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i just bought this striaghtener
is it good? i havent opened it yet so i would like your highly skilled opions =]
i paid 50 dollars for it in a local store but on their website it says 65 dollars so i was hoping that means its a pretty good striaghter
plz help =]
thanks buches
http://www.conair.com/infiniti-instant-heat-ceramic-inch-straightener-p-71.html

Hey! Conair is a very good straightner. It is very reliable. But if you need more reassurance go to your local hair salon and get the opinion of a stylist there. They specialize in hair products. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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Well my BEST friend is overweight but at the same time is REALLY pretty. She's never had any sort of thing with a guy, and the one boy she did really like, always ditched her. But now she has the lowest self esteem ever, and I was just wondering id you knew anything I could say to her to make her feel better. More than just "You're beutiful and any guy would be lucky to have you." I want to get it through her head that the right guy is out there and she really is a beautiful person.

Its really great that you are concerned for your friend. Just keep encouraging her. Also maybe if you have some guy friends or even cousins, you could fix her up with one. Try even going on a double date to make it less awkward. Just keep encouraging her! Hope my advice helps!
♥ Jenny

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Well, I do have one friend. She's not in my grade so I barely see her besides weekends. & even then, she has other friends to hang out with as I used to...

Which brings me to the real topic. I lost all my school friends. They got into drinking & hanging out with people who do that & smoke & everything but.. I don't like doing that. Today I tried telling them that we're not even friends anymore & I feel stupid still acting like we are, when in reality I have none. They told me that they've changed & I haven't. & they wanna like, make the best out of high school. So I'm supposed to do what? One even told me to hang out with these other girls who I'm only sorta close with one of.. & I have social anxiety disorder so it's really hard for me to just ask people to hang out when I barely talk to them. This sucks. They made it worse by saying that I could make friends & stuff.. it just feels awful to know I have no friends at school. Even though a lot of people talk to me at school, they'd never think about asking me to hang out. Which is even worse than not having any friends besides a small clique. Now summer's coming up & I'm going to have no life.. I don't know what to do with myself right now. Should I say anything to my old friends? How do I make new ones without feeling like an idiot? How do I see my old friends & act like nothing happened?

This helps to get it out & I don't really know exactly what I'm asking here but if anyone can relate? shed some light? Please.

Unfortunatly if your friends dont want to change, you cant make them. Even tho its close to the end of the school year try asking the one girl you know if she wants to catch a movie or a bite to eat. Or maybe you can start a conversation with someone you dont really know. Try going up to them and say something like "hey i really like your shirt. Where did you get it?" if its a girl. Youll make friends in no time! Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
P.S I'll be you friend! :D

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So this usually doesn't happen to me, but recently I've been getting bad gas. It smells DISGUSTING and I can't hold it in. And it lasted for like 6 hours today!!! This is a major problem, I don't want people to think of me as some gross chick who farts all the time. What is causing this? How do I stop it!!??!?

There are medicines you can take such as Gasx and Beano that you can take that will prevent gas. Check at your local store.
Also it might be due to a recent change. Are you under stress? Have you changed eating patterns? These factors also help to contribute to your gas problem. Just relax and give it a bit of time. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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what is happening with the shows on mtv? first there was those dating shows that they showed a few times, and then they were canceled. then recently i liked the shows taquita & kaui and living lahaina, and they havnen't been on in weeks. they stopped after a few episodes. its pretty retarted. anyone know why?

The shows that were deleted might have had low ratings. They might have been loosing the company money. They were probably deleted due to that reason. Also, mtv might want to bring fresh newideas to the network. Dont worry tho. Some of my favorite shows are no longer on tv either. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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me and my man live together and have for like a year and a half now. I was recently looking for a picture in his folder on the computer (with permission of course) and i looked in a folder marked "random" cuz i couldnt find it. Well, in that folder was porn. Tons of it. movies, pictures, sound files ... now none of it was like kid porn (cuz that is sick) but it kind of makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?

I would confront him about it. If you dont he might just keep looking at it and youll worry about it. It doesnt make him a bad person but he needs help. If he becomes angry maybe try going to a therapist or getting advice on your relationship. Good luck! Hope my advice helps!
♥ Jenny

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Hey everyone. I have kind of a stupid question. How many questions do you have to answer to become a featured columnist? ♥fabulous

You need to have answered at least 100 questions to become a featured columnist. Good Luck! Keep answerin! Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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What, exactly, does friends with benefits mean?

Friends w/ benefits means having a friend, who is not your boyfriend/girlfriend, that you have a sexual relationship with. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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I just graduated from High School. I'm worried about going through the rest of my life without having any friends. The friends I had in high school really weren't friends at all. I only saw them in school. If there was ever a chance to hang out, it was always me that did the inviting. They never included me in anything. When I confronted them about not including me, they'd make up lame excuses. It hurts my feelings that they did that and now that we're out of high school, I know I'll probably be even more left out than before.

All I have right now is my boyfriend. He is my best friend and the only person out of all my friends that actually calls ME to make plans. He's the only friend that actually wants to hang out with me.

Since my other friends never want to see me, I just spend all my time with my boyfriend. Which is fine, but I don't want to go through the rest of my life having only one true friend.

My question is, how can I make things better with the "friends" I have now? How can I get them to include me? Should I even waste my time with them anymore?

When I go to college, will I be able to make new friends? How should I go about meeting people? Has anyone else been in this same situation?

