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hey. my name is christina. cool people call me X. so can you. kelly is my best friend. you can see her column on KELLY ELIZABETH i absolutely love basketball, shopping, and friends. stupid question=stupid answer. go ahead, ask me anything! dont be shy!

advice

how do u flirt with your crush without making it obvious or not to look desperate?

hey. you should check out these sites:

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirtbasic.html

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/proflirt.html

hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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any tips how to talk with my crush?

hey. act natural and flirt. here is a site:

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/talkcrush.html

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/phone.html

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/doeshe.html

hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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-what is threading

-what is the differences between threading and waxing?

-if i were to do one which one is a better idea?

thanks

hey.

threading is:

http://www.hairfacts.com/methods/threading.html

waxing is:

http://www.hairfacts.com/methods/waxing.html

i would wax. you can find more places that do it and i think that it would be less painfull. you can also do it in the comfort of you own home ;] hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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i'm only 14 but i got my period late. the first time i ever got my period was Jan.15...then i got it again on Feb.12...i know that when you first start getting it your not on a regular schedule yet but i'm getting worried. i haven't gotten my period again since Feb.12...is this normal? how do i know if there is something wrong with me?

hey. it may seem strange, but i think that you are okay to me. you might not have started your full cycle. you should be getting it soon. here is a site that may help:

http://kidshealth.org/teen/question/periods/irregular_periods.html

hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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What is foreplay?

http://www.answers.com/foreplay&r=67
hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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What should a 14/f mile time be?

hey. the average time is usually between 6:30 and 8:30. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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I have to give this Eighth Grade Speech tomorrow on my four years at my school. I have no idea what to write. Any ideas or like advice I could give?

Examples: Always be yourself.

hey. just remember to make it fun and up beat, no one wants a boring speech. tell them to have the time of their lives and to always follow their hearts. tell them to make smart descisions and take actions that will affect their life in positive ways. bring up fun time that the school has had and let them remember what great times they had at that school. here are some sites that you can look at:

http://712educators.about.com/cs/speechestopics/tp/speechtopics.htm

http://www.indianchild.com/graduation/graduation_speeches.htm

good luck! hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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What should I do if i like this boy and we hug in the hallway and i have his number, but I am scared that he will not like me if we start to be friends? What do i do?

hey. it seems to me like you are already friends. i mean if you guys hug in the hall and everything... call him. just ask if he wants to hang out or just talk to him. here are a few sites:

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/frienddate.html

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/phone.html

just be natural. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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I have a hairy stomach

there i said it, lol

seriously, my stomach is kinda hairy, not like thick dark hair, its blonde but there is a lot of it. If i shave it, it will grow back coarser and darker (just like leg hairs do) and i would have to keep shaving it the rest of my life. Nair causes a skin reaction and i get red and it burns and waxing would probably irritate my skin as well. What can i do to get rid of this gross hair that i feel i am the only person who has it?

PLease dont tell me to just accept it for part of who i am , that kinda pisses me off a little becuase i dont want it so why should i accept it? please respond!!

hey. my advice would just be to shave it and try it out. if its blonde hair then i wouldnt worry too much about it, but if you do worry about it then just shave it! you can still get smooth legs after shaving many times dont you? yeah! so just shave it for a while and see what happens. you could even try waxing it. i would take the risk if you are worried about it. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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can you bleach hair with straight bleach? or is it horrible for your hair?

hey. DONT DO IT! regular bleach will just take ALL of the color out of your hair and make it white. if thats what you want then go ahead, but if you go to a hair salon, they can bleach it for you. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X♥

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ok, so my bf and i will just be talking and what not and he is lying on the couch and i just want to say to him" oh my god you are so effing hot i have every reason on earth to jump on top of you and furiously make out." But that would be wierd.... so how can i get to that place where i can actually do that. how can i "seduce him" into making out with me without sounding desperate?
I will rate HIGH if someone can give me a line to make him realize that i WANT to kiss him ALOT...something i could SAY to him that would "send him the message" and we dont have to "take it slow b\c we have been friends forever....

hey. haha. yeah i think that it would be a little weird if you say that! if you want to go deeper into your relationship, then i would sit closer to him and like start whispering in his ear or something. start flirting with him and start playfully hitting him or something (not hard though)here are some sites that you can look at:

http://www.mynippon.com/nao/story_39.htm

http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/kiss.html

you can just tell him that you think he is really hot. if he says something like.. "oh yeah?" then you can be like yeah, i want to kiss you or something. just let it come natural! hope this helps!! ;} ♥-X-♥

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i heard that the boxes on rubiks cubes just pop out. is that true?

hey. this is possible. it ruins all the fun though, but you would be able to solve it if you popped all the cubes out. they may not fit as well after though. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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What does "black on black" mean?

hey. it means when you have black pants on and a black shirt on. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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Okay..I have a reaaally bad Tanline on my chest from a halter top swimsuit. My 8th grade Promotion is in 2 weeks, and i'm wearing a strapless dress. What should I use? Will self tanner work? Oh, and I don't want to go to a tanning salon.

hey. my advice would be to use a self tanner. i was skeptical at first, but then it worked great! i used Banana Boat Sunless Tanner. you should apply it everywhere to make sure that you look even. it lasts for about a week, so i would use some now, see how it turns out, and then use it again before the Promotion. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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Okay this is going to be REALLY long, this all started when i was doing my clothes at around 11.... i wanted to clean some of my clothes so i would have something to wear tomorrow.

so i threw 2 pairs of abercrombie pants in the wash and dryer. so my mom was all like throw some of my jeans in! but i was half way threw the cycle to put any thing else in the the wash so i didnt bother.

then we went out and i was all nice to her. very nice. this lasted till about 3?

then i got home around like 3:30, and wow was it hell. i put my jeans in the dryer. so they would be dry for about 4:00. then my mom threw in some of her stuff, so i threw in the whites that were dirty in too. no problem with that right?

