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how do i stop thinking about this
so this past week ive been feeling sooo ugly. i dont know what it is. but i feel like im the ugliest girl on the f-ing planet. or it seems like everyone else around me is becoming extremely pretty. each day i just feel even more ugly than the day before. and ive never really complained about this kind of stuff but it's comin back harder than ever. im not depressed over it but it's bringing me down. i know i shouldnt care about what i look like because i know that other people think im pretty. but my self confidence and esteem is way down in the dumps. ive also met this guy and normally id be compeltly open to have a relationship. actually that's something ive been looking for, for a while and now that i think i might ahve the chance i dont want one..WTF?!?! ughhhhhh
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I know EXACTLY how you feel i have a low confidence level myself.In school i always compare myself to other girls and think their so much prettier then me and so my confidence level goes down even though people say im a very pretty girl.My friend and I actally do this thing where when were both feeling down about ourselves we say "yay were beautiful!" haha corny i know but it actually makes me feel better to say im "beautiful" so it gets me a little confidence boost.You know what's a good thing to try? go look in the mirror and instead of pointing out the flaws on your body point of the postitives.For example,"i have pretty blue eyes" "i have curly hair that not alot of people can pull off" "i have an amazing personality" "im funny" things of that nature that will deffinately perk you up.I do that all the time and it makes me feel better because your nor focusing on the negatives about yourself,just the postitives.Love yourself for who you are,your unique,your different then everyone else,your what makes you YOU! Stand tall and look straight when your walking not at your feet.If you see a girl that's pretty be like "yeah she's pretty,but im better" get a little cocky attitude! lol Another good tip is maybe even giving yourself a makeover it can be something small like a new haircut,or a manicure some thing that will make you have confidence in yourself :) And if you have a chance with that boy go for it! he likes you for who you are,so dont stress like if your saying "oh im not good enough for him" YES YOU ARE! just the step you need to take is too love yourself first then the boy comes second ;D
♥ danielle
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