. like not in a serious way but in a way that makes me mad. and sometimes makes me feel like i want to leave and cry. the past few guys that ive gone after havnt showed me that they're worth my time. ive been cheated on by almost all of them. and deff lied to, too many times. it just feels like he's gonna be just like them. ive asked him if he likes me but he's always like, idk my friend likes you bla bla bla. i feel like im betraying him. but he knows i like him. im about to just say nevermind but whenever i begin to think that he turns around and starts acting like he really does like me. i dont exactally know how to act around this because everytime im around him he always makes me mad. of course i know that if someone treats you like that than obviously he's not good but i dont know. should i keep trying or stop trying and let him go and see if he comes back.
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I actually think you answered your own question with the second to last sentence "i know that if someone treats you like that than obviously he's not good" your exactly right. I mean come on, if a guy really likes you then he would want to get to know you and be a total gentlemen to you. A guy that likes you would'nt make you feel like crap.The fact that he sometimes makes you want to leave and cry you don't want a guy like that in your life he's a jerk and totally not worth your time.If his friend is the total opposite and is considered the "nice" guy and has a history of good past relationships i would go for him. If he's a jerk also,then i would wait till a better guy comes along,and don't worry there will be ;) just don't waste your time on that guy he's not worth it.
♥ danielle
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