Okay this is when the shit started, i threw her stuff in the dryer without looking. [with my whites....] and so i did that so i could wash my so lows. so i did that. no problem right?

okay so my mom SCREAMS AND YELLS. becuase her stuff apparently shrunk 2 sizes. i told her if she wants to fit into them again, [ps their like designer] so she starts a hussy-fit with how everything gets broken left and right. and i dont need this beause i have finals from the 13-20th. do i need peace and quiet. but Apparently i cant get it sence my mom is bitching [sorry but i dont have anything else to say for that]

and i didnt invite her to dinner because i dont allow whiners eat the food i make, [im like a chef and planning to be one] so i made pretty good food. its hard to resist ;]

but like, then i was eating then she said to my dad, ricky, sister, melissa, and i, laura, "i hope you bastards [im quoting the EXACT words] fucking die form that taco shit you call food, and i hope you CHOKE AND DIE"

what should i do? call the cops. HELP!

hey. sorry about that. the best thing to do tight now is to just talk to her. apoligize to her that you shrunk her clothes and tell her that she owes you an apoligy for saying tht stuff to you. she is just mad and she needs some time to cool off. write her a note saying im sorry. that always works for me. i wouldnt call the cops unless she physically attacks you, because then that would be an assult. you could also talk to your dad about some of the problems that you are having with your mom, maybe he could help. just be patient. good luck!! hope this helps:: :] ♥-X-♥

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hey, i tried a spray-on SUNLESS TANNER (neutrogena) and it was AWFUL! i had streaks all down my legs and it was so EMBARRASING!I mean, i prepared my skin and everything, but it still looked bad. do any of y'all know a good sunless or ANY fake tanner that can give me a natural look without screwing up, and if it DOES screw up, how can i get rid of it...fast? PLEASE tell me if you have any suggestions!

hey. ha that is kinda wierd. i just got done using instant tanner when i read this question. sorry about the streaks. the product that i use is Banana Boat Sunless Tanner. it works wonders. you should give it a try. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥

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i REALLY want to shop at a&f and hollister and stores like that. it's not because everyone else does, it's because personally i like there clothes. my parents make me shop at wal mart and it's messing up my social life. i hate wal mart's clothes and shit and my friends ask me why i don't wear the good brands. and it's not like my family can't afford good clothes, because my dad's a multi millionaire. they just don't understand WHY i want to spend so much on clothes. i've made up my mind and don't tell me it doesn't matter what i wear because i'll give you a 1. i need to prove to my parents that shopping at the expensive stores is worth it. and i can't make any money on my own because if i do, my parents say I CANT spend it on a&f and hollister clothes. it's messing up my social life. i wont have friends ever again because i cant wear nice clothes. im done with wal mart so what can i say to my parents so they'll let me shop where i want ?!? i'm old enough to choose where i want to purchase my clothes, especially when my dad was over 1 million dollars.

anything good will get you a 5
i promise

hey. the best thing that i would suggest would be to tell your parents that as long as you earn the money and use it to buy your own clothes then you should be able to shop where you want. i understand how you feel when your parents want you to shop at different stores then where you want too. it is so annoying! you can even tell them that not all the stuff at those stores is expensive. i have gone there and gotten some really good deals! hope this helps! :] ♥-X-♥

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okay so i wanna loose like 5 pounds and i want to make my stomach a little tighter i was wondering what excercises do you suggest is the best is the fastest way to loose weight ?

thanks.

hey. here are some sites that you can look at that may help:

http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/ss/abexercises.htm

http://www.bodybuildingforyou.com/training-fitness/ab-exercise-workout.htm

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/loseweight.htm

these are good sites. i hope they help!! :] ♥-X-♥

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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?

thanks guys.

hey. dont worry about it! it is just a myth. there is nothing to be scared of because only one person knows when the world is going to end and that is God, and i do not believe that we will all die. besides, my best friend is having surgery on the sixth... the world wont end. trust me. hope this helps! :] ♥-X-♥

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ok so im sorry if this seems like a stupid question but it's really bugging me. anyways im 16/f and i have a problem with my body image! i wear size 4 usually in american eagle jeans but just recently i've been able to wear size 2. for some reason i keep thinking that wearing a size 4 is overweight or something. i guess it's because i hear all the time that celebreties should be size 2 or something. can someone please help me get over this cause i think about it all the time!! i rate 5s!!

hey. HOLY MOLY! i would die to be in a size 4 pant. i am 14 and i have to wear a 7-8. you are two years older than me and wear 2 sizes smaller than me! you shouldnt be so concerned about the celebrities. after all, they are payed to be super super skinny and they have personal trainer and all that jazz. no one HAS to be anything. you just have to accept yourself for who you are. you have to realize that this is how you were made and everyone is different. here is a site that may help you:

http://www.kidshealth.com/teen/your_mind/body_image/body_image.html

hope this helps! :] ♥-X-♥

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