I wouldnt worry about you old "friends". It doesnt sound like they are good ones. I think its great that you and your boyfriend are so close. You can definitly trust one another.
In college you will make a bunch of friends! There are other people experiencing the same situation. When you go to school try to be outgoing and be nice to people. People will remember your pleasent personality and will probably come to you a lot.You can also join some clubs. That way you can make some friends that share the same interests as you. Hope my advice helps!
♥ Jenny

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does anyone know some new good spanish songs?amnd what good chemical romance songs are there?thanks

Here is a list of songs off of MCR's cds:
The End.
Dead!
This Is How I Disappear *
The Sharpest Lives
Welcome To The Black Parade
I Don't Love You *
House Of Wolves
Cancer
Mama *
Sleep
Teenagers *
Disenchanted
Famous Last Words

Helena
Give 'Em Hell Kid *
To The End *
You Know What They Do To Guys Like Us In Prison
I'm Not Okay (I Promise)
Ghost Of You *
Jetset Life Is Gonna Kill You
Thank You For The Venom
Hang 'Em High *
It's Not A Fashion Statement, It's A Deathwish
Cemetery Drive *
I Never Told You What I Do For A Living *

I starred my favorites. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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I'm 5'8" and I weigh 127 I would like to be 117 because i'm just not happy with my figure. How can I lose the weight? I don't eat half the time and that doesn't work. I also work out everyday I play volleyball and basketball throughout the week so I'm not just sitting around.

Try just staying away from sugary drinks like soda. Walking can help you lose weight and it can help tone your legs as a bonus. Also try doing basic exercises such as situps and cruntches. Good Luck! Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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I now have a daughter N Law that doesnt like me. We are oil and water. When she comes to see her dad, she ignores me...even at my birthday party..she came out of duty but didnt even say hi. However, when she wants her hair cut, she asks me to save her money and do it. I sacrifice my husband being home every Friday to go to spend time with his grandson (her son) and we also watch him often overnight to help her out...however I am tired of being taken advantage of. If we talked I would have no problem with it, but her blatent rudeness has gotten on my last nerve. She takes advantage of her dad too but he loves her and its his daughter so he doesnt seem to care...but I DO. What should I do? Do I tell my husband I dont want to be taken advantage of and I dont want to be her hair stylist anymore? I have known her for 2.5 years and it is getting steadily worse.

She is definitly taking advantage of you. Sit down with both your husband and daughter and tell them how you feel. She has to learn that she can't treat you like dirt and then expect favors. You have the right to say no. Your husband also needs to respect your decision. Maybe sometime in the future IF she learns to respect you, then maybe you can start to cut her hair again. But for now just refuse until she learns how to treat you better. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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well all my friends now how to french kiss, but i dont. can anyone help me?

French kissing is just kissing but you have your mouth open and you touch tounges. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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Can somebody help me find a good way to bring in a little money without getting a job because I am only 15 ?

Try putting up flyer around your town for odd jobs. Babysitting is a big thing. You could also do some chores around your house. Your parents could give you an allowance. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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does anyone have any good default names?
i mean mine isnt very creative its
"myname

Try putting something that is going on in your life. For example mine is Jenny[is graduating on thursday] because im graduating. Or you could add a design such as ~*~name~*~ or something like that. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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ok. so this is prolly like the weirdest question around, but o well. so i'm 14. my birthday was in january. i really want to get my learners permit, i have the book and everything, but there is one problem. i don't want to get it because of my weight. cause, ya know, they put your weight on the lisense, well, i weigh a lot more than most people think. and when i get it all of my friends will be like OMG!! you got your lisense, let me see!! blah blah blah... so anyways, i don't want people to make fun of my weight, but how else will i ever drive?? help!!! thanks!!

You have a couple of years until you can get your permit so if you want to loose weight, you have plenty of time. Go walking or exercise or something if you want to loose weight. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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what is the point of poking someone on facebook?

I guess its supposed to be a cute thing n Facebook. Its probably just for fun :D. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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ive been going out with this guy for about 5 days now i think? he is one of my best guy friends so i mean i know him well and all but hes very shy when you first meet him. and hes very shy in terms of physical relationships. i really want to just give him a hug because that hasnt really happened yet. what is a good way to get him to hug me or to make it less awkward to hug him just out of the blue?

Just hughim out of the blue. Itll seem more romantic. He might be waiting for u to make the first move. Hope my advice helps! ♥Jenny

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i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th grade. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th] grade, i was over him. we went out in march through april. i broke up with him cause i thought i liked his bestfriend. then i relized i didnt. and he wouldnt take me back. may 10 he started going out with another girl. im still .. missing him. i dont talk to him anymore, but hes my next door nabior. so when we were going out we hung out everyday for a long period of time. i keep thinking of all these memories. he wasnt a mean guy at all. we talked for hours after we broke up cause i was so sad. i really cant stop thinking about him. is their anyway i could get him back? should i wait until him and his new girlfriend break up? should i talk to him, but about whatt? .. im so confused.

Wait until they break up cause it will make you look bad if you break them up. Thenwhen they do explain to them that u miss him and that it was a mistake to break up with him in the first place. Give him time and space. But in the meantime, maybe u could try dating again. There are plenty of guys out there and you shouldnt wait for him. You have a life too. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens! ♥ Jenny

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its about time for a new screen name for me but i can't think of any good ones. here's some info if it helps

i like the color pink, i'm 15, i'm a total prep and i'm pretty materialistic. My nicknames are lana, gabes, irg and lala. i'm pretty much in love with my fendi bag, guess sunglasses and diesel jeans..that's about it about me..

XopinkxprepoX
or somethin like that. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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